{"id":54261,"date":"2025-05-22T19:40:54","date_gmt":"2025-05-22T19:40:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/social-media-is-hurting-rwanda-s-youth-psychotherapist-cautions-video\/"},"modified":"2025-05-22T18:59:55","modified_gmt":"2025-05-22T18:59:55","slug":"social-media-is-hurting-rwanda-s-youth-psychotherapist-cautions-video","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/social-media-is-hurting-rwanda-s-youth-psychotherapist-cautions-video\/","title":{"rendered":"Social media is hurting Rwanda\u2019s youth, psychotherapist cautions (Video)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In a candid conversation on the Long Form podcast hosted by Sanny, Dr. Mutuyimana revealed how excessive screen time is fueling depression, addiction, and a loss of focus among young Rwandans, compounding the nation\u2019s ongoing struggle with historical trauma.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen you feel no support, when you feel rejected, at least you can look for another platform that can help you, and this is social media,\u201d Dr. Mutuyimana explained, describing how youth turn to apps to escape feelings of isolation or inadequacy. However, this escape comes at a cost. <\/p>\n<p>He shared the story of a client, a young professional, who became so addicted to her phone that she lost concentration at work, even checking TikTok during critical tasks. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf you are always on your phone, you will never be you,\u201d he cautioned, noting that constant consumption of others\u2019 content stifles personal reflection and creativity.<\/p>\n<p>Rwanda\u2019s youth are particularly vulnerable. According to Dr. Mutuyimana\u2019s social media\u2019s addictive algorithms exacerbate feelings of helplessness and worthlessness. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey are watching TikTok until the phone falls down,\u201d he said, describing a cycle where youth sleep, eat, and work with their devices, leaving little time for real-world connections. <\/p>\n<p>This obsession is not just a habit but a symptom of deeper issues, including family conflict and the intergenerational trauma stemming from the 1994 genocide against the Tutsi.<\/p>\n<p>According to Dr. Mutuyimana, studies show that 30% of Rwandans experience post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), far above the global average of 1-8%. <\/p>\n<p>For young people born after the genocide, the pain of their parents\u2019 unresolved grief manifests in modern vices like social media overuse, alongside alcohol and drug abuse. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey want to fill a gap inside,\u201d he said, linking these behaviours to a search for fleeting happiness in a society still healing from collective wounds.<\/p>\n<p>The psychotherapist also highlighted the physical toll of excessive screen time, echoing host Ntayombya&#8217;s personal experience. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cI had to go to the eye doctor because I was light-sensitive,\u201d Ntayombya admitted, estimating he spent 18 hours a day on screens. <\/p>\n<p>Dr. Mutuyimana warned that prolonged exposure to small screens at close distances can harm vision and disrupt sleep, further aggravating mental health issues.<\/p>\n<p>{{So, what\u2019s the solution?<br \/>\n}}<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Mutuyimana advocates for balance and systemic change. He urges youth to set phone-free hours to \u201cenjoy food, family time, and celebration\u201d and calls for schools and parents to teach digital literacy to curb addiction. <\/p>\n<p> At Baho Smile Institute, Dr. Mutuyimana\u2019s team offers group therapy and community programs that encourage youth to build meaningful in-person connections, countering the isolation driven by excessive social media use. <\/p>\n<p>He emphasises the need for systemic solutions, like teaching digital literacy, to address the addictive nature of platforms that consume young people\u2019s time and attention.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe need to learn from social media, but we also need time to innovate,\u201d he said, emphasising the importance of fostering creativity over passive consumption.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOur young people, so few will innovate,\u201d he warned, \u201cbecause they are only following discoveries.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>Beyond social media, Dr. Mutuyimana revealed that over 20% of youth born post-genocide suffer from their parents\u2019 unresolved pain, transmitted through abusive parenting or silence. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen you are a traumatised parent, you are more likely to transmit,\u201d he said, citing a client whose mother shared heavy trauma, burdening her as a child.<\/p>\n<p>The interview also tackled what the doctor described as Rwanda\u2019s \u201cculture of silence,\u201d where admitting mental health struggles is &#8220;unusual&#8221;, especially for men. <\/p>\n<p>Dr. Mutuyimana noted that men are more likely to die by suicide due to societal pressure to suppress pain, while women, more open to expressing emotions, face higher rates of depression and PTSD. He called for a shift to normalise therapy.<\/p>\n<p>Watch the full interview below:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"656\" height=\"369\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/aPxUPgBz7Ew\" title=\"The Mind Doctor: The ALARMING Crisis Rwandan Men Face &amp; Kigali\u2019s Addiction Emergency | THE LONG FORM\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Social media platforms like TikTok and Instagram are becoming a double-edged sword for Rwanda\u2019s youth, serving as both a coping mechanism and a growing threat to mental health, warns Dr. Celestin Mutuyimana, a leading psychotherapist and founder of Baho Smile Institute. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":131,"featured_media":2000087801,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[75],"byline":[192],"hashtag":[],"class_list":["post-54261","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news","tag-homenews","byline-wycliffe-nyamasege"],"bylines":[{"id":192,"name":"Wycliffe Nyamasege","slug":"wycliffe-nyamasege","description":"","image":{"id":0,"url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&f=y&r=g","alt":"Default avatar","title":"Default avatar","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","sizes":[]},"user_id":131}],"contributors":[{"id":192,"name":"Wycliffe Nyamasege","slug":"wycliffe-nyamasege","description":"","image":{"id":0,"url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&f=y&r=g","alt":"Default avatar","title":"Default avatar","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","sizes":[]},"user_id":131}],"featured_image":{"id":2000087801,"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/72320-296dc.jpg","alt":"","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","width":0,"height":0,"sizes":{"thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/72320-296dc.jpg","width":1,"height":1},"medium":{"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/72320-296dc.jpg","width":1,"height":1},"medium_large":{"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/72320-296dc.jpg","width":1,"height":1},"large":{"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/72320-296dc.jpg","width":1,"height":1},"full":{"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/72320-296dc.jpg","width":0,"height":0}}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54261","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/131"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=54261"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54261\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2000087801"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=54261"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=54261"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=54261"},{"taxonomy":"byline","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/byline?post=54261"},{"taxonomy":"hashtag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/hashtag?post=54261"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}