{"id":31942,"date":"2017-01-20T00:22:41","date_gmt":"2017-01-20T00:22:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/6-money-problems-that-affect-many-marriages\/"},"modified":"2017-01-20T00:22:38","modified_gmt":"2017-01-20T00:22:38","slug":"6-money-problems-that-affect-many-marriages","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/6-money-problems-that-affect-many-marriages\/","title":{"rendered":"6 money problems that affect many marriages"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>{A lot of quarrels and fights in many homes are usually as a result of money. Money problems exist in many homes, and if you aren\u2019t careful, it could ruin the marriage.}<\/p>\n<p>These are some of those money problems couples should be wary of.<\/p>\n<p>{{1. Mine and ours }} <\/p>\n<p>In marriages where only one parent earns all the money, there\u2019s usually a problem of appropriation of resources, and on many occasions, there\u2019s usually the problem of \u201cit\u2019s my money\u201d and \u201cit\u2019s our money\u201d. Also, in marriages where both couples are working, the problem of \u201cmy money\u201d and \u201cour money\u201d also exists.<\/p>\n<p>{{2. Extended family }} <\/p>\n<p>Before we have a new family, there\u2019s usually a family we come from, and when couples then start a new family, there\u2019s still a sense of responsibility to their parents, siblings and extended family members, and this could cause a lot of misunderstanding between both partners.<\/p>\n<p>{{3. Personality difference }} <\/p>\n<p>When one partner is a spendthrift and the other isn\u2019t, this could lead to so many clashes, and this difference in personality affects many marriages.<\/p>\n<p>{{4. Debt }} <\/p>\n<p>When one partner seems to be in debt, especially when the debt is extravagant and ridiculous, the other partner could become aggrieved. This happens a lot in many marriages today, and the problems it comes with, are usually tempestuous.<\/p>\n<p>{{5. Control }} <\/p>\n<p>When one partner wants to have control over how the resources should be used and spent, the other partner might become disillusioned and unhappy, and this could cause friction in the long run.<\/p>\n<p>{{6. Children }} <\/p>\n<p>There are so many things involving finance and raising a child; from school fees and tuition to selection of schools, feeding, toys and games, clothes etc. Each partner might have what they deem as the most appropriate, and this could lead to conflict.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>{A lot of quarrels and fights in many homes are usually as a result of money. Money problems exist in many homes, and if you aren\u2019t careful, it could ruin the marriage.} These are some of those money problems couples should be wary of. {{1. Mine and ours }} In marriages where only one parent [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[75],"byline":[2483],"hashtag":[],"class_list":["post-31942","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-people","tag-homenews","byline-elcrema"],"bylines":[{"id":2483,"name":"ELCREMA","slug":"elcrema","description":"","image":{"id":0,"url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&f=y&r=g","alt":"Default avatar","title":"Default avatar","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","sizes":[]},"user_id":null}],"contributors":[{"id":2483,"name":"ELCREMA","slug":"elcrema","description":"","image":{"id":0,"url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&f=y&r=g","alt":"Default avatar","title":"Default avatar","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","sizes":[]},"user_id":null}],"featured_image":null,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31942","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31942"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31942\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31942"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31942"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31942"},{"taxonomy":"byline","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/byline?post=31942"},{"taxonomy":"hashtag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/hashtag?post=31942"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}