{Apologising for a wrong done is a healthy step to reconciliation, but then not every apology is indeed an apology.
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When the apology isn\u2019t from your heart, then it\u2019s the same thing as not apologising at all.<\/p>\n
These forms of apologising are wrong, and don\u2019t show remorse.<\/p>\n
{{1. Blaming someone else }} <\/p>\n
When you blame someone else while apologising, then it\u2019s no longer a heartfelt apology. Apologising while blaming someone else shows that you don\u2019t really feel remorse for the wrong done.<\/p>\n
{{2. Assuming the issue is minor }} <\/p>\n
If you hurt someone or did something wrong to someone, then you should just apologise and move on with it. Once you start suggesting that the issue is minor and doesn\u2019t warrant the person to be upset, then it\u2019s no longer an apology.<\/p>\n
{{3. Expecting forgiveness immediately }} <\/p>\n
People do wrong and hurt others, and just expect to be forgiven, simply because they apologised. Apologies don\u2019t work that way. If you hurt someone\u2019s emotions, you shouldn\u2019t expect to be forgiven immediately after apologising; you have to understand that the person has the right to feel hurt and that the pains have to heal too.<\/p>\n
{{4. No buts }} <\/p>\n
Any apology with a \u201cbut\u201d isn\u2019t a true apology; it shows that the apology isn\u2019t sincere enough.<\/p>\n
{{5. Your body language }} <\/p>\n
Your body language is just as important as your apology, or probably even more important. When you apologise, but your body language doesn\u2019t suggest that you feel remorse, then it\u2019s not a sincere apology.<\/p>\n
{{6. Your actions }} <\/p>\n
Your actions should also portray how sorry you are. When you apologise for a wrong, it should be backed with actions; you should be ready to do things that truly suggest you are sorry.<\/p>\n
{{7. \u201cCan’t we move past this?\u201d}}<\/p>\n
Saying sorry while asking this question only shows how insincere your apology is. It shows a blatant disregard for the way that person is feeling.<\/p>\n
Apologies should be true and sincere; any form of apology that comes in this way isn\u2019t real.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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