He noted that, contrary to the critics, the event drew participants from all walks of life, including individuals from the corporate sector, whom he said are often too busy to meet their “missing rib” through conventional dating.<\/p>\n
Unlike conventional dating, which emphasizes longer, one-on-one interactions that allow people to build a deeper connection before deciding to pursue a relationship, speed dating involves meeting a large number of people in a short period to assess compatibility.<\/p>\n
\u201cThere were so many young diplomats from international embassies in Rwanda, the corporate sector, and young entrepreneurs who don\u2019t have time to go to bars and look for someone, or to ask their families to connect them to others. They want to meet in a more corporate environment, and that was the right place for them,\u201d Bunyeshuri said.<\/p>\n
He added, \u201cPeople who are saying otherwise were not there and probably hate the feeling that people are falling in love.\u201d<\/p>\n
Bunyeshuri acknowledged that criticism and the fear of being judged are some of the challenges facing emerging trends in modern dating, especially in conservative societies.<\/p>\n
\u201cSpeed dating in Rwanda, a very conservative country, obviously faces negative talk and criticism from people. This is expected,\u201d he added.<\/p>\n
\u201cWith the era of social media, anyone can say anything for likes and views. Young people should stay focused,\u201d he emphasized.<\/p>\n
Bunyeshuri is planning another event, which he says will take place between September and October this year.<\/p>\n
He mentioned that he has received many requests to bring back the second edition of speed dating but cautioned those seeking to participate that finding a perfect match is not guaranteed.<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t want them to think that when you come, it\u2019s a done deal that you\u2019re going to find someone. It doesn\u2019t work like that\u2014you have to make a connection,\u201d he added.<\/p>\n
Watch the full interview below:<\/p>\n