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{Being a lady that loves her appearance and wouldn’t want to spoil it by having a mishap is not an easy feat; even the biggest of celebrities suffer from big mishaps even in big occasions.}

As human as we all are, we make mistakes but those mistakes can at least be curtailed to a favourable extent.

There are certain things every lady can quickly check in 5 minutes before leaving the house so as not to suffer one of those regular mishaps most ladies face and I’d list five of them.

{{1. Your make up }}

In a bid to rush up for an appointment, ladies sometimes err greatly on their makeup. I wonder how you would save your face when you can’t even save your looks from a makeup disaster. When done with your make up always make sure, it isn’t too ‘loud’ -the blush especially, also check your eye brow defining for excess concealer, check if your foundation is smooth and if your lip stick is excess or has spills; the area above your lips is another area that can ruin even a good make up, always make sure it blends with the rest of your face.

{{2. Your bra }}

When I see ladies adjusting their bra strap only one thing comes to mind; “why didn’t she do this at home?” Your bra strap can totally ruin your day if you aren’t careful. It’s important you check on your strap carefully before leaving the house, if it can’t stay hidden in your cloths then change it; it would save you far more comfort than having to adjust your strap every now and then.

{{3. Zippers}}

Zips are very fragile and can go bad at the wrong hour and you know what that means – disaster. When choosing a dress or skirt with zippers, make sure to ascertain the durability of that zip and change the dress if it’s not solid so you don’t have a disaster.

{{4. Panties }}

Yea, I can’t do this without adding that your panties are as well important. Uncomfortable panties can ruin your day; added weight can make you uncomfortable in your panties; if your panties are too tight or always slips in your butt then you might have an uncomfortable day. Always make sure you wear panties you are comfortable in.

{{5. Your hair }}

The saying a woman’s beauty is her hair isn’t farfetched, so the hair should always be given a quick look before leaving the house. There are two important things to check regarding the hair; the hair arrangement and your looks. Your make up would play a big part in how you look and your hair also adds that spice to your look; decision on whether to park your hair or pour it is also important. The most important thing to note is how you look with the hair pattern you chose.

One minute each for a quick check on these five things and your day would be super insured.

{Before you cheat on your partner, you need to read this and every lady should also make sure their partner reads this.}

According to a study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, men who cheat are more likely to suffer from penile fracture.

The researchers found that half of men suffering from penile fracture sustained the injury during an extramarital affair.

Before you cheat on your partner, you should remember that you could get a penile fracture.

According to the study, penile fracture occurs when there is a disruption of the tunica albuginea surrounding engorged erectile tissue during aggressive sexual behaviour.

{When is the perfect time in a new relationship to start letting out the fart in front of our partner?}

Whether we admit it or not, farts are inevitable in any relationship. It’s always going to happen but when is the ideal time to fart in front of your partner without looking completely unsexy?

A study was conducted by Mic using Google Forms collected answers from 125 people in their 20s and 30s to find out when we ought to start letting one rip in front of our partner in a new relationship.

Most people felt it was ideal letting it rip in front of their partner after two to six months of dating, with 29 percent of respondents saying that’s when they really start going for it.

25.2 percent of people surveyed said they won’t fart in front of their partner until 6 to 12 months into the relationship. 22.4% said they will never fart in front of their partner no matter what happens while 9.3 percent say they won’t do it until one year into the relationship.

The respondents were also asked “At what point in your relationship do you feel it’s acceptable to fart?” 33.3 percent said once they were sleeping at each other’s places regularly. 18.6 percent said they will only fart once they’d heard the other person fart.

One of the respondents in the survey however admitted that if you can’t fart with someone, you can’t be real with them.

{Do you have smelly feet? Smelly feet could be a bit embarrassing, and you wouldn’t want to take off your shoes when you are out of the house.}

Smelly feet can be so awful and could make you feel terrible too if another person perceives it. But what really causes smelly feet?

1. First you have to know that your feet aren’t really the problem. Each foot has more than 250,000 sweat glands that produce more than a pint of sweat in a day. If there isn’t enough ventilation, this perspiration could lead to feet odour.

2. Bacteria. The bacteria that lives on the skin feeds on the sweat, and in turn produces an acid called isovaleric acid, which causes an odour on the feet.

3. Athlete’s foot: this is another common cause of foot odour. It is an infection caused by a fungus which can cause the foot to smell.

4. Hyperhidrosis, alcohol and drugs, stress, harsh environment and poor hygiene can cause smelly feet.

5. Over wearing of shoes, and wearing shoes and socks that do not allow ventilation can cause smelly feet.

6. Diseases and certain drugs and medications can also cause smelly feet.

hese are the major reasons people have smelly feet.

{You would hardly see a relationship that exists without mistakes; mistakes are bound to happen since no one is perfect. However, when some mistakes keep happening repeatedly it becomes annoying; if mistakes that should be easily avoided keep happening it can make one frustrated.}

Every man in a relationship should be sensitive enough to know that some mistakes are way too costly and shouldn’t exist in the relationship else they would end up losing so many good women that care about them.

The following mistakes are mistakes most ladies out there would want her man to stop making; they should never exist in the relationship.

{{ 1. Complacency }}

This is one annoying mistake men make that should never be made. After all the care and attention a man gives to a lady when he’s trying to woo her, the moment he gets her, his approach changes; he begins to take so many things for granted forgetting that the same way he worked hard to get the lady should be the same way he should work hard to keep her; this is a frequent mistake so many men make and ladies are actually tired of being taken for granted.

{{2. Not listening to his lady }}

Complacency is one thing and not being listened to is another; a relationship exists between two people, no one forms a relationship with just himself. Being in a relationship with a lady means you ought to listen to her inasmuch as she has to listen to you. For understanding to exist in a relationship, both partners should be given a listening ear; so many ladies out there would complain of the fact that they are being sidelined by men and this is yet another mistake men make that women are tired of.

{{3. Over-domineering }}

We are not in the 16th century anymore; inasmuch as I strongly believe a man is the head of a family, being over domineering wouldn’t help the relationship at all. No lady wants to be in a relationship that can be compared to a military training and that is exactly what some relationship look like. Most men would want their will and their will alone to stand in a relationship, but such acts only show selfishness and insensitivity on the part of the man.

{{4. Domestic violence }}

Inasmuch as this doesn’t exist in every relationship, it is still a regular occurrence in countless relationships out there. So many women are being abused on a regular basis and don’t know how to leave the relationship. Most men would claim it was a mistake and they couldn’t control their anger, but to call a spade a spade, this is one mistake that shouldn’t even be made in the first place.

{{5. Unfaithfulness}}

Dating a man is one thing and dating a man that can be faithful is another. You would hardly see a man that can keep to a promise of being faithful. Most women are tired of moving from one relationship with a cheating man to another relationship with a cheating man; cheating should never exist in a relationship and it’s one stupid mistake women are tired of and would appreciate if men stop making; the recent trend among male celebrities is cheating on their partner and this has led to so many failed celebrity relationships.

{{6. Inconsistency in showing care }}

Most men would show care to their lady today and feel it ought to last till the next week. Women have short memories when it comes to this; roses and candy might show her you love her today but tomorrow is also another day to show to that woman that she’s special to you. Men make that mistake of resting on their oars when it comes to showing care to their lady and that’s a very big mistake to make; every day is just another day to show care.

{{7. Placing something or someone above your lady }}

What’s the need being in a relationship where you would be treated like second class material? Most women complain of being in a relationship where their man places so many things above them, including irrelevant things. For a lady to be in a relationship and not be a priority can be heart-breaking and this is another mistake no woman wants her man to make; a woman should always be a priority to her man.

{{8. Forgetting her birthday and other important dates }}

You may think that this is unnecessary but not in the world of a woman; every man should know that women are highly emotional and certain things which you may deem as unimportant are actually highly important to her. Anniversaries mark an important moment in the life of a woman and she feels it should matter to her man to; marriage anniversary for example is one thing women don’t take lightly; to a lady, forgetting dates like that means you take important things for granted. This is one grave mistake women would prefer their man don’t make.

Relationship is a serious work; you work to get it started and you work to keep it going strong. Certain mistakes show negligence and women are tired of negligence.

If most men out there can read this piece and take it to heart then putting a smile on the face of your lady would be such an easy task.

In the words of Shawn “the world would be a better place if we had better relationships”.

{A lot of men have found themselves being in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t really care about them; she might probably be there for his wealth or just for the sake of being in a relationship. However, when in a relationship with a woman who loves you, the relationship would be bliss, and the way she treats you would be different.}

These are some of the differences between a woman who loves you and a woman who doesn’t.

{{1. RESPECT}}

While women who love their men tend to treat their men with respect, women who don’t love their men tend to be disrespectful to their men. Love breeds respect; it isn’t something you can feign, and women who don’t love their men don’t know how to treat their men with respect.

{{2. SUPPORT}}

A woman who loves her men tends to be supportive of him; she tends to be there for him at all times and be there when he needs someone to lean on. Women who don’t love their men don’t know how to be there for their man, and this is a major difference.

{{3. HER EMOTIONS}}

A woman who loves a man would tend to be sweet, kind, romantic and affectionate towards him. Women who don’t love their men tend to be emotionally unavailable.

{{4. SELFLESSNESS/SELFISHNESS}}

Women who love their men don’t make the relationship about themselves; they aren’t selfish and they don’t think of themselves alone. This is one quality of love; love isn’t selfish. But women who don’t love their men tend to make the relationship about themselves.

{{5. VALUE}}

Women who love their men value their relationships too, and do everything possible to make it work. Women who don’t love their men treat their relationship with a lackadaisical attitude; they’re nonchalant about their relationships and don’t put efforts to make it work.

{{6. KIND/CRUEL}}

A woman who loves you would be kind to you; she would treat you like you are worth it and make you feel like the most precious person on the planet; she would value you.

A woman who doesn’t really love you would be cruel to you and wouldn’t even mind; she would do things that could hurt you but wouldn’t really care if you are hurt.

In her words, her actions, her emotions and everything she does; a woman who loves you would show it, and a woman who doesn’t love you would also show it.

{Sometimes all what you want to know about a lady is written on her face; all you have to do is look and understand.}

A woman’s facial expression means much more than you can imagine; almost everything she does, her face reveals it even without her knowing.

Have you been confused about your lady and her emotions? Well, today is your lucky day; I have the meaning for almost every expression.

{{ – When she stares into your eyes}}

Not all ladies are bold enough to stare into a man’s eyes; so if she stares into your eyes, it has to mean something. Most times, a lady stares into a man’s eyes when she finds him different and can’t probably tell what it is about him that she finds different; when she finds him interesting, when she finds him weird and when there is something about him that she can’t really point out then she would stare uncontrollably into his eyes. By this she’s trying to get some meaning.

– Also, if she looks down and moves her eyes in a sweeping motion across the floor then it means she’s attracted to someone. However, if she stares over a man’s head or give a sharp instant stare into a man’s eyes then she isn’t attracted to him.

{{The following facial expressions reveal whether she likes a man or not.}}

{{– When she wants a kiss}}

When a lady is attracted to a man and wants a kiss from him her pupils would dilate; this means she’s stimulated by you. A woman’s body is naturally programmed this way; whenever she’s attracted to someone, her brain tells the iris to let more light in.

However when her facial expression is dry and her eyes are flat or when there is a fold or wrinkled line on her forehead then she’s probably not attracted to you.

When she’s shy and is flattered by your presence, she tends to lend a blush and toy with so many objects like her hair and any other thing her hand comes across and she would also find it difficult staring into your eyes and wouldn’t want to catch your gaze.

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Though when she’s angry, she would stare straight into your eyes with her gaze so focused on you and there could probably be strained lines across her forehead.

Know your lady, study her expressions and make the most of it; a lady’s expression mostly has a meaning.

{Some personality traits are charming; when you have them, you would be appealing to almost everyone. It’s good for women to have some positive personality traits; these traits would make them more attractive.
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These are some personality traits that would make a woman attractive.

{{1. A woman who’sa goal-oriented }}

A woman who has goals and is passionate about her goals is usually seen as attractive to men. Women who are driven and goal-oriented are usually seen as attractive to most men.

{{2. Good sense of humour }}

A woman with a good sense of humour; who can take a joke as well join in one is also another attractive personality trait men like.

Women with bad sense of humour are not attractive to men.

{{3. A woman with standards }}

A woman with standards, who has clear patterns and don’t walk in any path set by others is an attractive woman. Women with standards are appealing to men.

{{4. Honesty }}

Honesty is another important trait that’s charming. An honest woman is trustworthy, and this gives her that extra bit of charm; it makes her believable.

{{5. Open-minded }}

Women who have a free mind and are willing to explore to new possibilities and ideas are easily attracted to. Open-minded women have this sort of charming mystery around them that would make a lot of men become attracted to them.

{{6. Kind }}

A kind woman is a woman with a good heart; her kindness gives a different appeal from every other woman. Her kindness adds an inner beauty that’s sincere and genuine.

{{7. Smartness }}

Smartness is another important quality that attracts a lot of men. A woman who’s smart usually thrills a man; her smartness makes her adorable and would make the man want to know more about her.

{{8. Confidence }}

Confidence would make you bold as a woman, it would make you daring and it would make you believe in yourself. These traits would make a man endeared to you.

Rather than build negative personality traits that would make you unattractive or make a man less attracted to you, these positive personality traits would make you more adorable.

{Pregnancy is an important stage of a woman’s life, but it isn’t just the woman who should carry the brunt of it all.}

A man ought to be his wife’s support system at this important time, and these are some things he ought to do when she’s pregnant.

{{1. Listen to her }}

Listen to her even when she is talking gibberish. Just knowing that you are there for her would give her enough strength.

{{2. Make her feel beautiful }}

She still wants to feel beautiful even when she’s pregnant; she wants to know that you still find her attractive even though she has gained weight and her body might have changed. Tell her she’s beautiful and make her feel beautiful.

{{3. Understand her mood swings }}

With pregnancy comes mood swings in many women; she could be happy this minute and very sad the next. Try to understand her mood swing and remain calm even when she’s acting irritable and easily angered. Hormonal changes could make a woman act this way.

{{4. Spoil her }}

Spoil her, treat her well, take her out on dates, pamper her and be affectionate towards her.

{{5. Check on her }}

Even when you are at work or away from her, call her to know how she’s doing. It shows you care about her and the pregnancy.

{{6. Take a walk with her }}

The good thing about taking a walk with her is that it’s a form of exercising that’s healthy for your pregnant wife and for you as well. This would also make her happy and increase the bond between the two of you.

{{7. Be faithful }}

This is where a lot of men err; men cheat the most when their wives are pregnant, and this is unfair. She expects you to still love her body and remain faithful to her.

{{8. Keep her from worrying}}

A lot of women tend to get stressed and worry a lot when they’re pregnant. If your wife does this, be her support system, keep her from worrying and if possible, help ease her from stress.

{{9. Make love to her }}

That she’s pregnant doesn’t mean she no longer has feelings or desires; she would still want you to touch her and make love to her.

{{10. Feed her}}

With pregnancy comes a lot of craving and hunger too. Don’t criticise her like other men do, feed her and try to satisfy her craving. This is also why you need to have walks with her, so she can keep in shape too.

Your wife needs you when she’s pregnant, and if you are a good husband, you would do these things.

{A quote reads: “Fear is not real. It is the product of the thoughts you create. Danger is very real, but fear is a choice.”}

The last phrase of that quote says ‘fear is a choice’ and that is true.You let your mind into tricking you to fear; you have a choice to allow such thoughts or repel it.

I’ve written on the things fear does to you, now it’s time to know the reasons you should overcome your fears.

These five tips would tell you why.

{{1. It’s just a mental picture }}

Fear only exists in the mind; the fear of failing, the fear of getting old, the fear of dying. These fears exist in your mind and prevent you from living your life. When you realise that fear is just a mental picture, you would easily overcome it.

{{2. Fear limits you }}

That mental picture called fear would actually limit you; it would limit your potentials and limit you from giving life your best shot. Even things you can achieve would look insurmountable when you live in fear.

{{3. You would only exist and not live }}

Fear would hold you from living your life. You can’t live your life to the fullest when you live in fear. It would make you exist, while you watch others live their lives.

{{4. It’s a waste of energy }}

Do you know that fear is energy sapping? Fear restricts blood flow to certain areas of your body and increases blood flow to your muscles.

This is a waste of energy that should be conserved or channelled into other important things.

{{5. It would always be there }}

You can’t run away from fear; the best thing to do is to overcome it. When you let it in, it would be the driver of your life, and if you try to run away from it, it would always come back to haunt you.

Getting rid of fear in your life could be the best decision you would make.