{"id":28794,"date":"2016-09-22T01:37:52","date_gmt":"2016-09-22T01:37:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/5-things-to-consider-when-you-are-feeling-single\/"},"modified":"2016-09-22T01:37:45","modified_gmt":"2016-09-22T01:37:45","slug":"5-things-to-consider-when-you-are-feeling-single","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/5-things-to-consider-when-you-are-feeling-single\/","title":{"rendered":"5 things to consider when you are feeling single and frustrated"},"content":{"rendered":"

{Singleness could come with loneliness and frustration; when you can\u2019t have a good man\/woman in your life, and you\u2019ve been without a partner for so long that you\u2019ve forgotten how it feels to be loved by someone other than family.}<\/p>\n

It could be frustrating, but rather than let the frustration eat deep into you, there are some things you should consider.<\/p>\n

{{1. You’re probably comparing your life with others}} <\/p>\n

Being single and frustrated could be as a result of you comparing your life with others; you tend to notice what\u2019s going on in other\u2019s lives and you forget to pay attention to yours. When you pay attention to other people\u2019s lives, you\u2019d see theirs as perfect while yours as useless\u2014 and that\u2019s why you get frustrated.<\/p>\n

{{2. You are desperate for love }} <\/p>\n

Frustration also comes with desperation. When you are desperate to have a partner, you\u2019d most likely end up with the wrong one and get frustrated in return.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to want a partner, a relationship and a home, but when you let desperation set in, frustration would follow.<\/p>\n

{{3. You’re searching for perfection }} <\/p>\n

You know the problem in searching for perfection? You will tend to focus more on the trivial things that shouldn\u2019t really matter and focus less on the weighty things that matter.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re looking for that perfect partner as seen in romance movies, you\u2019d lose sight of a lot of things, and this could get you frustrated.<\/p>\n

{{4. You forget to live your life }} <\/p>\n

The reason most people are single and frustrated is because they forget to live their lives. Every day of their lives resolves around how single they are and how they cannot find a man\/woman. You can never find happiness when you live your life this way.<\/p>\n

{{5. Your desperation is a turn off }} <\/p>\n

Do you know that desperation is a huge turn off? Desperation reveals all your flaws and kill all the good things you have going for you. When people see the desperation in you, all they remember are your flaws.<\/p>\n

Your desperation to get a partner could actually be a repellent to a potential partner \u2014 never forget this.<\/p>\n

Are you single and frustrated? Just try to live your life and be happy; you never know what will come after.<\/p>\n

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