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  • 6 signs the guy you are dating is right for you

    {No lady wants to be with a boy; every lady needs a real man who is a keeper but how does a lady know she has found herself a keeper?}

    Below are 6 signs the guy you are dating is right for you.

    {{1. THE WAY HE TREATS YOU WHEN HE IS WITH FRIENDS IS SAME AS THE WAY HE TREATS YOU WHEN YOU ARE ALONE WITH HIM}}

    If he is so sweet to you when you are alone with him but suddenly acts distant when around friends, then he isn’t a keeper. A man who is a keeper isn’t afraid to let the world know you are his girl. A man who is a keeper treats you the same around his friends as he does when you are alone with him.

    {{2. HE REMEMBERS THINGS ABOUT YOU}}

    A man who is a keeper pays attention when you speak because he’s interested in knowing everything about you. He also never forgets vital information about you. A man who is a keeper won’t forget your birthday, your favourite food, your favourite songs and other things you love.

    {{3. HE TREATS HIS MOTHER RIGHT}}

    A man who doesn’t take proper care of his mother won’t take proper care of you. It’s important you find out how he treats his mother because the way a man treats his mother will also reflect the way he’ll treat you someday. He won’t treat you right if he can’t treat his mother right.

    {{4. YOU FEEL SAFE WITH HIM}}

    A man who is a keeper makes you feel safe around him. Whenever something goes wrong, he is always there by your side to help. He has this sweet way of always looking out for you and you just feel at peace with the world when you are in his arms.

    {{5. YOU ARE COMFORTABLE BEING YOURSELF AROUND HIM}}

    You know the man you are dating is right for you when you are very comfortable being yourself around him. You are never afraid if he sees you without your makeup or in your worst moments. You just feel so comfortable with him and never have to worry about him loving you any less.

    {{6. HE IS ALWAYS ON YOUR MIND}}

    You know you have found yourself a keeper if he is always on your mind and you also find yourself smiling at the thought of him. He is always on your mind because he is truly special and you also have nothing but good things to say about him.

  • 7 tips to attract money to your life

    {There’s the power of attraction, and I don’t really mean physical attraction — far from it; by this, I mean attracting things you actually desire into your life. So, it’s not a myth that you can actually attract money to your life.}

    These are some ways you can actually attract money into your life:

    {{1. BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN}}

    This is a very important step if you want to attract money to your life. When you believe that you can’t then there is nothing that can be done about it. However, if you believe that you can, you open up a world of opportunities for yourself. It all starts with the belief that you can.

    {{2. DON’T ENVY OTHERS}}

    If you must attract wealth into your life, you shouldn’t be envious of the success of others; rather you should genuinely celebrate their success with them. Negative attitude would only attract negative things into your life and positive attitude would only attract positive things into your life.

    {{3. INVEST IN OTHERS}}

    Giving is an investment that would attract money, wealth and success to you. When you help others who need help, you open up a world of possibilities for yourself. The earth would definitely favour you. This is a practice many wealthy people engage in and it attracts more wealth to their lives.

    {{4. STOP WORRYING}}

    I have never heard that worrying solved a problem. If anything, worrying only compound your woes. So, don’t worry; when you stop worrying, you start thinking and you think positively.

    {{5. UNDERSTAND THE POWER OF MONEY}}

    It’s important that you have to understand money before you can attract it to yourself. You should understand that savings and cutting out unnecessary expenditure would help you earn more. Money shouldn’t be seen as a tool for pride and ego; you make it difficult when you desire money for the wrong reasons.

    {{6. BE GRATEFUL}}

    Be grateful for what you have, rather than complaining about what you don’t. Complaining about the things you don’t have won’t open the doors of wealth for you; it would only kill your joy and create a negative and unproductive way of thinking that won’t yield anything.

    {{7. BE OPEN TO LEARNING}}

    Open your mind up, read books, study the lives of highly successful people, learn to manage your time better and be more productive with it, motivate yourself, work hard and always have patience.

    Money isn’t attracted by luck; you create your own luck, and these seven tips would help attract money to yourself — only if you believe it actually can.

  • 5 Lies about sex you should stop believing now

    {There are several lies about sex you probably believe and this lies might just be ruining sex in your relationship.
    }

    Below are 5 lies about sex you should stop believing now.

    {{1. SEX SHOULD BE PERFECT ALWAYS}}

    People usually put unnecessary pressure on themselves and their partner by expecting sex to be perfect always. You can’t climax everything you have sex so please stop focusing on climaxing and focus instead enjoying the sex. Sex won’t always be good with your partner, there will also be lots of bad sex as well as good sex.

    {{2. GOOD SEX SHOULD JUST HAPPEN AND SHOULDN’T BE PLANNED}}

    Do you really expect sex to be spontaneous after being in a relationship for a while? Stop believing the lies that sex which is planned means you are with the wrong person. You will definitely have to plan for sex if you are in a long-term relationship and you get amazing sex from planned sex too.

    {{3. MEN WANT SEX ALWAYS}}

    Men have been portrayed by the society and several studies as a gender that wants sex all the time. This is so not true. Just as women have periods when they don’t want sex, so do men. There will be times when he would be at his peak level and there will also be moments when he will be at his bottom level.

    {{4. WOMEN SHOULD CLIMAX ALWAYS}}

    It’s really not fair to put so much pressure on yourself reaching climax each time you have sex. There is nothing wrong with you if you don’t climax always doing sex. Women are wired differently from men and most women won’t reach climax through penetrative sex alone.

    {{5. SEX IS SO MUCH FUN WHEN YOU ARE YOUNGER}}

    Most people just believe sex is better when you are young and therefore stop trying as they get older. A 2015 study found that around 54 percent of men and 31 percent of women in their 70s and 80s have sex at least twice a month. Another survey also found that sexual confidence peaks between the age of 60 and 69.

  • Nyabihu launches anti-gender based violence center

    {Nyabihu parents have been urged to avoid domestic conflicts leading to gender based violence, which affects the family.}

    The message was conveyed yesterday during the official inauguration of the anti-gender based violence center called ‘Tuganire’ in Murambi cell, Rurembo sector of Nyabihu district.

    The center comprises of 22 women trained to assist fellow women seeking advice and other support related to gender based violence, at the launched center.

    Mukeshimana Marie Claire, one of the women trained to help others at the center shared that acquired knowledge will help explain better issues regarding violence.

    “We will advise women having cases of violence and seeking assistance at this anti-gender based violence center. This will reduce the matter of polygamy from lingering in this region which is the root of most conflicts and violence,” she said.

    The employee of Rwanda Women’s Network (RWN), Abatoni Penina requested residents of Rurembo sector in which the gender based violence center is built, to maximize its benefits by seeking assistance since its good utilization will help combat violence.

    RWN was launched in 1995 and operates in Rwanda on activities of advocacies, education, providing health care, protecting women’ rights and providing school fees for poor students in seven districts of the country.

    Launched anti-gender based violence center

  • Guys …15 things the woman in your life wants from you but won’t ask for

    {If you can keep your woman happy, your chances of having a successful relationship is almost 100 percent.}

    Women tend to want certain things from their man but the problem is they rarely tell their man what they want. They just expect him to know the things they want.

    A friend sent these tips about the things a girl wants from her man to me and I thought I should share with you.

    Below are 15 things the woman in your life wants from you but won’t ask

    1. She wants good morning and goodnight texts from her man daily.

    2. She wants pictures taken together with her man.

    3. She wants surprises from her man especially the little ones.

    4. She wants her man to visit her and bring her favourite food.

    5. She wants a hoodie with her man’s scent all over it.

    6. She wants really long hugs from her man.

    7. She wants slow dances with her man.

    8. She wants sincere compliments from her man.

    9. She wants her man to sing her favourite songs even if it’s out of tune.

    10. She wants her man to make her feel special.

    11. She wants real, deep conversations with her man.

    12. She also wants nonsense, but funny conversations with her man.

    13. She wants her man to be a gentleman.

    14. She wants her man to comfort her and be patient with her when she’s in tears.

    15. She wants her man to tell her how much he loves her.

  • Denmark tops global ‘happy’ index, Burundi at bottom

    {Denmark, closely followed by Switzerland, is again the happiest country in the world while crisis-torn Syria and Burundi are the most miserable, according to a global ranking released Wednesday.}

    The 2016 World Happiness Report seeks to quantify happiness as a means of making societies healthier and more efficient. The United Nations published the first such study in 2012.

    As with last year, Iceland, Norway, Finland, Canada, Netherlands, New Zealand, Australia and Sweden round out the top 10, making small or medium-sized countries in Western Europe seven of the top 10 happiest countries.

    Denmark, which was ranked first in the 2012 and 2013 versions of the report but lost that honor to Switzerland in 2015, now reclaims its title as happiest country on Earth.

    Burundi was the most miserable, followed by war-ravaged Syria, Togo, Afghanistan and six other countries in sub-Saharan Africa — Benin, Rwanda, Guinea, Liberia, Tanzania and Madagascar as the least happy of 157 countries.

    The report compared data from 2005 to 2015 showing that Greece, which suffered enormously from the global recession and now faces a crippling migrant crisis, had the highest drop in happiness.

    The United States, where sharp polarisation has been exposed in the 2016 presidential election campaign, out-ranked several Western European countries to be 13th most happy nation, up two spots from last year.

    Germany was 16th, Britain 23rd and France 32nd. A string of Middle Eastern kingdoms — Saudi Arabia, Qatar, Kuwait and Bahrain — out-ranked Italy, which came in at number 50, and Japan, which took the 53rd spot.

    China, the world’s most populous country, was ranked 83rd and India, the world’s largest democracy, came in at 118.

    The authors said six factors — GDP per capita, social support, healthy life expectancy, social freedom, generosity and absence of corruption —explain almost three-quarters of the variation across different countries.

    The report compared levels of happiness in 2005-2007, before the onset of the global recession, with 2013-2015, the most recent three-year period for which data from a Gallup World Poll is available.

    Of the 126 countries for which comparable data was available, 55 had significant increases in happiness and 45 had significant decreases, the report found.

    Among the top 20 gainers were Thailand and China, eight countries in the Commonwealth of Independent States and Eastern Europe, seven in Latin America, two in sub-Saharan Africa and Macedonia in the Balkans.

    The 20 largest losers of happiness included Egypt, Iran, Jordan, Yemen and Saudi Arabia in the Middle East; Japan and India in Asia; and Cyprus, Spain, Italy and Greece in Europe — all hard hit by the economic crisis.

    Ukraine, where the east has been roiled by a pro-Russian insurgency since 2014, has also fallen into the group of 10 largest happiness declines.

    Iceland and Ireland offer the best examples of maintaining happiness in the face of economic crisis due to high degrees of social support, the report found.

    Burundi President Pierre Nkurunziza.

  • Gisagara domestic violence persists

    {Some women from Gikonko sector, Gisagara district have expressed concern over continued domestic violence visited upon them by their husbands, precipitated by abuse of illicit brews and other drugs.}

    This was revealed by women that IGIHE met in Gikonko center.

    “My husband started beating me with a big stick when he returned home recently at dusk. He was drunk. He asked me when food would be cooked and kept beating me until neighbors intervened,” said Mukarugina.

    “Husbands’ wrongdoing is a result of taking illicit brews. For instance, many women in our village are used to be beaten whenever men return home drunk,” added another woman called Musabe.

    The drug abuse also breeds insecurity.

    The executive secretary of Gikonko sector, Ignace Kayumba said that they mobilize citizens to keep away from drug abuse even though the matter has not yet been solved. “Illicit brews and gins are not yet eradicated as we want. Else the matter of domestic violence exists among households. We have been requesting spouses to peacefully resolve family conflicts,” he said.

    Gikonko residents

  • Tanzania arrests 500 ‘sex workers’

    {Tanzania is holding about 500 suspected sex workers and nearly 300 of their alleged customers in detention as part of a crackdown on prostitution.}

    The first suspects will start appearing in court on Wednesday, Dar es Salaam’s deputy police commissioner told the BBC, confirming the arrests.

    Rights groups have condemned the arrests, which started a week ago, urging police not to hold suspects beyond the legal 48-hour limit.

    Prostitution is illegal in Tanzania.

    Tanzania’s new President John Magufuli, who came to power on an anti-corruption platform, has previously criticised prostitution in the country.

    President Magufuli, known as the Bulldozer, has vowed to uphold law and order since taking power in November.

    Deputy police commissioner Simon Siro told BBC Swahili that the suspects were being held in three prisons around the city.

    He said the sex trade was linked to both drugs and violent crime in Tanzania.

  • 5 secrets men keep from their partner

    {Just as women have secrets they keep from their man, men also have a few common secrets they keep from their partner.}

    Below are 5 secrets men keep from their partner.

    {{1. MEN LIE SOMETIMES FOR THE SAKE OF PEACE
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    Men lie to keep the peace in their relationship. Men lie sometimes to keep the peace in their relationship and avoid conflicts from escalating. Most men are guilty of this.

    {{2. MEN DON’T CARE ABOUT THE LITTLE DETAILS OF YOUR STORIES}}

    Men love it when the story is simple and straight to the point but they know telling you this might make you feel they don’t care enough to listen to your stories.
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    3. MEN GET JEALOUS}}

    Most men will tell their partner they can hang out with anyone and pretend not to be jealous. Deep down inside, he is jealous. He gets jealous when you keep in touch with your ex or always hang out with that cute guy you call a friend.

    {{4. MEN HAVE SEXUAL FANTASIES}}

    Most men will deny this but most really have sexual fantasies. They keep this a secret because they fear you might get scared by their fantasies or that you may get them wrong.
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    5. MEN GET INSECURE TOO
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    Men get insecure too and want to know your opinion about them. They want to know you find them really attractive. He also wants to know you feel lucky having him.

  • Huye cyclists reminded to respect traffic rules, fight crimes

    {Police in Huye District have urged commercial cyclists to be organized and take internal measures to ensure good conduct and foster safe road usage.}

    The message was delivered on March 15 when over 300 cyclists operating in Huye town convened to discuss ways of improving their business operations and their role in crime prevention.

    Addressing the cyclists, the in-charge of traffic and road safety in Huye, Assistant Inspector of Police (AIP) Jean Claude Mukomeza reminded them to understand the significance of road safety, take some time to learn about traffic laws because they apply to them as well like any other road user.

    “Cyclists are entitled to similar road safety measures like vehicles, motorcycles and pedestrians, so they should not assume that road signs do not apply to them,” AIP Mukomeza said.

    “You can make yourselves safer and respected by being competent by riding on allocated lanes but not on pedestrian pathways or in the middle of road. You should also use headlights and reflectors at night and follow other traffic rules and laws as motorists and vehicles,” he added.

    Besides abiding by traffic rules, cyclists were also told to play a major role in crime prevention like drug trafficking and abuse, which are also committed or facilitated by cyclists.

    Some cyclists have also been arrested in connection with theft.

    The cyclists who attended the meeting are members of different associations grouped under one cooperative.

    Christophe Ngiruwonsanga, the head of the cooperative reminded his colleagues that “Our services are accessed by many people; this is why we should ensure we keep them safe by abiding with traffic rules.”

    Ngiruwonsanga commended police for frequently reaching out to their sphere, and urged fellow cyclists to follow the advice and be proactive partners in crime prevention.

    “Some cyclists witness bad driving, crimes in progress, or are sometimes exploited by criminals such as burglars and transporters of illicit drugs. A patriotic and good cyclist should always be willing to cooperate with police by providing timely information whenever they experience such occurrences, so that their role in crime prevention is documented,” said Ngiruwonsanga.