5 Lies about sex you should stop believing now

There are several lies about sex you probably believe and this lies might just be ruining sex in your relationship.

Below are 5 lies about sex you should stop believing now.

1. SEX SHOULD BE PERFECT ALWAYS

People usually put unnecessary pressure on themselves and their partner by expecting sex to be perfect always. You can’t climax everything you have sex so please stop focusing on climaxing and focus instead enjoying the sex. Sex won’t always be good with your partner, there will also be lots of bad sex as well as good sex.

2. GOOD SEX SHOULD JUST HAPPEN AND SHOULDN’T BE PLANNED

Do you really expect sex to be spontaneous after being in a relationship for a while? Stop believing the lies that sex which is planned means you are with the wrong person. You will definitely have to plan for sex if you are in a long-term relationship and you get amazing sex from planned sex too.

3. MEN WANT SEX ALWAYS

Men have been portrayed by the society and several studies as a gender that wants sex all the time. This is so not true. Just as women have periods when they don’t want sex, so do men. There will be times when he would be at his peak level and there will also be moments when he will be at his bottom level.

4. WOMEN SHOULD CLIMAX ALWAYS

It’s really not fair to put so much pressure on yourself reaching climax each time you have sex. There is nothing wrong with you if you don’t climax always doing sex. Women are wired differently from men and most women won’t reach climax through penetrative sex alone.

5. SEX IS SO MUCH FUN WHEN YOU ARE YOUNGER

Most people just believe sex is better when you are young and therefore stop trying as they get older. A 2015 study found that around 54 percent of men and 31 percent of women in their 70s and 80s have sex at least twice a month. Another survey also found that sexual confidence peaks between the age of 60 and 69.