{"id":22828,"date":"2016-01-28T00:20:28","date_gmt":"2016-01-28T00:20:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/7-things-not-to-do-while-talking-to-a-woman\/"},"modified":"2016-01-28T00:20:19","modified_gmt":"2016-01-28T00:20:19","slug":"7-things-not-to-do-while-talking-to-a-woman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.igihe.com\/english\/7-things-not-to-do-while-talking-to-a-woman\/","title":{"rendered":"7 things not to do while talking to a woman"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>{A lot of men make lots of mistakes during conversations with women. A bad conversation could be the reason you never get the woman you desire.}<\/p>\n<p>Below are 7 things not to do while talking to a woman<\/p>\n<p>{{1. AVOID ARGUING}}<\/p>\n<p>So many men ruin their conversations with women by constantly arguing. It\u2019s supposed to be a conversation and not a time to argue. You do not always have to be right so avoid turning conversations into a never-ending argument. A conversation with a woman is not the perfect time to show off your debating skills. Avoid arguing.<\/p>\n<p>{{2. YOU DON\u2019T LISTEN}}<\/p>\n<p>All some men know how to do is talk endlessly; they never take a break to listen to the woman they are having a conversation with. A conversation shouldn\u2019t be one-sided. Be a good listener and don\u2019t just pretend to listen. Ask interesting questions during a conversation as this helps the conversation flow from both sides. Also try to understand her point of view.<br \/>\n{{<br \/>\n3. YOU USE TOO MANY SWEAR WORDS}}<\/p>\n<p>When hanging out with your guys, it\u2019s common to use swear words but avoid using swear words when having a conversation with a woman. Learn to keep swear words away when having a conversation with her or your first conversation with her might just be your last conversation with her.<br \/>\n{{<br \/>\n4. YOU\u2019RE INTRUSIVE}}<\/p>\n<p>Avoid asking intrusive questions while having a conversation with her. Intrusive questions like \u201cwhy are you not married and still single\u201d should be avoided. Avoid making her feel like she\u2019s been interrogated. One wrong question asked might just ruin the conversation.<\/p>\n<p>{{5. YOU DON\u2019T MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT}}<\/p>\n<p>You appear to her as a man who isn\u2019t confident when you don\u2019t maintain eye contact during a conversation. When you avoid eye contact with her, you make her feel that you don\u2019t consider her your equal or you are just too scared to look her in the eye. Learn to keep your nervousness under check; maintain eye contact and smile at her.<\/p>\n<p>{{6. YOU ARE NOT AUDIBLE}}<\/p>\n<p>You ruin your conversation with her when you are not audible enough. Sometimes as men, we end up talking too fast to overcome our nervousness but this kills the conversation. Learn to slow down and be more audible during conversations with women.<\/p>\n<p>{{7. YOU JUST ENJOY TALKING ABOUT YOURSELF<br \/>\n}}<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make the conversation about you alone. Make the woman you are having a conversation with feel important by talking about her too. The conversation shouldn\u2019t be centred on you alone. It\u2019s not a lecture but a conversation.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"spip-document spip-document-10333 aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/en-images.igihe.com\/jpg\/boy-talking-to-lady.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>{A lot of men make lots of mistakes during conversations with women. A bad conversation could be the reason you never get the woman you desire.} Below are 7 things not to do while talking to a woman {{1. AVOID ARGUING}} So many men ruin their conversations with women by constantly arguing. 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