{"id":31456,"date":"2016-12-29T23:28:23","date_gmt":"2016-12-29T23:28:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/6-signs-your-man-is-threatened-by-your-success\/"},"modified":"2016-12-29T23:28:11","modified_gmt":"2016-12-29T23:28:11","slug":"6-signs-your-man-is-threatened-by-your-success","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/6-signs-your-man-is-threatened-by-your-success\/","title":{"rendered":"6 signs your man is threatened by your success"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>{If you didn\u2019t know that there are a lot of men out there who are truly jealous of their partner\u2019s success, then you need to know that now. There actually are people like that in real life, not just on TV, and here are some of the ways the jealousy is manifested.}<\/p>\n<p>{{HE BUYS IMPULSIVELY}}<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, we\u2019re all guilty of buying things we didn\u2019t plan for once we\u2019re at the mall, but if it\u2019s more frequent than normal, and it tells on his pockets, then there\u2019s a problem. It\u2019s either he\u2019s stupid or he\u2019s simply trying to impress you and show off, so you think he\u2019s just as rich as you are.<\/p>\n<p>{{HE\u2019S ALWAYS LOOKING FOR AN EXCUSE TO PICK UP A FIGHT WITH YOU}}<\/p>\n<p>Fights too are normal, but if they happen only when you talk about your work, then, it\u2019s probably because your man isn\u2019t comfortable with the fact that you\u2019re doing better or as well as he is. Perhaps, you have to make a business trip or you simply tell him about a remarkable achievement, and he\u2019s rubbing it on your face for no real reason, or he\u2019s complaining about how you have to leave town always; probably insinuating inappropriate things, something is just not right with that.<\/p>\n<p>{{HE TALKS ABOUT HIS OWN ACCOMPLISHMENTS, AND RARELY CONGRATULATES YOU}}<\/p>\n<p>If every time you tell your man about a recent achievement or accomplishment at work, he somehow starts going on and on about how he has done similar things in the past, well, something isn\u2019t right there. There are even situations that are so bad, he won\u2019t even congratulate you.<\/p>\n<p>{{HE NEEDS YOU TO CONGRATULATE HIM ALL THE TIME}}<\/p>\n<p>The reason isn\u2019t because he\u2019s really doing something remarkable, he just needs to hear it, so he feels important and valuable, as he thinks it\u2019s a way of measuring up with you.<\/p>\n<p>{{HE NEVER WANTS TO FOLLOW YOU TO WORK EVENTS}}<\/p>\n<p>Maybe there\u2019s a dinner party or an award night by your company, and you need his presence there as your number 2, but he constantly declines to go with you. It may be because he feels he doesn\u2019t measure up and won\u2019t fit in with your colleagues at work. This isn\u2019t a surprise because jealousy and insecurity go hand in hand.<\/p>\n<p>{{HE BRINGS UP YOUR DIFFERENT BACKGROUNDS EVERY TIME YOU ARGUE}}<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re having a normal couples\u2019 argument about something, and he suddenly starts whining about how you had to grow up with a silver spoon, and he without one; it\u2019s a sign he\u2019s intimidated by your seemingly superior background and success.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s nothing as frustrating as being with an insecure person. If you know deep inside you that you have done nothing to trigger that insecurity in your man, and you try to talk or love him out of it without luck, you\u2019ll do yourself a lot of good to walk away from such a person.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>{If you didn\u2019t know that there are a lot of men out there who are truly jealous of their partner\u2019s success, then you need to know that now. 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