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{Are you single because you are finding it really difficult impressing a lady?}

Here are 9 reasons why you are single and no girl wants to date you

1. You are boring to be with and you find it really difficult having a conversation with a lady. Women love men they can have a conversation with.

2. You have a poor fashion dress and you are not well-groomed. You just don’t take proper care of yourself. Women love men who are presentable.

3. You are lazy and don’t have a source of income. Every woman loves a man who is hardworking and can handle his own biz. No woman wants a man who’s going to be a liability to her. She doesn’t need you to be rich but she wants to know you have dreams and you are hardworking enough to achieve those dreams.

4. You get too touchy when you meet women. No woman enjoys being around a man who gets too touchy the first time they meet. Learn how not to cross the line.

5. You don’t know how to treat women and see women as inferior beings. Every woman wants a man that will respect her and see her as a partner. Women don’t enjoy men who see themselves as superior. Men and women are special in their unique ways. She wants you to understand that.

6. You crack inappropriate jokes when you are around women. Just because your pals think the jokes are cool doesn’t mean she would appreciate them. Avoid inappropriate jokes.

7. You don’t know what you want in a woman. Women want men who know what they want in a woman. A man who is desperate to just be with any type of woman is a turn-off to most women.

8. You are not a confident man. Confidence is a huge turn-on for most women. She expects you to be a confident man.

9. You have a very bad reputation. No woman wants a man with a bad reputation. She won’t date you if she thinks you are a woman-beater or a womanizer.

{Sex, sex and sex; so much emphasis has been placed on men and how much they love sex, and so little has been said of the other things every man would appreciate in his lady.}

Yes, I must admit that most men out there are sensitive to the issue of sex and so many would even sell the worth of their relationship just to have sex with some other woman and some other woman and some other woman…the list goes on.

However, there are some things every decent man would appreciate in his lady and that’s what this article would centre on.

No, a decent man doesn’t only want sex, 8 other things he would appreciate.

{{1. HONESTY}}

OK, let’s take a quick survey in our hearts; which man would love to have a lady that cheats on him, lie to him and can never be trusted for a moment? I mean, I doubt any right thinking man would love to have a dishonest lady that he can’t trust as the special woman in his life. This shows that men also appreciate honesty especially now that we live in times where honesty seems to be a thing of the past.

{{2. FASHIONABLE}}

Yea, men would always love this feature, and by being fashionable I don’t mean you have to have do a Kim Kardashian. Men love it when they can pride in their lady, take her to functions with him and confidently introduce that woman to everyone with joy in their heart. If she has at least a basic knowledge of how to look good then the man would appreciate that. Show me one decent man out there that wouldn’t appreciate his wife/girlfriend if she looks good.

{{3. A GOOD HEART}}

A woman with a good heart is always a joy to be with; she can provide a spark to a man’s world. A decent man would never toy with such a woman; a decent man would always cherish a woman with a cheerful heart, a loving spirit and one who doesn’t easily hold grudges. Many women are hard to live with but not the woman with a good heart.

{{4. GOOD COOKING SKILLS}}

Who says men don’t like a woman that can create some magic with her culinary skills? I still remember some old quotes which show that men have this relationship with not just food but good food; men would always say “there is nothing like a good home-made meal”; older women would always give one advice to their daughters; “the best way to win a man’s heart is through his stomach”. This shows one thing: men appreciate good cooking skills.

{{5. BEING EMOTIONALLY STRONG}}

The emotionally strong woman isn’t one any decent man would take for granted; most men out there would appreciate an emotionally strong woman. An emotionally strong woman would always be held in high esteem by a man because she isn’t just strong for her, she’s strong for her family, she’s strong for her friends, she’s a fighter and one that can motivate her man to be whoever he wants to be.

{{6. MUTUAL SUPPORT }}

A relationship is never a one man affair; it’s always a two way thing; the man should be supportive of his lady and the other way round. I doubt there is a decent man out there who wouldn’t appreciate a woman that contributes to the development of the relationship rather than relax with the mentality that the man should do it all.

{{7. CONFIDENT AND LACK INSECURITY ISSUES}}

A confident woman always knows her worth and men just find this as an attraction. The confident woman isn’t affected with the mentality of having insecurity; she takes pride in herself and works hard to be who she wants to be. One thing about self-worth is that it makes others see the value in you, and self-worth isn’t pride.

{{8. INTELLIGENCE}}

Truth be told, men no longer appreciate dummies; a woman who seems to know nothing about anything would hardly win the respect of her man but not the intelligent woman; the intelligent woman is a marvel and men are drawn to things that marvel them. Check out most of the things men love: fast cars, sports, technology, body building, space, jets – these things marvel men and it shows that anything beyond the ordinary would marvel a man, and trust me, an intelligent woman is beyond the ordinary.

So ladies, I would advise you, if you are still dating a man who only appreciates you because of sex then you are probably on the wrong side of the divide. There are so many decent men out there that would appreciate so many other good qualities.

{Some guys out there have this woman who they thought they would spend the rest of their life with but somewhere down the line, they broke up.}

Do you still think about her? Do you wish you can have her back?

These tips below will help you get her back.

{{1. FIGURE OUT WHAT WENT WRONG}}

If you don’t understand what caused the breakup, you can’t get her back. She won’t come back to you if you don’t know what caused the breakup in the first place.

{{2. REACH OUT AND CONTACT HER}}

Now you know the cause of the breakup, it’s time to reach out to her. Call her and ask to see her. You can suggest having a drink with her or something not too serious. You should understand that she might say no and you need to respect her decision if she does. When you call her, you should avoid making statements like you want her back and stuffs like that.

{{3. SHOW HER YOU ARE A CHANGED MAN}}

She broke up with you for a reason and if she’s going to take you back, she has to see changes in you. You can only show her you are a changed man by improving on the things that made you guys break up. She has to see a changed man when she meets you.

{{4. MAKE THE MEETING FUN}}

The meeting has to be fun . She has to see the fun side of you that made her date you previously. The meeting with her should be casual and shouldn’t be the time to go for her.

{{5. CONTINUE MEETING HER AND GO FOR IT THEREAFTER}}

If she agrees to see you again, that’s a good sign. Make sure you keep seeing her and make each meeting is fun. You can go for her and ask her back when you observe she’s now comfortable being around you again.

Patience is needed when trying to get back your ex. You should also remember that it’s a 50-50 thing. She might not be ready to come back to you and you have to be ready to accept that.

But it’s nice you man up and give it a shot because you never know.

{Have you ever wondered why women cry on their wedding day or why we generally cry when we are happy? It has always been called tears of joy but why do the tears flow when we are supposed to be happy? This question seems to have been answered by Psychologists at Yale University in New Haven, Connecticut. So if you want to know why your wife cried during your wedding, you should keep reading.}

The researchers claim when your wife cries with happiness on your wedding day or when you cry generally when you are happy, you are responding to a happy experience with a negative reaction.

Oriana Aragon, the Yale psychologist who led the study never understood why people cried when they are happy and she claims it never made sense to her. I think she isn’t alone here because it never made sense to me too.

Oriana Aragon thinks she now understands why we cry when we are happy after conducting a series of studies into seemingly incongruous expressions.

“People may be restoring emotional equilibrium with these expressions,” she explained.

“They seem to take place when people are overwhelmed with strong positive emotions and people who do this seem to recover better from those strong emotions.”

After measuring the participants’ response to to cute babies or happy reunions, they discovered that individuals who express negative reactions to positive news were able to moderate intense emotions more quickly.

So according to the research, tears of joy are helpful because it helps people manage extremely emotional, overwhelming moments. People who cry with happiness are able to moderate intense emotions more quickly.

So now you know why your wife cried during your wedding day.

The report is published in the journal Psychological Science.

{A wedding is a once in a lifetime event; so, it’s good to have everything in order so you would enjoy the memories that follow.}

There are some wedding mistakes that you should be wary of.

{{1. Choosing a friend over a pro
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This is a common wedding day mistake that many people make. You might have a friend who’s a DJ, a photographer or a caterer. Because they are your friends, you would be tempted to choose them. However, this doesn’t go down well in many cases. So many friends become so unprofessional about their services, and there is nothing you could do about it at that time.

{{2. Spending the money budgeting for a fashion on just the dress }}

This is a common wedding mistake women make. It’s good to have a budget for your wedding; this keeps you in check. If you have money budgeted for fashion, don’t get tempted to spend the money on just your wedding dress alone. Remember that there is also makeup, your hair, accessories and shoes to contend with.

{{3. Not hiring a videographer }}

Photos are good but you would want that day to be saved in video too. There are a lot of things you would miss during your wedding, and playing it over again on video would save you special memories. If you can afford this, then don’t leave it out.

{{4. Starting your make up late
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Makeup takes time, and when it’s on your ‘D day’, it takes more time. Starting your make-up late could make you behind schedule for your wedding, and you might end up rushing things.This is a common mistake you should avoid.

{{5. Sending out cards before planning }}

Don’t be in a hurry to tell everyone about your wedding or start giving out cards for your wedding without planning on the kind of wedding you want, the hall to be used and the number of guests that you should invite.

Avoid these common wedding day mistakes and enjoy the time of your life.

{If you are a man and you have experienced some of the stuffs on the list, we will angry with me that they can be quiet annoying. It’s still a mystery to me why women do this but these stuffs they do is a huge concern for us men.}

Below are 5 annoying things women do during sex

{{1. LAUGHS WHEN SHE SEES YOUR TOOL}}

Imagine putting all your time and energy as a man to make a woman yours and during your first sex she laughs when you pull off your trousers. Now that could be so embarrassing. LOL, sorry I laughed but It’s really embarrassing. She could kill a man’s self-confidence forever by doing that and I don’t think you would really want him to go through all that. If you think he is too small, maybe you should keep it to yourself.

{{2. SHE IS LIKE A LOG OF WOOD DURING SEX}}

The worst sex a man can ever experience is with a woman who just stays on the bed like a log of wood. She is so quiet during sex and you just wonder why. She rarely moves too. Nothing could be creepier than that.

{{3. IS IT IN?}}

That’s the worst question a woman can ask a man during sex. Imagine the man’s tool is already inside her and she ask him if it’s in, that could be very demoralising. It’s a big blow to man’s self-confidence. Nothing could be more humiliating than that and that question means two things- that you are small and incapable of satisfying her.

{{4. SHE CHANGES HER MIND ABOUT HAVING SEX WITH YOU MID-WAY}}

Just imagine you have kissed and undressed her then she suddenly changes her mind about having sex. No matter the reasons she comes up with, that could really be heart breaking and it even feels worse if it’s your first of having sex with her. The question I always ask is why did she lead the man on if she knew she won’t have sex. This could be very frustrating.

{{5. CALLS THE NAME OF ANOTHER MAN}}

Okay imagine you having the best sex of your life with her and she calls out the wrong name? WTF!!! Nothing in this world could be more heart breaking than that. Could this be the most annoying of them all? I really don’t know how else to put it but I know it’s very embarrassing and annoying when she calls another man’s name during sex.

Okay ladies, guys would really love it if all these are eliminated from the bedroom. Can the ladies please hear us out?

{A woman who smiles would easily charm hearts more than a woman who doesn’t. Smiling has a lot of good qualities, and a woman who smiles would easily gain a man’s attention.}

{{This is why.}}

{{1. SHE LOOKS MORE BEAUTIFUL}}

Smiles make a woman look way more beautiful in a man’s eyes; it would make her glow and make her radiate, and in turn gain a man’s attention.

{{2. SHE HAS THIS FRIENDLY APPEAL}}

Smiles send this warm, friendly appeal. This is why men tend to approach women who let out a smile more than a frowning woman. Smiles are warm, they calm nerves, it makes everyone feel at ease and it’s friendly.

{{3. SMILES ARE USUALLY CHARMING}}

Smiles are charming; there is a magic to smiling that charms the man’s heart. It goes beyond the shining white teeth; it goes beyond what you see outside. Smiling creates an appeal in a man’s heart that makes the woman looks more charming.

{{4. IT PASSES A GOOD MESSAGE}}

A woman who smiles passes a good message about herself; men would easily perceive her to be good and kind-hearted. There’s this general good feeling about her in a man’s eyes.

{{5. SHE’S EASIER TO BE WITH}}

A woman who smiles is easier to be with; she’s easier to strike a conversation with, she’s easier to approach and even after you’ve known her, she’s much livelier to be with. Her smiles make the difference.

{{6. IT GOES BEYOND WHAT YOU SEE}}

A smile goes beyond what you see in a man’s world; it’s more than the physical attraction, it’s more than the physical beauty. It goes deep down in a man’s heart and strikes a feeling that he wouldn’t really be able to explain.

Nothing could beat a smiling face; a woman who always smiles would be seen as adorable by men — and these are some of the reasons why.

{Researchers at Florida State University have found that the secret to a happy marriage isn’t buying expensive gifts or going on romantic vacation.}

According to the researchers, the secret to having a happy marriage is a good night’s sleep.

The researchers claim having seven to eight hours of sleep a night means partners are less likely to focus on the negative aspects of their relationship and more inclined to think about the bigger picture.

According to the research which was published in the Journal of Family Psychology, sleep also helps restore function in the prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain that manages self-control, which is thought to improve our perception of relationships.

To arrive at this conclusion, the researchers asked 68 newlywed couples to record their sleep patterns for a week.

The couples were also asked to keep a diary of how they felt about their marriage and how rows affected their view of the relationship.

The researchers also assessed the levels of satisfaction of the couples’ sex lives, levels of affection, time spent together, partners’ mood and how the couples resolved rows. This was done using what they called the Kansas Marital Satisfaction Scale.

The researchers also revealed that husbands benefitted more from a proper night’s sleep.

“Sleep is an important factor that affects marital satisfaction,” the researchers said.

“Up to a third of married or cohabiting adults report that sleep problems burden their relationship.”

So sleep is as important as honesty and respect in every relationship.

{Making your man want you is one feat every lady would like; after all, the more he wants you the lesser he would yearn for other ladies.}

We got a message from a fan asking for some tips on how to make your man want you and thought there was a need to write this article.

It’s important to know that when your man loses that desire to be with you, he might gradually get that desire to be with other women. This piece is for every lady that feels her man is hardly ever attracted to make out time for her in the sheets and also for those who always want their man to get turned on by their presence.

So many people and experts would give you so many tips on this one, but I would reveal just 7 effective ways; they might be simple but they are highly effective.

{{1. YOU MIGHT WANT TO WALK AROUND IN REVEALING OUTFITS}}

When you are home with your man there is no better trick to get his eyes on you than to wear revealing outfits. This is one old-fashioned technique that would still hold sway even till the next generation. If I must add, try to make it effortless, he would easily get turned on when he feels that your actions are spontaneous. It doesn’t end at wearing revealing outfits, make sure they are sexy, men are attracted to bright colours, choose the right colours.

{{2. TELL HIM TO HELP YOU WITH STUFFS}}

Sometimes telling him to help you with some intimate things can spark a fire within him. Things like helping you zip your dress down when you are back, take off your bra and even some other things like changing in front of him or asking for something when you are having your bath. This gives him that awareness of your body presence, and sooner or later, he would be the one asking for some action.

{{3. DO THINGS TOGETHER}}

Doing things with your man is one fast way to make him want you; this one comes naturally. Watch a movie at home together, do the dishes together; spending time generally doing things that would interest you two creates a certain atmosphere that would definitely make him easily want you.

{{4. A TOUCH CAN DO A LOT}}

There is an old time saying about nothing being as sweet as a woman’s touch. Well, there are so many truths in that saying; touch releases a hormone called oxytocin, and you might want to know the effect of oxytocin; oxytocin is also called the love hormone and it can help reinforce the love and passion in your relationship.

{{5. SEND HIM A HOT PHOTO OF YOU}}

If he’s your man then this is one unofficial trick you can use to get his attention. While he’s at work, one hot photo is enough to make him start thinking of rushing back home, but be careful not to make him lose concentration and lose his job. Lol. Anyways, my point is, a hot photo can act like a reminder and it’s also quite romantic.

{{6. DON’T FORCE IT}}

This is one tip every lady should always take note of; never ever force it. Trying to force your man to want you is the more reason he would neglect you; you should know when to back off, when to give him some space and every tip in this article should be done effortlessly. When a woman always try to be the hunter and make her man the prey, it could backfire; but when you use these tips as bait it would definitely keep your man coming.

{{7. WEARING HIS STUFFS IS ALSO ANOTHER EFFECTIVE TRICK}}

This is another technique in getting your man to want you that people hardly talk about. Men find it highly sexy when their ladies slip into their shirts and t-shirts every now and then; it gives him that feeling of ‘this lady is mine’ and minus that feeling, there is hardly anything more attractive than a woman wearing just her man’s T-shirt and nothing else – no leggings, no shorts, just his t-shirts; we love it.

These tips would always keep that sexual desire burning in a relationship; some may argue that the sexual desire in a relationship might not be important but many would tell you that the sexual desire would build the passion in the relationship, and I would stick with the latter rather than the former.

{Below are five sex mistakes most men are guilty of. If you don’t want to make these mistakes, then you should be reading this.
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1. Don’t expect penetration alone to give her the Big O. Most men think sex alone would make her climax but that’s so wrong.

2. Avoid being monotonous. You shouldn’t just stick with a particular position, variety is important. Because she enjoyed you taking her from behind the last four times doesn’t mean you should stick with it.

3. Assuming you know what she wants. Women fake it a lot so don’t be quick to assume you know everything about her in the bedroom.

4. Assuming only women should seduce. Women want to be seduced too.Try mastering some good techniques.

5. Assuming sex starts and ends in the bedroom. Men should understand women don’t get quickly turned on like men. You can start laying foundations for a good time in the bedroom from the start of the day. It shouldn’t start just when she is beside you in the bedroom. Sending her messages about you expecting a good sex later in the day should help start the process. Sex should be a process.

Avoid these mistakes and be a better man in the bedroom.