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{We spend so much time these days planning weddings without paying attention to the marriage itself. To have a successful marriage, you need to be willing to play your role as a wife while your man plays his role as the husband. Being unselfish is a trait everyone who wants a successful marriage should have.}

Below are 4 things every woman should do for her man if she wants her marriage to be a success

{{1. Satisfy you man in bed }}

Many women use sex as a weapon when having issues with their husband and this is wrong. Sex is important in a marriage as it helps bring couples together. Just as it’s important your husband satisfies you in bed, it’s also important you satisfy your husband in bed.

{{2. Don’t let yourself go }}

So many women let themselves go when they get married and forget to pay attention to their appearance and this is wrong. As a wife, it’s important you pay attention to your appearance. Nothing brightens a man’s mood than seeing his wife making an effort to always look attractive.

{{3. Be his companion }}

Find time to do the things your husband likes with him. I know most women hate sports but finding time to watch a game with him is good for your marriage. When you show interest in your husband’s hobbies, you show him that you care about him and he will reciprocate by showing interest in your hobbies.

{{4. Appreciate him }}

Instead of nagging about the things he doesn’t do, try appreciating him for the things he does. When you appreciate him even for the little things he does, he will be motivated to do more. Showing appreciation is important if you want to have a healthy marriage.

{Your 20s age is a very important stage of your life, and it’s one that could shape or mar the rest of your life.}

Your youthful exuberance shows the most when you are in your 20’s and it’s at this age you are most energetic. However, this energy could be channeled wrongly and make you waste about a decade of your life.

This is how people waste this stage of their lives.

{{1. By thinking you have all the time in the World }}

It’s so easy to think that you have all the time in the world when you are in your 20s; but you don’t. Your 20s age should be properly planned because life moves so fast and waits for no one.

{{2. Not following your passion }}

If there is an age to build on your passion and follow your heart, it’s when you are in your 20s. It’s at this stage of your life where you should pursue your goals and work hard for your dreams.

{{3. Pretending to be who are not }}

Being who you are not is a waste of who you are. Why can’t you be proud of who you are and live a life that’s real? If you must be anybody, be yourself; you are a rare gem.

{{4. Living to please others }}

A lot of 20s people waste their 20s by living their lives to please others, by waiting for other people’s approval and not doing what they love or being who they are.

{{5. Dating people who don’t value you }}

A lot of 20s people do this; they fall for people who don’t value them and who don’t care about them, and they desperately cling on to these people and lose themselves in the process.

{{6. Thinking life is all about clubbing ,partying and sex }}

The average 20s person is thrilled with clubbing, partying and sex. But life is more than this; if your life just rotates around these three, you are wasting your 20s.

{{7. Worrying about stupid things }}

If you must worry about anything, it should be something important. Worrying about stupid things wouldn’t help you in any way, and you would become unhappy for things that don’t even matter.

{{8. Spending your whole life in social media }}

A lot of 20s people live their life on social media and seek approval from it. They want to be revered on social media, and everything they do is on social media.

{{9. Forcing yourself on people }}

A lot of 20s people still seek acceptance from people who don’t really approve of them. They seek friendship where it doesn’t exist and relationship where they shouldn’t.

{{10. Wasting money on unimportant things}}

Many 20s people waste a lot of moneys on things they don’t really need and things that won’t add value to their lives. Drugs, alcohol, women, gadgets and so many other things take their money, while important things that would help them further in life are ignored.

{{11. Not developing yourself }}

It’s at your 20s age that you should develop yourself into who you want to be; you are wasting your 20s age if you remain stagnant.

{{12. By living in fear }}

Fear occurs in the mind because you let it. At your 20s age, you shouldn’t live in fear; fear would hold you back in life and keep you from achieving the things you should achieve.

{{13. By giving up easily }}

Don’t beat yourself up after a failure and don’t give up easily. At this stage of your life, you should be fearless. You waste your 20s when you give up on your goals and dreams just because of a little setback.

{{14. By taking stupid risks }}

Gambling, having unprotected sex and so many other risks that won’t help your life in any way should be avoided in your 20s. But 20s people see themselves as invincible and take so many risks.

Remember that your 20s age is just about the most important era of your life; you could either make the right decisions that would shape the rest of your life, or you waste your years and probably live in regret for the rest of your life.

{I must confess, men are terrible at faking their emotions. When a man is in love with you, he shows you to the core, but when he stops loving you, he also shows it. A man is hardly ever in-between, and when he has fallen out of love with you, these signs become too obvious.}

{{1. He hardly appreciates what you do }}

A lot of women have this singular complain of their man not appreciating what they do for them. When a man falls out of love with you, he could become blind to the things you do, and wouldn’t appreciate what you do for him and wouldn’t appreciate having you in his life.

{{2. He becomes nonchalant }}

This is a major sign men show when they have fallen out of love with a woman. They become nonchalant about everything, and take the lady for granted.

{{3. He doesn’t care about fixing the relationship problems}}

A man who has stopped loving a woman wouldn’t care about fixing any issue they have. When he’s in love, he would try to solve the relationship problems that they have, but when he has fallen out of it, he wouldn’t care about fixing it.

{{4. He doesn’t care about making you happy anymore }}

A man in love cares about making his woman happy; her happiness is important to him, and he would love to make her smile. A man who has fallen out of love wouldn’t even think about that.

{{5. He could flirt with other women }}

This is taking it to the extreme. A man who has fallen out of love with you would flirt with other women, and he wouldn’t even care to hide it.

{{6. He doesn’t see a future with you anymore }}

When he loves you, he sees you as an important part of his future, but when he has fallen out of love with you, he would rather look for ways to end the relationship than see you as part of his future.

{{7. He communicates less }}

Communication is the bedrock of every good relationship, and it shows whether love exists or is lacking. A couple in love would always communicate with each, but a man who has fallen out of love would see communication as a burden.

{{8. He stops giving you attention }}

Attention is expensive to a man; a man who loves you wouldn’t mind giving you his attention, because of that emotion called love. However, when he has fallen out of love, he wouldn’t have time for this — his attention would become too expensive for you.

{{9. He stops showing affection }}

Affection comes from within; it’s either there or it isn’t. When a man has fallen out of love with you, affection would become a burden to him, and he would stop showing it in the ways he used to.

{{10. He would stop telling you important things }}

If he’s in love with you, it means you are important to him, and he would treat you so, by telling you the important things going on in his life. But don’t expect this when he has fallen out of love with you.

Being in love isn’t a big deal for a man; when he loves a woman, he’s willing to go the extra length, and when he doesn’t, he wouldn’t even have the desire to go the required length.

{Just before you boast about how super you are in bed, it would be nice if you go through this list to ensure you are not doing any of the stuffs on my list.}

Below are 7 things every man should stop doing in bed

{{1. Thinking sex is just about penetration }}

Sometimes it’s fun to just skip foreplay and hit the spot but you shouldn’t skip foreplay most of the times. A good foreplay gets her ready for a good time in bed.

{{2. Not asking her what she likes }}

Knowing what she wants in bed will help you satisfy her in bed. When you ask her about the things she likes in bed, you also let her know that you are interested in her pleasure.

Just because I said you should ask questions doesn’t mean you should ask a million questions in bed. Ask but don’t ask too many questions so you don’t end up ruining the mood.

{{3. You lub her clit too hard }}

Just because her clit gives her pleasure doesn’t mean you should rub it that hard. Take it easy with her clit, bro. You should only go harder on her clit if she ask you to.

{{4. Suck her boobs like you trying to milk her }}

Avoid sucking her boobs like you are trying to milk her. Please. She is trying to have sex with a man and not breastfeed a baby. Her nipples are super sensitive so go gentle on them.

{{5. You stick to the same methods }}

Sticking to the same methods makes sex boring. Spice things up by trying new things in bed. Monotony in bed ruins sex.

{{6. Using your fingers like a penis }}

Your finger isn’t a pen*s so please quit trying to use it like one. Avoid pounding her hard with your fingers. Gentle, circular motion with the fingers will work wonders.

{{7. You don’t reciprocate }}

Don’t ask for what you aren’t willing to give in bed. If you want her to go down on you, you should also be willing to go down on her.

{Some ladies get so easy eager to be with a man and they end up settling for just any man. This means you end up tolerating things you shouldn’t even tolerate in a relationship.}

As a woman, there are certain things your man shouldn’t do. Check them out below

1. Your man shouldn’t make you choose between him and your friend.

2. Your man should never criticize you in public. He can do that in private but should always support you in public.

3. Your man shouldn’t make you give up on your dreams. If he loves you, he will encourage you to chase your dreams.

4. Your man shouldn’t control you. People who are control freaks tend to be abusive partners.

5. Your man should never threaten you with a breakup just because you had an argument with him.

6. You shouldn’t tolerate your man flirting with other women. This is so wrong. He should never do this.

7. Never tolerate a cheating partner. There is never a good reason for cheating.

8. Your man should never take you for granted. Demand he treats you with respect a woman deserves.

9. Your man shouldn’t always pay for everything. You should insist on paying the bills sometimes.

10. Never let your man turn you to his money bag. Whether you earn more than him or not, he has to be the man and pay the bills most times. You will eventually lose respect for him if you continue paying his bills always.

11. Your man should never hit you no matter what you do. Any man who hits you doesn’t deserve you.

12. Any man who demands you go down on him should also be ready to reciprocate. If he isn’t ready to reciprocate, he shouldn’t demand you go down on him.

13. Your man should never compare you with his ex. If he thinks his ex was great, why did he leave her?

14. Do not tolerate your man not standing up for you. Your man should be willing to stand up for you when your honor is on the line.

15. He shouldn’t expect you to be at his beck and call every time he needs you. That’s not right. You should let him you that he’s your priority but you also have your career and other matters to attend to.

{Lots of women complain about being unlucky when it comes to guys. They just tend to meet guys that are only interested in taking advantage of them.}

Do you wish to have a guy who is such a sweetheart? These tips below will definitely help you

{{1. Be a confident woman }}

Guys who take advantage of women tend to go for women with low confidence. You make it easy for men to take advantage of you if you doubt yourself. Present yourself to the world as a woman who is confident.

{{2. Dress the way you want to be adressed }}

If you want a good man, you have to dress like a good lady. It’s as simple as that. You can’t dress like a bad girl and expect to meet a good man. If you want to be taken seriously by men, you have to dress properly.

{{3. Take the initiative }}

When I say take the initiative, I don’t mean you should do the chasing. Most good guys tend to be shy and inexperienced when it comes to women and bridging that gap will definitely help. Take the initiative and help him get started.

{{4. Avoid being in a rush}}

You make it easy for bad guys to take advantage of you when you appear desperate. Don’t be too quick to have sex with a guy. Learn to make him wait.

{{5. The traits you seek in a man matters }}

You can’t get a good guy if all you are interested in is searching for a guy who is super hot. Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing actually wrong with dating a hot guy but that shouldn’t be a priority when choosing a man. If you want a good man, go for a hardworking man who knows how to treat a woman right.

{{6. Have standards }}

You can’t meet a good man if you don’t have standards as a woman. When I talk about standards, I don’t mean seeking men with deep pockets. A woman with standards won’t tolerate poor behaviour from a man.

{{7. How he treats his mother and others matter }}

A man can’t give you what he doesn’t have. If he loves and respects his mother and others around him, chances are that he will respect you too.

{Conversations are also a way of communication and could help your relationship. Conversations could draw couples closer, bond them the more, help them understand each other better and solve problems even before it occurs.}

Every strong couple have these kinds of conversations:

{{1. Deep conversations }}

Couples should talk about life; their views, goals, dreams, fears, pains and their journey so far in life. Deep conversations would give couples a deeper insight of each other.

{{2. The future}}

This is also a given. Every strong couple should talk about their future; what they want in life, their future goals and the future of the relationship and how they both want it to be.

{{3. Your faith and beliefs }}

This even goes deeper than deep and would bond you and your partner in a spiritual way. If you are both Christians, you should discuss your Christian life and faith with each other. Talk about the deeper things in life and not just little things.

{{4. Your love }}

You should never forget to have conversations about your love for each other, what you mean to each other and how much you can’t do without each other.

{{5. Your issues
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Every relationship has its issues and these issues wouldn’t just go away on its own, except they are attended to and solved. Talk about your issues and what to do about them; your relationship would get a lot better when you do this.

{{6. Sex }}

Of course, you shouldn’t throw your sex life to the wind and expect it to blossom. You should talk about your sexual expectations, your fantasies, what you love and hate, and how to make the sex better. Your relationship would get better when the sex is better.

{{7. Family }}

You should talk about your children, your individual families and if you’re planning on having a family, you should also talk about it.

{{8. Fun }}

Never forget to talk about fun moments, having a beautiful time, meeting up with friends and enjoying this gift called life.

Having these conversations would draw you closer to your partner, make you both enjoy your relationship with each other and make your relationship a peace haven that would be cherished.

{For all the guys in the house whose partner’s have had all this kinds of sex, you are definitely the real MVP. For all those who don’t know about this, take note because your woman is definitely waiting for you.}

Here are the 16 kinds of sex every woman desires

1. She wants the kind of sex in which the both of you still have your clothes on.

2. She wants sex with just oral action and no penetration.

3. She wants the kind of sex that leaves her sleeping for hours afterwards.

4. She wants the kind of sex that starts immediately you shut the door.

5. She wants the kind of sex with lots of hours of foreplay.

6. She wants the kind of sex in which she can’t help but be so loud and she doesn’t care because the sex is good.

7. She wants the kind of sex that you initiate during an argument. Just kiss her lips during the argument and start something crazy.

8. She wants the kind of sex in which you hit the spot so hard that she wonders if the bed would collapse.

9. She also wants the sex with slow rhythm and non-stop touching.

10. She definitely wants that sex that leaves her shaky and unstable afterwards. Lol.

11. How about the make-up sex that’s totally worth the fight? She definitely wants that too.

12. She wants sex that’s so good that it drives her out of her mind and she accidentally break things.

13. She wants that sex that wakes her up in the morning and makes her late for work.

14. She wants that mind-blowing sex that makes the both of you discover a new and mind-blowing position.

15. She wants that sex where one of you do all the work.

16. She wants sex that’s so slow and deep that she whispers into your ears.

Can you give her all these kinds of sex?

{We owe our partner to be the best boyfriend/girlfriend they could ever ask for. Stop searching for the best partner and be that partner.}

Here are 9 tips that will help you be the best boyfriend/girlfriend in the world

{{1. Have self-control }}

You can’t be the ideal partner if you don’t have self-control. When you have self-control, you will rise above temptations that might destroy your relationship.

{{2. Have dreams and work towards achieving them }}

It’s nice having dreams but it’s better when you actually put in effort into making your dreams come true. The ideal partner takes his/her career seriously and doesn’t waste his/her life on idle stuffs.

{{3. Compromise }}

You can’t be the ideal partner if you are not willing to compromise. When you compromise, you set your pride aside for the good of the relationship.

{{4. Attention }}

The ideal partner ensures his/her partner is the most important part of their life. You shouldn’t starve your partner of your attention if you want to be the best boyfriend/girlfriend in the world.

{{5. Be patient with your partner }}

An ideal partner is a patient partner. You should ensure you don’t get impatient over the smallest things. Be patient with your partner.

{{6. Show kindness }}

The ideal partner is a partner who shows kindness. Kindness is important in every relationship. Be kind to your partner and handle everything with love.

{{7. Take care of yourself }}

An ideal partner doesn’t neglect his/her appearance. You can’t take care of someone else if you can’t first take care of yourself.

{{8. Give more than you receive }}

One problem most relationships have is everyone wants to be the receiver but rarely want to give. To be the ideal partner, you should strive to give more than you receive.

{{9. Don’t be cling }}

An ideal partner isn’t clingy. You have to give your partner space once in a while. No one enjoys being suffocated in a relationship.

{Saying I love you is okay but it’s never enough. Love alone can’t make your relationship last.}

Below are 10 things that would improve your relationship instantly

{{1. Prioritize }}

One of the most effective ways of proving you love your partner is by prioritizing your partner. You make your partner feel important when you prioritize him/her.

{{2. Support }}

Supporting your partner’s actions and decisions can make a lot of difference in your partner’s level of self-confidence.

{{3. Being concerned }}

Showing concern when you see partner in a bad mood can go a long way. When you show concern, it becomes easy for your partner to open up about his/her worries.

{{4. Be proud of your partner’s achievements }}

You should be proud of your partner’s achievement whether huge or small. When you are proud of your partner’s achievement, it motivates your partner to do even more.

{{5. It’s okay to have differences in opinion }}

Arguments are part and parcel of being in a relationship but the way you handle arguments matter. You should see arguments as an opportunity to see your partner’s point of view on a subject and not a war in which a winner must emerge.

{{6. Be there for your partner }}

You shouldn’t wait for your partner to ask for your help before you share their burden. When you see your partner in distress and in need of your help, ensure you are there for him/her.

{{7. Appreciate your partner }}

When you appreciate your partner’s efforts, no matter how little, you encourage your partner to do even more for you. Saying thank you in words and actions can make a big difference.

{{8. Believe in your partner }}

During difficult times and moments when everything seems not to work, believing in your partner can help your partner overcome.

{{9. Respect}}

Love and respect go hand in hand. You can’t claim to love someone if you don’t respect him/her. Respecting someone means holding them in high regard. You can’t cheat on someone you respect.

{{10. Apologizing when you are wrong }}

Some people would never apologize no matter what but will instead resort to playing the blame game. Relationships are for mature people and mature people apologize when they are wrong and make sure they don’t repeat the mistake.