{"id":56651,"date":"2025-12-26T16:08:52","date_gmt":"2025-12-26T16:08:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/festive-season-in-kigali-locals-visitors-share-stories-of-joy-change-and-new\/"},"modified":"2025-12-26T16:09:53","modified_gmt":"2025-12-26T16:09:53","slug":"festive-season-in-kigali-locals-visitors-share-stories-of-joy-change-and-new","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/festive-season-in-kigali-locals-visitors-share-stories-of-joy-change-and-new\/","title":{"rendered":"Festive season in Kigali: Locals, visitors share stories of joy, change and new hope (VIDEO)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>IGIHE spoke with locals, expats, and tourists about what these holidays mean to them today, how traditions have evolved over the years, the highs and lows of 2025, and their hopes for the year ahead. <\/p>\n<p>Vinny Cila, an IT expert who has lived in Kigali for almost seven years, remembers childhood Christmases as big neighborhood affairs. Families and kids would go from house to house, visiting and celebrating together.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBack in the days, we used to hang out with friends, meet everyone,\u201d he recalls. These days, though, phones, TikTok, and social media have changed things, people connect more online than in person. Working in the IT field, he sees the irony every day.<\/p>\n<p>Di-Carmel Dushime, a banker and Sylvia Gitari visiting from Kenya, notice similar changes. Big village gatherings with extended family have shifted to smaller, nuclear-family celebrations: church for Catholics, a nice meal, laughter, and maybe a quick outing.<\/p>\n<p>The childhood wonder, staying up until midnight to \u201chear the baby Jesus cry\u201d and opening gifts, has faded into adult realities like rising prices and high rent. Now it\u2019s more about giving than receiving. \u201cThere\u2019s no fantasy about it anymore,\u201d Dushime says with a smile, \u201cbut it\u2019s still a good time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Brisa Bejarano, an American accountant visiting her fianc\u00e9, celebrated Christmas in Rwanda for the first time. She is keeping it simple: a quiet dinner with loved ones and gift exchanges, enjoying the contrast to holidays back home.<\/p>\n<p>Pacifique Evans, a 22-year-old filmmaker, likes to keep things private, quality time with his parents and siblings, away from the crowds.<\/p>\n<p>Singleton John, Rwandan artist who stays in the US, currently in Kigali for holidays, kicked off the festivities hosting friends and family, playing games, sharing meals, and walking the decorated streets of Kigali at night.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, favorite gift memories still bring smiles. For Vinny, the best was last year\u2019s surprise visit from his mother after seven years apart, an emotional reunion no material gift could top.<\/p>\n<p>Dushime holds dear a simple set of clothes his parents gave him as a child, loaded with meaning. Evans beams talking about the guitar his mom bought him five years ago, knowing his passion for music, he still plays it regularly.<\/p>\n<p>Looking back at 2025, people describe it in glowing terms: amazing, successful, exciting, stretching. Brisa graduated college, Evans turned hard work into achievements he once thought impossible, Gitari earned her master\u2019s while strengthening her faith and traveling through Uganda and Rwanda.<\/p>\n<p>John felt pushed to his limits but came through stronger. Dushime landed a promotion that sparked new growth. For Brisa, the year\u2019s highlight was meeting her fianc\u00e9, a man who puts God first.<\/p>\n<p>The year\u2019s lessons come through loud and clear: work hard and never quit, chase your dreams no matter what others say, be prepared when opportunity knocks, and know there\u2019s always room to grow. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cI wanted to quit sometimes,\u201d Brisa admits about her studies, \u201cbut I pushed through and finally held my diploma.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As the New Year begins to unfold, Vinny wants career progress and maybe marriage. Gitari, turning 26 soon, plans to grab opportunities, serve her community, and deepen her faith. Others hope for economic gains, personal wins, travel, and finishing university. <\/p>\n<p>Their final words carry encouragement. \u201cTrust the process,\u201d Vinny says softly. <\/p>\n<p> \u201cEverything meant for you will come at the right time.\u201d Dushime pushes for optimism and chooses happiness every day.<\/p>\n<p>Evans speaks with passion: stay focused, pray hard, work tirelessly, for yourself, your family, and Rwanda. \u201cLet\u2019s not be lazy,\u201d he adds. \u201cThe country has all eyes on us. We are the ones to make it better.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>{{Watch the full video:}}<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"770\" height=\"433\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ODg4JvTlVOU\" title=\"From childhood memories to 2025 lessons: Kigali residents, visitors talk festivities &amp; 2026 hopes\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As Rwanda ushers in the festive season, with Christmas celebrations freshly concluded and New Year festivities on the horizon, Kigali radiates its familiar warmth, from the sunny skies to the heartfelt gatherings of families, friends and visitors.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":62,"featured_media":2000099738,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[75],"byline":[170],"hashtag":[],"class_list":["post-56651","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news","tag-homenews","byline-igihe"],"bylines":[{"id":170,"name":"IGIHE","slug":"igihe","description":"","image":{"id":0,"url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&f=y&r=g","alt":"Default avatar","title":"Default avatar","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","sizes":[]},"user_id":8}],"contributors":[{"id":170,"name":"IGIHE","slug":"igihe","description":"","image":{"id":0,"url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&f=y&r=g","alt":"Default avatar","title":"Default avatar","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","sizes":[]},"user_id":8}],"featured_image":{"id":2000099738,"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/abafata_amafoto_bafite_akazi_kenshi_ko_gufotorera_abantu_ahashyizwe_imitako_ya_noheli_n_ubunani-ebbf9-e9877.jpg","alt":"","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","width":0,"height":0,"sizes":{"thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/abafata_amafoto_bafite_akazi_kenshi_ko_gufotorera_abantu_ahashyizwe_imitako_ya_noheli_n_ubunani-ebbf9-e9877.jpg","width":1,"height":1},"medium":{"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/abafata_amafoto_bafite_akazi_kenshi_ko_gufotorera_abantu_ahashyizwe_imitako_ya_noheli_n_ubunani-ebbf9-e9877.jpg","width":1,"height":1},"medium_large":{"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/abafata_amafoto_bafite_akazi_kenshi_ko_gufotorera_abantu_ahashyizwe_imitako_ya_noheli_n_ubunani-ebbf9-e9877.jpg","width":1,"height":1},"large":{"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/abafata_amafoto_bafite_akazi_kenshi_ko_gufotorera_abantu_ahashyizwe_imitako_ya_noheli_n_ubunani-ebbf9-e9877.jpg","width":1,"height":1},"full":{"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/abafata_amafoto_bafite_akazi_kenshi_ko_gufotorera_abantu_ahashyizwe_imitako_ya_noheli_n_ubunani-ebbf9-e9877.jpg","width":0,"height":0}}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56651","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/62"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=56651"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56651\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2000099738"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=56651"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=56651"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=56651"},{"taxonomy":"byline","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/byline?post=56651"},{"taxonomy":"hashtag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/hashtag?post=56651"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}