{"id":48802,"date":"2023-09-04T10:17:40","date_gmt":"2023-09-04T10:17:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/what-do-women-want\/"},"modified":"2023-09-05T07:40:27","modified_gmt":"2023-09-05T07:40:27","slug":"what-do-women-want","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/what-do-women-want\/","title":{"rendered":"What do women want?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Recently, social media app \u2018X\u2019 was awash with rumours about a possible divorce between celebrated TV host Steve Harvey and wife, Majorie Harvey.<\/p>\n

According to the rumour, Marjorie was filing for divorce from Harvey after cheating on him with their bodyguard and chef.<\/p>\n

This left many wondering what women want, since Harvey is not only a \u2018successful\u2019 man, but one who is \u2018responsible\u2019; as he adopted 3 of Marjorie’s children from her previous relationship.<\/p>\n

In a vox-pop with some ladies whose identity won\u2019t be disclosed, the majority said there\u2019s more to a relationship than just money.<\/p>\n

\u201cMoney means nothing in a relationship. You can buy me anything, take me on dates but as long as you don\u2019t give me attention, you cease to matter,\u201d one stated.<\/p>\n

\u201cHappiness\u201d, the other stated. Adding that people find happiness in different things and not just money.<\/p>\n

Boring sex also made it to the list of reasons behind women cheating. <\/p>\n

With reference to Marjorie, one claimed that; \u201c she got bored of his \u2018dick game\u2019 and wanted something fresh\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201cPeople get into marriage for the wrong reasons, especially us ladies. We may know that a man is \u2018not good\u2019, but have the notion that we can change them when we marry,\u201d explained another.<\/p>\n

Marriage and sex therapist Angela Skurtu named \u2018money\u2019 as the main reason women cheat. \u201cThe gap shifted when women went to work and had their own money and choices; with choice comes easier dissatisfaction,\u201dshe explained in an article by \u2018BRIDES\u2019. <\/p>\n

A study published in \u2018Trends in Psychology\u2019 lists emotional dissatisfaction as another reason why women cheat. \u201cThe quest to fulfill basic needs such as the need for communication, empathy, respect, devotion, and support can lead to cheating in search for an emotional safe haven,\u201d Mark Travers, Phd, American Psychologist.<\/p>\n

Other studies named \u2018low self esteem\u2019, \u201cwhether this is a new development or something she\u2019s always struggled with, she may feel unattractive or uninteresting to you, especially if the passion in your relationship has cooled. So if someone comes along and builds her up and is there for her, she\u2019s likely to feel a stronger connection with them\u201d, Barrie Davenport..<\/p>\n

Revenge also made it to the list as Barrie Davenport states , \u201c maybe she wants revenge because you cheated on her, or because she sees you spending more time with someone else and suspects you of cheating.\u201d<\/p>\n

The list may go on and on as reasons vary with individuals, nevertheless, cheating can never be the solution and nothing justifies it.<\/p>\n

It is advisable that loved ones communicate with each other as much as possible and solve whatever grievances there could be. <\/p>\n

\"Men<\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

{Men have always been heard asking each other; \u2018what women exactly want\u2019? This question always comes after one ( a man) does what he thinks is \u2018a lot\u2019 for his woman, only for her to; walk out on him, reject him or cheat on him.}<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":62,"featured_media":2000059398,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[46],"tags":[75],"byline":[3104],"hashtag":[],"class_list":["post-48802","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-social","tag-homenews","byline-jane-babirye"],"bylines":[{"id":3104,"name":"Jane Babirye","slug":"jane-babirye","description":"","image":{"id":0,"url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&f=y&r=g","alt":"Default avatar","title":"Default avatar","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","sizes":[]},"user_id":null}],"contributors":[{"id":3104,"name":"Jane Babirye","slug":"jane-babirye","description":"","image":{"id":0,"url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&f=y&r=g","alt":"Default avatar","title":"Default avatar","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","sizes":[]},"user_id":null}],"featured_image":{"id":2000059398,"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/1683439998_1.jpg","alt":"","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","width":0,"height":0,"sizes":{"thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/1683439998_1.jpg","width":1,"height":1},"medium":{"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/1683439998_1.jpg","width":1,"height":1},"medium_large":{"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/1683439998_1.jpg","width":1,"height":1},"large":{"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/1683439998_1.jpg","width":1,"height":1},"full":{"url":"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/IMG\/logo\/1683439998_1.jpg","width":0,"height":0}}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48802","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/62"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48802"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48802\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2000059398"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48802"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48802"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48802"},{"taxonomy":"byline","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/byline?post=48802"},{"taxonomy":"hashtag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/hashtag?post=48802"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}