{"id":34245,"date":"2017-04-29T07:30:00","date_gmt":"2017-04-29T07:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/ladies-only-possible-reasons-why-you-are-single\/"},"modified":"2017-04-29T14:41:58","modified_gmt":"2017-04-29T14:41:58","slug":"ladies-only-possible-reasons-why-you-are-single","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/ladies-only-possible-reasons-why-you-are-single\/","title":{"rendered":"Ladies only:Possible reasons why you are single"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>{While there are a lot of women who are single because they simply do not feel they have to date, there are a lot of single women who are single because of their own doing. Sometimes the things we do are the very things that stop us from achieving happiness. If you\u2019re a single woman, and you want to date, but you CAN\u2019T for reasons you CAN\u2019T explain, then you must read on because you can learn a thing or two to help you change your situation.}<\/p>\n<p>These are some possible reasons why you are still single<\/p>\n<p>{{Poor attitude\/manners }} <\/p>\n<p>The image you project to the world is what everyone sees, and judges you by. If you\u2019re not accommodating and you don\u2019t seem receptacle to people, men will run away from you, and that\u2019s because nobody wants to be made a fool of. It\u2019s the truth. There\u2019s also the issue of the way you carry and conduct yourself around people. Men aren\u2019t attracted to women who do not carry themselves with some dignity and respect. Men will avoid a woman who doesn\u2019t treat others with respect; believe it or not, it\u2019s the way it is.<\/p>\n<p>{{You haven&#8217;t proven you can offer more than just sex }} <\/p>\n<p>If all you have to offer a man is just sex, then that may be all you\u2019re ever good enough for. Men want a woman who going to feels like going home; a woman who can understand, a woman who listens and a woman who can shows support even without the man asking. Beauty and sex isn\u2019t enough to land you a man, you got to understand this.<\/p>\n<p>{{You think dating is a means of livelihood }} <\/p>\n<p>There are women out there who really live off men, literally. They go into a relationship with a man with the thought that he\u2019ll provide every single thing they need. And this mentality is ridiculous. Your man isn\u2019t your bank. No man wants to be burdened by another being, no matter how much they care about the person, they\u2019ll eventually get tired of the requests, and when they do, they\u2019ll take a walk.<\/p>\n<p>{{You don&#8217;t care for yourself }} <\/p>\n<p>Outward beauty isn\u2019t everything in a relationship, but it does matter to an extent. You want to be attractive to men, but you can\u2019t attract anyone with yourself looking unkempt. You can\u2019t attract a man with smelly hair or dirty looking nails. Self care and love are important because they sell you to people out there.<\/p>\n<p>{{You blame men for everything }} <\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s possible you have remained single because you have refused to hold yourself responsible for your actions. Some women wrongly feel all their problems stem from the men and that somehow, all would be well the moment men start to tow the imaginary line they\u2019ve drawn. To women with this mentality, they always feel they\u2019d behave well if the man behaves well. And while I agree that a lot of men need to step up, too often it is a case of ladies feeling more entitled than she should normally feel. You need to step up before you expect the same from a man. Take care of your flaws, and watch the right brother locate you.<\/p>\n<p>Are you still single? These are possible reasons why.<\/p>\n<p>Source:Elcrema<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>{While there are a lot of women who are single because they simply do not feel they have to date, there are a lot of single women who are single because of their own doing. Sometimes the things we do are the very things that stop us from achieving happiness. If you\u2019re a single woman, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[46],"tags":[75],"byline":[160],"hashtag":[],"class_list":["post-34245","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-social","tag-homenews","byline-theophile-niyitegeka"],"bylines":[{"id":160,"name":"Th\u00e9ophile Niyitegeka","slug":"theophile-niyitegeka","description":"","image":{"id":0,"url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&f=y&r=g","alt":"Default avatar","title":"Default avatar","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","sizes":[]},"user_id":3}],"contributors":[{"id":160,"name":"Th\u00e9ophile Niyitegeka","slug":"theophile-niyitegeka","description":"","image":{"id":0,"url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&f=y&r=g","alt":"Default avatar","title":"Default avatar","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","sizes":[]},"user_id":3}],"featured_image":null,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34245","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34245"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34245\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34245"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34245"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34245"},{"taxonomy":"byline","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/byline?post=34245"},{"taxonomy":"hashtag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/hashtag?post=34245"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}