{"id":36905,"date":"2018-02-01T12:00:24","date_gmt":"2018-02-01T12:00:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/five-signs-of-a-mature-man\/"},"modified":"2018-02-01T11:59:55","modified_gmt":"2018-02-01T11:59:55","slug":"five-signs-of-a-mature-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/five-signs-of-a-mature-man\/","title":{"rendered":"Five signs of a mature man"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>{{He doesn\u2019t try to please everyone}}<\/p>\n<p>In a man\u2019s younger years, pleasing everyone (especially his friends) is a priority. He wants to make them happy, and even when he doesn\u2019t have everything it takes to do that, he borrows, because he doesn\u2019t want to seem like the \u2018bad guy\u2019. But as a man grows older, understanding of the reality that you cannot please everyone kicks in. That is one of the signs you\u2019re mature.<\/p>\n<p>{{He won\u2019t run from seemingly impossible situations}}<\/p>\n<p>Only an immature man who isn\u2019t ready to grow runs from difficult situations. He sees them, and thinks, \u201coh this is bigger than I can handle\u201d, so he shies away from it, but the truth is you can\u2019t run from certain things. Some of those \u2018Impossible situations\u2019 will always wait for you no matter how far you try to run. A mature man understands this, and embraces it. He knows that at the end of everything he\u2019s turning out better.<\/p>\n<p>{{He doesn\u2019t make decisions in a haste or anger}}<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s a reason they say never make a decision when you\u2019re angry or excited. It is because judgment is usually clouded in moments like that. A mature man knows this, and he saves those big decisions and judgments for when he\u2019s in a calm state of mind.<\/p>\n<p>{{He embraces his responsibilities}}<\/p>\n<p>Every human being has responsibilities, and as they grow older, these things get even bigger. The difference between an immature man and a mature man is the ability to see and accept responsibility, but the truth is not every older man accepts responsibility because like I said, maturity doesn\u2019t necessarily come with age, it comes with experience, and a willingness to grow. A mature man doesn\u2019t shy away from responsibility, he embraces them.<\/p>\n<p>{{He doesn\u2019t live for the moment}}<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou only live once.\u201d \u201cLive like today is your last.\u201d Those are very common phrases used by young people today in a bid to suggest that life isn\u2019t necessarily about tomorrow, but about today. <\/p>\n<p>But is that so? Is there no hope for tomorrow? Do you not want to get married, have kids, or maybe live a fulfilling life in future? If so, how then can you live like today is your last? Why waste your resources, and live without a plan for the future? A mature man has plans for tomorrow, and he does everything to see his future come to be.<br \/>\n{{SRC:elcrema.com}}<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maturity is a great thing. It doesn\u2019t necessarily come with age; it comes with experience and a willingness to grow. It\u2019s not everyone who has maturity in them, but the good thing is it can be achieved. So what are the signs of maturity in a man?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[75],"byline":[170],"hashtag":[],"class_list":["post-36905","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-news","tag-homenews","byline-igihe"],"bylines":[{"id":170,"name":"IGIHE","slug":"igihe","description":"","image":{"id":0,"url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&f=y&r=g","alt":"Default avatar","title":"Default avatar","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","sizes":[]},"user_id":8}],"contributors":[{"id":170,"name":"IGIHE","slug":"igihe","description":"","image":{"id":0,"url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&f=y&r=g","alt":"Default avatar","title":"Default avatar","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","sizes":[]},"user_id":8}],"featured_image":null,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36905","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=36905"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36905\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=36905"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=36905"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=36905"},{"taxonomy":"byline","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/byline?post=36905"},{"taxonomy":"hashtag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/hashtag?post=36905"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}