Category: Social

{Parliamentarians in collaboration with Rwanda Women’s Network have requested the government to take severe measures against men that impregnate young girls including harsh legal redresses.}

The matter has been raised by Rwandan Parliamentarians’ Network on Population Development (RPRPD) at the parliament last week during talks regarding how university students can be helped to access reproductive health services.
A parliamentarian John Luku-Rwabyoma noted that the role of boys and men in reproductive health should be taken into account.

“Why should we keep quiet in case a boy impregnates a young girl?” he wondered.
He advised that men and boys should be made to embrace and respect moral values since impregnated girls are mostly exposed to risks than they do.

“Boys must understand that impregnating girls is wrong; it is neither a pride nor one of Rwandan values for someone intending to build a strong family devoid of instability. Children from earlier relationships are bound to cause conflicts. Boys should abstain aor or use condoms,” he considered.

Ancille Niyibigira working with Rwanda Women’s Network also said that boys should be sensitized through campaigns to be accountable of their behaviours.

The Minister of Gender and Family Promotion (MIGEPROF), Oda Gasinzigwa, says that only girls are blamed by society, yet boys are equally responsible for the unwanted pregnancies. who have a partner with whom they made sex. She further argues that the government and partners should think of ways of managing the situation including penalties for boys impregnating girls.

“The society should intensify efforts against unwanted pregnancies, including legal actions,” said the minister.

The permanent secretary in (MIGEPROF Umulisa Henriette, recently warned that fathers that deny support to children claiming they are not theirs will be taken for DNA tests since the services will soon be introduced in the country.

{A local leader has been arrested for assault, attempted adultery and encroaching on a person’s privacy at odd hours. Butera Antoine, the executive secretary of Rwesero cell, Kirehe sector of Kirehe district is detained at police station over alleged attempt to commit adultery with a woman of an ordinary citizen he leads. The attempt was realized as Butera Antoine conducted patrol.}

The attempt of wrongdoing was held during the night preceding Christmas on 24th December, 2015 when Butera was found at the residence of a neighbor, Munanira Edouard, displaying some romantic gimmicks to the woman.

Munanira ,talking to IGIHE, said that the incident took place in the midnight of the said date when he went out to see people who were making noise in a neighboring home, only to return and finding the cell executive secretary romancing with his wife. Munanira says that the cell executive secretary beat him immediately as he tried to ask why he invaded his household.

“He was leaning on her back, his hand holding the woman’s buttock…but the woman told me that they had no appointment,” said Munanira.

Butera, detained at Kirehe police station, told authorities that the man requested him to enter his home for conversations and soon closed the door. He adds that Munanira asked him for Rwf 100,000 to reopen the door, which he declined and the fighting then ensued.

Munanira told IGIHE that he has never asked the cell executive secretary that amount of money.

The executive secretary of Kirehe sector, Bihoyiki Léonard told IGIHE that Butera is detained for alleged assault and encroaching on the privacy of a citizen at odd hours.

{Transparency is important in every relationship and should be the watchword in every relationship. Those with nothing to hide are usually the most transparent in their actions.}

Truth be told, people who look to hide things do so because they actually have things to hide.

Below are 5 reasons why you should never date someone who hides their phone from you

{{1. HIDING HIS/HER PHONE MEANS HE/SHE IS HIDING A PART OF THEM FROM YOU}}

When in a relationship, it’s expected we give all of ourselves. The best relationships are relationships with nothing to hide. When your partner prevents you from having access to his/her phone, you are prevented from having access to a part of your partner’s life you may feel more secure being let in.
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2. IT SHOWS YOU ARE OUTSIDE OF SOMETHING IMPORTANT}}

When you have a partner who prevents you from accessing his/her phone, it shows you are on the outside of something important. Your partner shouldn’t only be open when it’s convenient for him/her, your partner needs to practice openness at all times.

{{3. YOU DON’T KNOW YOUR PARTNER}}

Your partner shouldn’t be protective over the contents of his/her phone except he or she is different from who he/she claims to be. When you date a partner that hides his/her phone from you, it simply means you don’t know your partner. If your partner is afraid of you seeing something you wouldn’t like in his/her phone, then you are not dating the right person.
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4. YOUR PARTNER MIGHT BE LIVING A DOUBLE LIFE}}

In this age of smartphones, it’s so easy to live a double life. Whether we accept it or not, the truth is that we can live a completely different life inside our phones. Your partner might be preventing you from accessing his/her phone because of his/her double life.

{{5. YOUR PARTNER IS DOING SOMETHING SHADY}}

Why should your partner even bother to prevent you from accessing his/her phone if he or she isn’t doing something shady? If your partner isn’t doing something shady on his or her phone, there’s zero prerogative to try to keep things from you.

Source:Elcrema:[5 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER DATE SOMEONE WHO HIDES THEIR PHONE FROM YOU->http://www.elcrema.com/2016/01/05/5-reasons-why-you-should-never-date-someone-who-hides-their-phone-from-you/2/]

Eleven widow-headed households in Rusororo sector of Gasabo district have been left in an electricity black-out after cables connecting their houses to the national grid were stolen during the festive season 2015.

They have now requested for thorough investigation of the village patrol men that are paid to secure property and families. They further request to assess carefully the incident and re-install the lost cables saying that the patrol didn’t accomplish its duties by the time cables were stolen.

“They first disconnected electricity; People thought it is usual since we had experienced intermittent power supply before. The power was off until morning when we realized the cables were stolen,” said one of the residents.

Widows told the media that they pay Rwf 1000 monthly, contributing to welfare of village patrol and wondered how such robbery can take place even with the service of a patrol car.

The executive secretary of Rusororo sector, Akimana Tebuka Faustin, says that the investigation is ongoing adding that new measures to strengthen patrols have been adopted. He also promised the stolen cables will be re-installed.

“We have no yet caught the thieves but the investigation is continuing in collaboration with security organs,” he said.

{A sixty four old woman has been found dead at her home with no immediate establishment of the cause of death. Mukantabana Irena, of Mubuga village, Kacyuma cell of Gashonga sector has is most likely to have died days before her body was discovered. }

Jean Bosco Ndabananiye, the acting executive secretary of Gashonga sector said that they thought of visiting the old woman after neighbors expressed concern for having spent time without seeing her.

On Sunday 3rd January 2016, local leaders went to her place only to find her dead inside her house. It was realized that she has been hit on head.

“Citizens said that they last saw her on Thursday. When we got to her residence around 8:00 pm, the dead body was rotting but her domestic animals were not stolen,”
said Jean Bosco Ndabananiye.

The dead body of the old woman has been taken to Mibirizi hospital for autopsy. Mukantabana Irena was living alone since her children stay in Nyamasheke and Kigali.

{Kiyanja village leader in charge of Ubudehe from Rugese cell, Rurenge sector in Ngoma district has been caught red-handed receiving a bribe of Rwf 20,000 to allow a resident receive a cow from Girinka program yet the individual’s economic status doesn’t fall in that category.}

Gaston Kalisa, 45, accused of bribery is detained at Kibungo police station and has accepted that he has taken part in the wrongdoing.

“As we normally do to donate cows in Girinka program, we evaluate beneficiaries to receive cows. However, the village leader told me he talked to the officer in charge of socio-welfare in the sector who said that the resident doesn’t deserve a cow. We declined to hand him the cow. Thereafter, the village leader called me and said that there was no longer any barrier to giving out the cow since the citizen accepted to give me Rwf 20000 as a gift,” he said.

The Eastern Province police spokesperson, IP Emmanuel Kayigi said that investigations have started after which the culprit will be arraigned before the court.
“The man has been caught receiving a bribe. We are conducting an investigation to gather more evidence to bring him to justice,” he said.

If found guilty, Kalisa would be sentenced to five years or a fine ranging from doubling to multiplying ten times the received amount as per 642 article of the penal code.
Girinka Munyarwanda program was launched by the President Paul Kagame with the aim of fighting malnutrition, improving farm production, reduce food insecurity as well as boosting livelihoods of poor households.

Citizens themselves in collaboration with local leaders are involved in the selection of who should receive the donation after assessing his/her capacity to take care of the cow.

{The Minister of Gender and Family Promotion, Oda Gasinzigwa has observed that Parents Forum (Akagoroba k’ababyeyi) is doing well in the resolution of domestic conflicts and revealed that its envisaged new policy will include development talks other than concentrating on conflicts resolution.}

The parents forum was launched in 2010 as an effort to tackle home conflicts through negotiations.

Gasinzigwa said that the forum is organized to have an improved functioning of communities through discussions and exchange of experiences.

Migeprof has planned to extend talks to aspects of improving household livelihoods and incomes other than concentrating on domestic conflict resolution alone.

“Another embedded issue is that parents’ forum is not meant for discussing only disputes, but extends to development where people discuss and provide information leading to economic growth,” said Oda Gasinzigwa.

During the recent discussions held in the parliament on 30th December 2015, Gasinzigwa observed that parents’ forum should not be taken to be a platform for illiterate people.

“The parents’ forum brings together people from all walks of life. We should collectively participate in the forum and make our contribution,”She said.

Even though men’s participation in parents forum is not well defined, the minister revealed that the ongoing mobilization will bring their participation into a better focus.
Some participants in parents’ forum have started up cooperatives which helped them to save and access credit to generate projects enhancing their incomes and welfare.

{We’ve seen a lot of men lie about their marriage status just so that they can easily have their way with ladies. Not every lady would love to have an affair with a married man, but sometimes men could disguise their marriage just to get that lady.}

This is actually unfair and many ladies have entered such relationships unsuspecting. These men could act so sweet and charming, with the lady feeling she’s found her soul mate, only for her hopes to be dashed, and she being heartbroken at the end. This has happened countless times in the lives of many women, but if only they take their eye off the excitement and thrills of that man and pay attention to some little details then they might not fall prey to this situation.

These are some little details every lady should have in mind:

{{1. HIS RING FINGER}}

This is a very obvious giveaway that not many ladies are conscious of. If he has a tan on his left ring finger then that man is obviously married. After months or years of wearing a ring, it leaves a tan on the hands of many people.

{{2. HE NEVER INTRODUCES YOU TO HIS FAMILY}}

He might introduce you to his friends and make you feel loved, but if he hasn’t introduced you to his family then it isn’t just right. He would definitely want to hide the relationship from the family as they won’t be supportive of his extramarital affairs. So, if he keeps being sweet and nice to you, showers you with gifts and does everything no one has done but still won’t introduce you to his family, then he’s probably only trying to distract you.
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3. HE NEVER INVITES YOU TO HIS HOME}}

A married man would never invite you to his home; he would rather have you meet him at a hotel or at your residence. Every man loves to invite his lady to his house; if he doesn’t then something is definitely up. The only exception to this rule is if he’s rich enough to own two or more homes.
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4. HE ENDS CALLS AND CHATS ABRUPTLY}}

This is a normal scenario that might occur with a married man. He could be freely be talking or chatting with you this minute and go off the next; this would only show that he has something he’s hiding from you — that’s a wife.
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5. HE DOESN’T RECEIVE CERTAIN CALLS IN FRONT OF YOU}}

This is another sign that you shouldn’t be oblivious of. If he always has to go away to pick some calls then it’s obvious that something is fishy.
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6. WHEN HE’S UNREACHABLE AT CERTAIN HOURS}}

Of course, with a married man, expect moments of his number going on voicemail, being switched off or just unreachable. These things aren’t ordinary.
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7. YOU KEEP HAVING THAT FEELING}}

Sometimes the mind has power to feel that which the brain cannot fathom, but more often than not we tend to disregard what it feels. If you keep having a feeling that there is something fishy about your man then there might really be something fishy about him.
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8. HE IS ALWAYS FULL OF EXCUSES }}

A married man is always full of excuses; it’s either he has to travel for this business or work tied him down or his mum is sick or the other. If he’s always coming up with excuses and making impromptu plans or impromptu excuses then that man is most likely married.

When a man starts showing any or some of these signs then you ought to be extra careful. There are so many married men out there that are ready to lure you into their lives without you knowing. Just pay attention to the little details and you might just find out. Stop being used by men who are already married and won’t have a future with you!

Source:Elcrema:[8 SIGNS THE MAN YOU ARE DATING IS MARRIED TO ANOTHER WOMAN->http://www.elcrema.com/2016/01/03/8-signs-the-man-you-are-dating-is-married-to-another-woman/3/]