{"id":24404,"date":"2016-04-06T02:28:14","date_gmt":"2016-04-06T02:28:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/10-reasons-why-holding-back-sex-is-actually-a\/"},"modified":"2016-04-06T02:27:47","modified_gmt":"2016-04-06T02:27:47","slug":"10-reasons-why-holding-back-sex-is-actually-a","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/10-reasons-why-holding-back-sex-is-actually-a\/","title":{"rendered":"10 reasons why holding back sex is actually a good idea"},"content":{"rendered":"

{What happened to the good old days when a man waits to have sex with his partner? We were taught as men while growing up that if you love a woman, you will wait for her.}<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t see that happening this days as the emphasis on sex is so high these days. I see young men brag about the number of women they have slept with and all I do is shake my head.<\/p>\n

Sex is a wonderful experience but waiting to have sex with that special one makes it super wonderful.<\/p>\n

Below are 10 reasons why holding back sex is actually a good idea<\/p>\n

1. Most guys that claim to love a woman are actually only interested in having sex with her. If he truly loves you, he should wait for you.<\/p>\n

2. You protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases when you wait for sex.<\/p>\n

3. The fear of getting pregnant (or getting her pregnant) is eliminated.<\/p>\n

4. When you wait for sex, you never have to live with that feeling of being used when he drops you and starts screwing someone else.<\/p>\n

5. No guy can talk about you because you\u2019re are the only one who knows what your body looks like.<\/p>\n

6. When you wait for sex, you don\u2019t have to worry about people using you for sex.<\/p>\n

7. When you wait for sex, no one can call you a slut.<\/p>\n

8. You don\u2019t have to regret sleeping with someone when you wait for sex.<\/p>\n

9. When you wait for sex, you don\u2019t get any rumours about you from the people you slept with.<\/p>\n

10. When you wait for sex, you\u2019re able to have more self respect.<\/p>\n

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