{"id":28160,"date":"2016-08-30T01:43:52","date_gmt":"2016-08-30T01:43:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/11-reasons-why-women-avoid-sex-with-their-partner\/"},"modified":"2016-08-30T01:43:38","modified_gmt":"2016-08-30T01:43:38","slug":"11-reasons-why-women-avoid-sex-with-their-partner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/11-reasons-why-women-avoid-sex-with-their-partner\/","title":{"rendered":"11 reasons why women avoid sex with their partner"},"content":{"rendered":"

{As a man, it can be very frustrating to want to do it, and your woman doesn\u2019t feel the same way; it gives the feeling of both anger and unattractiveness. However there\u2019s nothing that ever happens without a reason, women don\u2019t just turn down the opportunity to have se* with their partner for nothing; if they do, there\u2019s a reason why.}<\/p>\n

On this post, I\u2019ll be listing some of those reasons and shedding light on them.<\/p>\n

{{ 1.Tiredness }} <\/p>\n

Women are humans too, they may engage themselves in tiring activity through the day, and end up very exhausted at night. If their partner wants to have sex with them the same night, there\u2019s every likelihood that they won\u2019t bulge to his request because they lack the energy to get down.<\/p>\n

{{2. Poor libido }} <\/p>\n

While most men and women have a very high sex drive or libido, there are others who do not. People like this rarely feel the urge to have sex, even if their partner wants to. If you\u2019re a man and your partner has refused you sex, this could be the reason; it doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that she\u2019s not attracted to you anymore. So, rather than hold it against her, seeking a solution is the wiser move. There are many drugs and procedures that can help people with this condition.<\/p>\n

{{3. It’s that time of the month }} <\/p>\n

This is one of the commonest reasons why women don\u2019t want to have sex with their man. When it\u2019s that time of the month, most women have no interest in anything else, except trying to see it out. Even if as a man you have no problem with getting down with a woman in her period, she may not respond to your advances.<\/p>\n

Wait it out, man, it\u2019s just a couple of days, yea?<\/p>\n

{{4. The penny is humongous }} <\/p>\n

Forget all those things you see in porno, there\u2019s a limit to how much a big penny can satisfy a woman; if it\u2019s too big, it simply can hurt her instead, and that can be a turnoff for women. The whole point of sex is to get pleasure, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

{{5. There’s someone else }} <\/p>\n

As sad as this is, it\u2019s true, so I can\u2019t skip it. Women can definitely turn down sex if they\u2019re no longer attracted to you. When someone is no longer attracted to you, they lose total interest in everything related to you, including sex.<\/p>\n

{{6. They don’t get what they want }} <\/p>\n

We all have sexual fantasies and fetishes, and we expect our partners to indulge us, sometimes. There are women who enjoy being spanked or staying on top for example, but most men wouldn\u2019t have that because they want to be \u2018in charge\u2019. This can put a woman off, and make her lose interest in having sex with her man; I mean, let\u2019s face it, what\u2019s the fun in it, if you can\u2019t get what you want out of it?<\/p>\n

{{7. Poor confidence }} <\/p>\n

There are people who just don\u2019t feel comfortable being naked, either because they think they don\u2019t look great when naked or they just can\u2019t get over their shyness, and it can be a problem in bed because she\u2019d rarely want to do it, even if the man is dying for it.<\/p>\n

Poor confidence can also be as a result of her sexual abilities. If she\u2019s not confident in her own abilities in bed, it can scare her away from the act.<\/p>\n

{{8. Their man can’t do it right }} <\/p>\n

Many men love sex, but very few know how to do it right. Doing it right takes a lot of commitment, effort and sacrifice on the man\u2019s part, so unless they\u2019re ready to put in all that, it\u2019ll always be difficult for them to please their woman, and the truth about sex and women is that if you don\u2019t get it right, you risk putting them off or losing them even. You don\u2019t expect a woman who knows what it feels like to orgasm to accept anything less, no way. If she feels like she\u2019s not getting anything out of the whole exercise, she might as well quit it with the man.<\/p>\n

{{9. Bad breath }} <\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it, there\u2019s no way you\u2019ll enjoy sex or even being with someone if their breath stinks, because you\u2019ll always feel disgusted at the thought of kissing them. It\u2019s sad, but it\u2019s the honest truth.<\/p>\n

{{10. Weak erection }} <\/p>\n

A weak erection is also known as \u2018half erection\u2019. It is inadequate, insufficient, and can\u2019t offer women maximum satisfaction. Women who have partners with this problem try to help them if they really love them, otherwise, they\u2019ll just ignore and avoid having sex with them.<\/p>\n

{{11. It’s boring }} <\/p>\n

If a man doesn\u2019t find newer ways to satisfy and wow his woman in bed every time, he risks losing her or maybe causing her to lose interest. Women like to be surprised and wowed all the time, if you stop bringing the wow factor to the bedroom, she might get bored and tired of doing it with you.<\/p>\n

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