{"id":32507,"date":"2017-02-12T23:39:11","date_gmt":"2017-02-12T23:39:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/12-phrases-you-should-never-use-when-talking-to\/"},"modified":"2017-02-12T23:39:07","modified_gmt":"2017-02-12T23:39:07","slug":"12-phrases-you-should-never-use-when-talking-to","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/12-phrases-you-should-never-use-when-talking-to\/","title":{"rendered":"12 phrases you should never use when talking to your partner"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>{Words can strengthen a relationship and they can also pull down a relationship so it\u2019s really important you use the right words when communicating with your partner.}<\/p>\n<p>Here are 12 phrases you should never use when communicating with your partner<\/p>\n<p>{{1. \u201cWhy can&#8217;t you be like\u2026..?\u201d}}<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s never right to compare your partner to someone else. Even if you are trying to help, it does more harm than good.<\/p>\n<p>{{2. \u201cYou are always annoying\u201d}}<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s never right to tell your partner this because you insinuate there aren\u2019t any happy moments with your partner.<\/p>\n<p>{{3. \u201cYou can&#8217;t do anything right\u201d}}<\/p>\n<p>You make your partner feel worthless when you say this to your partner. If you truly love someone, you will never make him\/her feel worthless.<\/p>\n<p>{{4. \u201cIt&#8217;s fine\u201d}}<\/p>\n<p>Telling your partner it\u2019s fine when it\u2019s obvious you aren\u2019t happy about something is wrong. Your partner isn\u2019t a mind-reader so it\u2019s important you say how you feel.<\/p>\n<p>{{5. \u201cYou are so stupid\u201d}}<\/p>\n<p>Never call your partner stupid no matter the circumstances. You should never insult the intelligence of your partner and don\u2019t even use anger as an excuse.<\/p>\n<p>{{6. \u201cYou look awful\u201d}}<\/p>\n<p>Saying this about your partner\u2019s appearance is wrong as it could destroy your partner\u2019s self-esteem.<\/p>\n<p>{{7. \u201cI wish you could afford to buy me&#8230;\u201d}}<\/p>\n<p>We should be content with what our partner earns. It\u2019s really not fair when you fault your partner for not earning more.<\/p>\n<p>{{8. \u201cIf you love me,you will buy me\u201d}}<\/p>\n<p>Manipulation shouldn\u2019t be found in a healthy relationship and demanding gifts as prove of love is an act of manipulation. Love should never be conditional.<\/p>\n<p>{{9. \u201cYou are overreacting\u201d}}<\/p>\n<p>Saying this to your partner is hurtful because it signifies your partner\u2019s emotions aren\u2019t important.<\/p>\n<p>{{10. \u201cIt&#8217;s all your fault\u201d}}<\/p>\n<p>Placing the blame on your partner when something goes wrong isn\u2019t the right thing to do. It\u2019s never all one\u2019s fault.<\/p>\n<p>{{11. \u201cMy ex was better in bed \u201d}}<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s wrong to tell your partner that your ex was better in bed. Your current partner should always be the best in bed.<\/p>\n<p>{{12. \u201cYou should know how I feel\u201d}}<\/p>\n<p>Your partner isn\u2019t a mind-reader so he\/she can\u2019t know how you feel until you verbally express your feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Source:Elcrerma<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>{Words can strengthen a relationship and they can also pull down a relationship so it\u2019s really important you use the right words when communicating with your partner.} Here are 12 phrases you should never use when communicating with your partner {{1. \u201cWhy can&#8217;t you be like\u2026..?\u201d}} It\u2019s never right to compare your partner to someone [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[46],"tags":[75],"byline":[2483],"hashtag":[],"class_list":["post-32507","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-social","tag-homenews","byline-elcrema"],"bylines":[{"id":2483,"name":"ELCREMA","slug":"elcrema","description":"","image":{"id":0,"url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&f=y&r=g","alt":"Default avatar","title":"Default avatar","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","sizes":[]},"user_id":null}],"contributors":[{"id":2483,"name":"ELCREMA","slug":"elcrema","description":"","image":{"id":0,"url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&f=y&r=g","alt":"Default avatar","title":"Default avatar","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","sizes":[]},"user_id":null}],"featured_image":null,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32507","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32507"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32507\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32507"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32507"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32507"},{"taxonomy":"byline","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/byline?post=32507"},{"taxonomy":"hashtag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/hashtag?post=32507"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}