{"id":23899,"date":"2016-03-15T01:13:56","date_gmt":"2016-03-15T01:13:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/reasons-why-you-keep-falling-for-the-wrong-guy\/"},"modified":"2016-03-15T01:13:31","modified_gmt":"2016-03-15T01:13:31","slug":"reasons-why-you-keep-falling-for-the-wrong-guy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/reasons-why-you-keep-falling-for-the-wrong-guy\/","title":{"rendered":"Reasons why you keep falling for the wrong guy"},"content":{"rendered":"

{Have you ever bothered to ask yourself why you keep meeting the wrong guys? It can be very frustrating when you find yourself falling for the wrong guy always.
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\nBelow are things you are doing that prevents you from dating the great guy you desire.<\/p>\n

{{1. YOU DON\u2019T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT IN A MAN}}<\/p>\n

You would keep meeting the wrong guys if you don\u2019t know what you want in a man. You shouldn\u2019t just say yes to any man; you need to have values you want in a man.<\/p>\n

{{2. YOU ARE SCARED OF BEING SINGLE}}<\/p>\n

When you are scared of being single, you end up choosing the wrong man because you are desperate. It\u2019s better to be single than being in a wrong relationship.<\/p>\n

{{3. YOU EXPECT A MAN TO PROVIDE FOR YOU}}<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t survive without a man\u2019s finance, you will find it really difficult dating a good guy. While it\u2019s nice to be spoiled by your man, it\u2019s also important you have a source of income and be able to take good care of yourself.<\/p>\n

{{4. YOU IGNORE THE WAY HE TREATS OTHERS}}<\/p>\n

If a man doesn\u2019t respect his mother, don\u2019t expect him to respect you. He can\u2019t give you what he doesn\u2019t have. You need to pay attention to the way he treats others.<\/p>\n

{{5. YOU THINK YOU CAN CHANGE HIM}}<\/p>\n

The only person you can change is yourself. Don\u2019t go into a relationship with the mentality that you can fix him. The only person that can change him is him.<\/p>\n

{{6. YOU HAVE A NEGATIVE MENTALITY}}<\/p>\n

When you think \u201call men are dogs\u201d, you automatically shut your brain from finding a good man. So all you keep meeting are men who act like dogs. Don\u2019t let a man in your past make you think negatively.<\/p>\n

{{7. YOU DON\u2019T HAVE STANDARDS}}<\/p>\n

You will keep meeting people without standards if you don\u2019t have standards. If you don\u2019t have standards, you will keep falling for the wrong guys.<\/p>\n

{{8. YOU HAVE LOW SELF-ESTEEM}}<\/p>\n

When you think you don\u2019t deserve better, you will constantly find yourself in relationships with people who disrespect you. Low self-esteem makes you think less of yourself and also makes you feel unworthy of a good guy.<\/p>\n

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