I\u2019ve always believed that the heart of creativity lies in how deeply we care about our work and how badly we want it to meet those standards we set for ourselves. But let\u2019s be honest, when you\u2019re chasing perfection, your inner critic tends to get loud. Really loud. <\/p>\n
And that\u2019s where I\u2019ve learned a little secret: the key to staying inspired and productive is giving more power to the part of you that believes in your work, no matter what.<\/p>\n
Just like you, I did a lot of ‘soul searching’ at a young age. I liked to create and I wanted to figure out my creative identity. I began writing simply for the joy of creating something when I was ten. By the time I was twelve, I was crafting fiction. <\/p>\n
My characters, though they were simple and lacked depth, were adored by my classmates. They devoured the stories I wrote, perhaps because they resonated with them on the same level of brain development we shared at that age. I was doing it because it was fun, because I had a lot of stories to tell, and writing was the best way I knew how to share them.<\/p>\n
My father, who has always been my biggest fan wanted to read my stories and perhaps even have them published. That\u2019s when the insecurities started to take root. <\/p>\n
No artist wants to talk about the sales part when it comes to creating something. Having them published meant having someone review them, which meant someone editing my work. But most importantly, it meant some stranger would be judging my work against their own standards. The thought made me cringe. <\/p>\n
I couldn’t bear the idea of someone older reading my work, especially when they measured it against the works of my favourite authors. I knew my work wasn’t up to those standards. That’s when having a book on a shelf became my biggest dream\u2014the highest of honours, something I felt I didn\u2019t deserve yet.<\/p>\n
As Steven Pressfield writes in The War of Art, “The amateur believes he must first overcome his fear; then he can do his work. The professional knows that fear can never be overcome. He knows there is no such thing as a fearless warrior or a dread-free artist.”<\/p>\n
Fear is part of the journey, and for me, it was fear of not measuring up. I felt that my storytelling fell short of honoring the craft, especially when I compared it to the perfection I saw in the works of bestselling authors.<\/p>\n
Writing in English, which isn\u2019t my first language, often felt like an insurmountable challenge. And as much as I wanted to write in my native tongue, I struggled to get a grasp on that as well. So, I began to label writing as just a hobby, something I did occasionally\u2014anything to soften the blow of not meeting my own expectations.<\/p>\n
But over time, I realized that if I don\u2019t believe I\u2019m a good writer now, I probably never will. Believing in your ability to do something is the first and most crucial step to actually doing it.<\/p>\n
For those who like a step-by-step process, here\u2019s how I do it, and how you can start:
\nRecognize Your Inner Critic: Start by noticing when your inner critic shows up. For example, when you\u2019re about to present your latest design, and a voice in your head starts doubting whether it\u2019s good enough\u2014that\u2019s your inner critic. Just being aware of this voice is a big step toward managing it. Remember, it often wants to protect you from failure by discouraging you from taking risks, but in doing so, it can also hold you back from truly expressing your creativity.<\/p>\n
Practice Self-Compassion: Treat yourself like you treat your bestfriend. Tell yourself, \u201cYou\u2019ve got this,\u201d or \u201cThis is just a rough draft; the magic happens in the process.\u201d Vocalizing these affirmations can shift your mindset from self-doubt to self-belief.<\/p>\n
Celebrate small wins: Make it a habit to celebrate even the tiniest achievements in your creative journey. If you\u2019ve sketched a rough idea for a new project or written the first paragraph of a story, take a moment to acknowledge that progress. These small celebrations reinforce your inner fan and build confidence, making it easier to quiet the critic when it tries to undermine your efforts.<\/p>\n
Set boundaries for criticism: Create specific times for critical review, keeping the creation process separate from the critique process. Let your inner fan dominate while you\u2019re creating, and let your critic have its say only when you\u2019re editing. <\/p>\n
Surround yourself with positivity: Fill your life with people, environments, and content that inspire you. The more positivity you bring into your world, the stronger your inner fan will become.<\/p>\n
What keeps me going is the dream of that ten-year-old girl who just wanted to tell the stories in her head as beautifully as her favourite writers did. The truth is, everything gets better with practice, as long as you don\u2019t give up. And, as long as your inner fan shines brighter than your inner critic, quitting will never be an option.<\/p>\n
{{The writer is a Digital Strategist, Creative Entrepreneur and Passionate Mental Health Advocate
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