A lot of the times men focus more on what to do and what not to do before sex and during sex, but very few men focus on what the women want after sex.
Sex requires quite a lot of emotional and physical involvement for it to be above ordinary, and knowing what your partner wants (both physically and emotionally) before, during and after s*x is what would make it awesome.
Like people say ‘different strokes for different folks’, but a lot of women would really love the following after a nice time in the sheets:
1. Cuddle
Most women love to cuddle their man after sex; it provides that emotional connection with their man, and makes them feel special and wanted. It somewhat passes a message that you enjoyed every bit of it and really do care as well. Whereas when you refuse to cuddle after sex, you pass a message of being uncaring, selfish and only wanting them just for your sexual pleasure.
2. Fondling
While some women love to be left alone after sex, most also love to fondled; this leaves them with all manner of sensation and leaves them geared up for the next round.
3. How good they were
Women really love it when they are told ‘you good are in bed’; it gives them that sense of fulfillment and could probably make them feel that you won’t be meeting another lady since they satisfy you. Telling them this would really be a boost to their ego.
4. A little conversation would do
A little conversation after sex makes it worthwhile to most women; it adds a bit of connection too. It could be jokes, conversation about what to do later in the day or the next day; it could be anything, as far as it’s an active conversation.
5. Tell her how much you care
There is hardly a much better time to tell a woman how much you care about her than just after making love. To most women, a man’s action after sex would determine how seriously he takes her. If he still sincerely tells her how much he cares after sex then it would mean a lot.
6. A little snack would help
A light food or snack after sex would do a world of good; have you ever tried it? Most women wouldn’t mind; let me rephrase — most women would love to be fed a bit after sex; it isn’t just wonderful, it’s awesome.
7. Care and attention
Women love not only care, but they also love attention after sex. Watching TV, leaving immediately, being busy with your phone and other things just after sex would make her feel unappreciated. Give her that care and total attention after sex, and she would love it.
It’s a pity that most men can’t help but sleep after sex. To be fair enough, after reaching climax, the human body releases the hormone oxytocin which would make man sleep. However, most women would still want the aforementioned from their man immediately after sex…you can sleep afterwards.
ELCREMA
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