Signs he will never marry you

Sometimes many women ask themselves the big question: ‘will he ever marry me?’ and too often, men do not seem to have the answer to the question.

Some women prefer to wait for their boyfriend to get ready or pop the question spontaneously but the wait is vain when the boyfriend never seems to do so.

There are times when the man has many excuses like financial stability, getting his life together or he is too busy to think about marriage. There is always an excuse and these arguments are always meant to keep you around as long as he doesn’t marry you.

The first thing to wonder is when a man knows he is going to marry his partner.

It varies from one person to another but some studies show that it takes between six and seven months for a man to know if he is going to marry and spend the rest of his life with his current partner.

During that time, the man already knows if he will marry you or if you are just wasting each other’s time until they all have enough.

This does not mean that the man should immediately ask for your hand. It only means that during the relationship, the man always knows if you are a wifey material.

Below are signs showing that a man will never marry you:

Telling you that he will never get married

Many women ignore this fact but if a man has repeatedly told you that he will never marry, you should take his word for it.

So many women believe what we see in romcoms assuming that a man will change his mind about marriage but it is far from reality. If a man has told you many times that he does not see himself ever marrying, you should believe him when there is still time.

There is no reason to continue to waste your time on a person who has already told you what his plans are.

You have never met his family

Usually, when a man gets serious with a woman, typical signs would be showing her to his family, to see what they think and if they approve, this is an indicator of how to know if he wants to marry you.

It is very rare and somehow impossible for a man to plan marriage with you if you have never met his parents or in the least his siblings. So, if you have been together for a while and haven’t met the family, marriage is probably off the table.

He does not want to plan for the future with you

When people have been in a long-term relationship they usually plan their future together and see each other in their future.

If you have also been in a long-term relationship but your partner does not seem to want to talk about the future with you there is a problem.

He may know that planning the future would involve bringing up the question of marriage, pushing him to avoid it at all cost.

He always has excuses

When he always finds excuses when you bring up the marriage question, it is a clear sign of what is on his mind.

For example, if he keeps making excuses not to get married, the answer is probably no.

He can sometimes say, he has to be financially stable first which is totally right but if he has landed a big promotion and is doing well but then makes another excuse for not getting married, this is a pretty clear indicator that marriage isn’t in his plans.

He lives like a single man

If your boyfriend acts like a bachelor, he still considers himself as a bachelor.

If he always goes out without telling you and is always hanging out with his single buddies flirting with girls, that man is single and he still can’t make you his priority. He has no intention of tying the knot.

Claiming that he doesn’t know if he is ready

Sometimes a man may not really feel like he is ready to marry which is totally normal. But if you have been in a long-term relationship with him and he still feels like he is always claiming he doesn’t know if he is, it is a sign he never will.

People are different; things can vary from one person to another, but if you don’t have the same direction or understanding of things, it is better to go your own way.