{Sex in marriage is one hushed topic that many choose not to talk about, but in reality, it\u2019s one of those things that\u2019s hurting many marriages today.}<\/p>\n
Many men (even women too) are sexually frustrated in their marriages (although this article will focus on why women tend to not have sex).<\/p>\n
After the first few months of marriage, the sex lives of many couples start to drop, and in many cases the woman starts to lose interest in sex, and this frustrates her husband.<\/p>\n
But why do women choose to have infrequent sex? Why do their sex lives start to drop? Why do they leave their man sexually frustrated?<\/p>\n
{{1. It’s unconscious }} <\/p>\n
Many men might feel that women do this consciously, but the truth is that, as unfair as her withholding sex might seem, she doesn\u2019t do it on purpose. The next few tips would buttress my point.<\/p>\n
{{2. Her body image }} <\/p>\n
Once the kids start coming in and her body isn\u2019t as hot as it used to be, her image of herself will become poorer and she wouldn\u2019t see herself as sexy and attractive as she used to be. This can kill her desire to even get naked and have sex. Once she starts having a poor image of her body, her desire for sex will start declining rapidly.<\/p>\n
{{3. Stress }} <\/p>\n
Sex isn\u2019t only physical; it\u2019s as much mental and emotional. A woman\u2019s desire for sex can be highly affected when she feels stressed and worn out. Being a mother and having a career can be quite draining, and sex and stress don\u2019t mix. Once stress starts to step in, her sex life will start to go down.<\/p>\n
{{4. No connection }} <\/p>\n
Women love to feel connected to their man; sex to them is very emotional. It isn\u2019t just about the satisfaction that\u2019d be derived; it first starts with the mind and an emotional connection. When the connection between the wife and the husband isn\u2019t strong, her desires will also start to wane.<\/p>\n
{{5. Sex isn’t thrilling anymore }} <\/p>\n
If you can ask many women to be honest about it; they\u2019d tell you that they don\u2019t see sex as fun anymore, it\u2019s no longer thrilling, and it\u2019s just about the man being satisfied and nothing else. When she starts losing the thrill of having good sex with her man, her drive for sex will be totally gone in no time.<\/p>\n
{{6. The marriage isn’t thrilling }} <\/p>\n
Sex starts in a woman\u2019s mind; when she\u2019s thrilled in her mind, she\u2019ll have more sex \u2014 that\u2019s just the honest truth. When the marriage starts to lose its thrill, and the man stops or reduces the way he used to treat her, her mind wouldn\u2019t be as excited as it used to be, and her desire for sex might burn out too.<\/p>\n
{{7. Sex feels like a chore }} <\/p>\n
A lot of men tend to skip all the foreplay and exciting moments; they tend to forget about the cuddling and just having intimate moments. Many men tend to only get interested in having just sex as they get older, and to a woman it could feel like a boring chore. This will gradually kill her desire to have sex with her husband.<\/p>\n
Like I mentioned earlier, these things happen and they aren\u2019t intentional. Many women lose their desire to have sex with their husbands, not because they want to, but for these reasons mentioned above.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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