{"id":30812,"date":"2016-12-04T23:53:16","date_gmt":"2016-12-04T23:53:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/can-you-really-be-in-love-with-two-people-at-the\/"},"modified":"2016-12-04T23:52:42","modified_gmt":"2016-12-04T23:52:42","slug":"can-you-really-be-in-love-with-two-people-at-the","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/can-you-really-be-in-love-with-two-people-at-the\/","title":{"rendered":"Can you really be in love with two people at the same time?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>{A lot of the time, people tend to date two or more people at the same time, and even claim to love them both. But is this really possible?}<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s our topic on Sunday Love Special, and Drama and Shawn will tell share their opinions on this topic.<\/p>\n<p>{{Drama}}<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve heard and seen this question quite a number of times, and it\u2019s a really important one to shed light on. A lot of times I\u2019ve heard people say it\u2019s not possible to be in love with two people at once, but I really believe it\u2019s very possible to love two people at once. No two people have the same qualities or share a personality, so that\u2019s what makes it very possible for one to be in love with more than one person. You can meet person A and love them because they are special in a certain way, and meet person B, and love them for something else.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve seen a lot of people who have faced similar situations, and every time it happened, it was clear they really cared about both people in their lives. Some say, you can love just one person, and be infatuated with another, but that\u2019s just semantics. Love or infatuation, the bottom line is you actually really do care about the two people in your life. I have never found myself in a situation like that though, so I can\u2019t say much about this topic, however I think it\u2019s very possible to love and be attracted to two different people for two distinct qualities or even more. But in situations like that I also think that there\u2019s always the one with a bigger part of the love. You love person A and B, but you really can\u2019t love them equally; I doubt that\u2019s possible. You most likely will love one of the two more than the other one for something they have or do that the other person doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>{{Shawn}}<\/p>\n<p>Being in love with someone takes a lot of your emotions, and it\u2019s like sharing your life with that person, that\u2019s if you\u2019re in the relationship with that person. Going by this, it\u2019s plain impossible to love two people at the same time. You cannot treat them both equally and you cannot have the same affection for the two of them.<\/p>\n<p>If it\u2019s not true, then it isn\u2019t love, and for love to be true, there has to be trust, faithfulness, honesty, commitment, selflessness and dedication. Can you then say this will be possible if you claim to love two people at the same time?<\/p>\n<p>For you to claim to love two people at the same time shows that your definition of love is really flawed. Love is more than just an emotion, and in a heart where it exists, it is clearly dominant.<\/p>\n<p>You can probably be attracted to two people at the same time, but to love two people at the same time only disqualifies what truly being in love means.<\/p>\n<p> Do you believe you can love two people at the same time?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>{A lot of the time, people tend to date two or more people at the same time, and even claim to love them both. But is this really possible?} That\u2019s our topic on Sunday Love Special, and Drama and Shawn will tell share their opinions on this topic. {{Drama}} I\u2019ve heard and seen this question [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[46],"tags":[75],"byline":[2483],"hashtag":[],"class_list":["post-30812","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-social","tag-homenews","byline-elcrema"],"bylines":[{"id":2483,"name":"ELCREMA","slug":"elcrema","description":"","image":{"id":0,"url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&f=y&r=g","alt":"Default avatar","title":"Default avatar","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","sizes":[]},"user_id":null}],"contributors":[{"id":2483,"name":"ELCREMA","slug":"elcrema","description":"","image":{"id":0,"url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&f=y&r=g","alt":"Default avatar","title":"Default avatar","caption":"","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","sizes":[]},"user_id":null}],"featured_image":null,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30812","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30812"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30812\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30812"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30812"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30812"},{"taxonomy":"byline","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/byline?post=30812"},{"taxonomy":"hashtag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/hashtag?post=30812"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}