{Words can strengthen a relationship and they can also pull down a relationship so it’s really important you use the right words when communicating with your partner.}
Here are 12 phrases you should never use when communicating with your partner
{{1. “Why can’t you be like…..?”}}
It’s never right to compare your partner to someone else. Even if you are trying to help, it does more harm than good.
{{2. “You are always annoying”}}
It’s never right to tell your partner this because you insinuate there aren’t any happy moments with your partner.
{{3. “You can’t do anything right”}}
You make your partner feel worthless when you say this to your partner. If you truly love someone, you will never make him/her feel worthless.
{{4. “It’s fine”}}
Telling your partner it’s fine when it’s obvious you aren’t happy about something is wrong. Your partner isn’t a mind-reader so it’s important you say how you feel.
{{5. “You are so stupid”}}
Never call your partner stupid no matter the circumstances. You should never insult the intelligence of your partner and don’t even use anger as an excuse.
{{6. “You look awful”}}
Saying this about your partner’s appearance is wrong as it could destroy your partner’s self-esteem.
{{7. “I wish you could afford to buy me…”}}
We should be content with what our partner earns. It’s really not fair when you fault your partner for not earning more.
{{8. “If you love me,you will buy me”}}
Manipulation shouldn’t be found in a healthy relationship and demanding gifts as prove of love is an act of manipulation. Love should never be conditional.
{{9. “You are overreacting”}}
Saying this to your partner is hurtful because it signifies your partner’s emotions aren’t important.
{{10. “It’s all your fault”}}
Placing the blame on your partner when something goes wrong isn’t the right thing to do. It’s never all one’s fault.
{{11. “My ex was better in bed ”}}
It’s wrong to tell your partner that your ex was better in bed. Your current partner should always be the best in bed.
{{12. “You should know how I feel”}}
Your partner isn’t a mind-reader so he/she can’t know how you feel until you verbally express your feelings.
Source:Elcrerma
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