{Cheating partners actually enjoy the act of cheating and infidelity until they are caught. Ordinarily, as long as they aren\u2019t caught, it\u2019s okay for them to cheat. But when they are caught, they then regret their actions and come up with lots of excuses.}<\/p>\n
These are some common excuses people give for cheating.<\/p>\n
{{1. You weren’t giving me attention }} <\/p>\n
While it\u2019s wrong for a partner to withhold attention, it still doesn\u2019t justify the act of cheating on that person. If you truly care about that person and the relationship you have with that person, you wouldn\u2019t really cheat.<\/p>\n
{{2. I was blinded }} <\/p>\n
Of course, it\u2019s obvious that cheating on your partner is a blind decision, but giving the excuse of being blinded to the act is a blind excuse really.
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\n3. I didn’t know it would get this far}} <\/p>\n
There should be a limit to your relationship with someone of the opposite sex; this should keep you in check when you are going over the line. Not knowing when to draw boundaries and falling for someone while in a relationship is your fault, making this excuse really dumb.<\/p>\n
{{4. It’s in my genes }} <\/p>\n
People who actually believe cheating is in their genes end up cheating; it\u2019s all a matter of what you believe in. If you believe you cannot do without cheating, you surely wouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
{{5. It happended so quick }} <\/p>\n
So many things happen so quick; an accident could happen so quick, but cheating doesn\u2019t happen so quick. Cheating isn\u2019t an accident; it is thought about, planned, fantasised, wished for\u2026before being executed.<\/p>\n
{{6. I couldn’t control myself }} <\/p>\n
It depends on what you see cheating as; if you see it as something thrilling and fun, you wouldn\u2019t control yourself. But if you see it as what it really is \u2014 betrayal, selfishness, a relationship killer etc. then you\u2019d learn to control yourself. It\u2019s your perception of cheating that makes you cheat.<\/p>\n
In all honesty, there isn\u2019t really an excuse for cheating; because if you weren\u2019t caught, you wouldn\u2019t regret it in the first place.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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