{Women are widely adjudged to be very secretive people, but unknown to many, men are the most notorious of the two sexes when it comes to keeping secrets. Even when they’re deeply in love or married to you, men still find it difficult to completely open up to their partners about certain things, and the reason isn’t far-fetched from the fact that we men are emotionally distant people than women. When women love, they love with everything, and trust their partner with all (or most) of their secrets, but men withhold some information from women either because they want to protect them…or they just want to protect themselves.}
Let us leave the “whys” for another time. So what do men like to hide from women? I know the ladies are itching to know, so I’ll cut right to the Chase. I bring you 4 major secrets men keep from women.
{{1. How we really feel }}
Like I said before, men are emotionally more uptight than women are, so what the woman may be comfortable to talk about, we men tend to feel just the opposite over. For instance, men are extremely jealous people; even though we may not say it, we are never okay with our women laughing at another man’s jokes or keeping certain male company. It makes us feel a bit inadequate, but we just bottle it all up.
A man can catch feelings in a “no strings attached” kind of relationship and be very quiet about it simply because he doesn’t want to appear too emotionally weak. It’s not really pride, it’s just the way we are.
{{2. The actual size of our bank accounts }}
No matter how deeply in love we are, not too many men would tell you how much they really have. There are two reasons for this; some men are naturally secretive and like to withhold certain information from their partners, especially when it’s about money. Men like this also do not like to discuss their future plans and projects with their partners, they prefer to use the surprise element because they get a thrill from it. For men like this, keeping their women in the dark concerning their plans and finances is the way they remain in charge.
The other reason is quite simple; some women are like leaches, the moment they realize that you’re financially strong, they go all out to suck you dry. For fear of this, we keep our financial info private.
{{3. Past life /love affairs }}
If there’s something men fear the most to tell women they love, it’s the number of women they have had in the past; for men, it’s a no, no! The reason is because we want to protect our reputation; I mean, no one thinks you’re responsible if they learn you’ve been with more women than a midwife or maybe you preferred older women for sex. Lol; info like that always taints one’s image. Besides, most women react to such information adversely, so to protect both our reputation and the relationship, we keep stuff like this secret.
{{4. Our sexual fantasies and performance fears }}
Most men like oral sex, masturbating, sexual domination, etc. Some even like spanking their partners, and prefer specific positions during sex, but for fear of being branded “perverts”, we keep them in our head.
Men also have performance fears. Believe me, no matter how much reassurance you give a man, he’ll still have doubts about his sex skills. Sometimes, it’s because he feels his organ is inadequate, but more often than not, it’s all in the head.
So there, ladies, now you know what secrets men love to keep from you, but can you really blame us?…it’s how we are built. *wink*
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