Having sex with an ex could be a tempting proposition sometimes but just before you call your ex and have sex with him or her, here are 7 reasons why I think it’s a bad idea.
1. YOU BROKE UP WITH YOUR EX FOR A REASON
Before you have sex with your ex, you need to remember you broke up with your ex for a reason. Having sex with your ex won’t fix things but would only end up complicating things between you and your ex.
2. HAVING SEX WITH YOUR EX WILL HOLD YOU BACK
You would find it really difficult moving on if you continue to have sex with your ex. You might say it’s just casual sex but the truth is that the more sex you have with your ex, the harder it will become for you to move on.
3. HAVING SEX WITH YOUR EX COMPLICATES THINGS
Having sex with your ex is like a disaster waiting to happen. When you have sex with your ex, the sex sometimes makes one of the two to still expect exclusivity and this only complicate things.
4. THERE ARE LOTS OF OTHER PEOPLE YOU CAN HAVE SEX WITH
Why complicate things in your life when there are lots of other people you can choose to have sex with? Why go back to have sex with someone who rejected you? Doing this would only destroy your self-esteem.
5. HAVING SEX WITH YOUR EX STRENGTHENS THE BOND
You can’t move on to someone better if you keep having sex with your ex. Having sex with your ex strengthens the bond with your ex and makes it difficult for you to move on.
6. HAVING SEX WITH YOUR EX BRINGS BACK MEMORIES
Having sex with your ex will only bring back memories you really want to forget and most of the memories will definitely be bad memories you are trying to forget.
7. HAVING SEX WITH YOUR EX WON’T BRING BACK YOUR EX
Having sex with your ex won’t bring back your ex no matter how good the sex was. So why don’t you move on and share that experience with someone who really wants to be with you.
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