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{Men are always curious as to what parts of a woman’s body is the most sensitive to touch; well fellas, today is your lucky day as science has confirmed the spots women are most sensitive to.}

Canadian scientists did a research to figure out which parts of a woman’s body are the most erogenous. The researchers studied 3o healthy women between the ages of 18 and 35, undressed and lay on a table covered in a bed sheet, used light touch, pressure and vibration to assess how sensitive women’s’ clitoris, labia minora, vaginal margin, anal margin, lateral breast (side boob), areola (the small ring of skin surrounding the nipple), nipple, neck and forearm area.

They applied stimulation for 1.5 seconds, and waited for five seconds before asking the women if they felt it.

The research which was published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found out these three as the most sensitive areas:

– For a light touch the neck, forearm, and vaginal margin are the most sensitive areas, and the areola is the least sensitive.

– For pressure, the clitoris and nipple are the most sensitive, and the side boob and abdomen are the least.

– The clitoris and nipple are the most sensitive to vibration.

Another interesting thing they found was that the genital area was more sensitive to pressure than light touch.

However, the researchers say that understanding these sensitive areas is useful knowledge for breast augmentation and gender reassignment surgery.

{You can’t always take everything on face value, but then, sometimes what you see is actually what you get. As much as I know that sexual prowess can’t really be known until tested, there are signs that sometimes give it away even before you hit the bedroom.}

So, I present to you 5 ways you can tell a woman’s bedroom skills is top of the chain.

{{SHE’S GOOD WITH HER TONGUE}}

One of the many ways of giving sexual pleasure is with the tongue. If a woman is extremely good at kissing, then, there’s a very big chance she’ll know to use it in many other relevant ways (you know what I mean?).

{{SHE HAS MAD DANCING SKILLS}}

I have a friend who likes very good female dancers. One day, I asked him why he’s drawn to women who can whine, and he said “Because they’re good in bed.” I didn’t take him seriously until I met one myself. Honestly fellas, if she can whine, there’s a very big possibility she would be good under the sheets too.

{{SHE’S FLEXIBLE}}

If you happen to meet her at a gym, and find that her contortions game is impressive, you may have found yourself a bedroom killer. The better a person, especially a woman can contort; the easier it’ll be for her to try different positions… even the ones that seem impossible.

{{ SHE’S CONFIDENT}}

You probably haven’t noticed, but confidence level can also suggest how good person will be in bed. If they’re bold outside the bedroom, why wouldn’t they be bold inside the bedroom? Get it?

{{SHE LIKES TO TALK ABOUT SEX}}

If you happen to get into a conversation with a girl, and somehow, she delves into sexual topics, it may be an indicator that she loves sex, and for that to be, it means she’s done it enough to develop a level of addiction to it. Now, imagine what she’d do to you in the bedroom with all that knowledge.

Remember, these are just signs; it doesn’t always mean it’s true.

{If a man really wants a woman he perceives he can’t get the easy way, he usually cooks up different stories he can tell her to win her heart (more like deceive her into giving in to his desires), and that is why women must be more careful in dealing with men. When a guy comes your way, be sure to access him properly, lest you fall for one of the following lies…the top 6 lies men tell just to get into your pants. Read, and thank me later…
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{{1. I’M SINGLE…AND READY TO MINGLE}}

When a man desperately wants to get in bed with you, he’s going to do everything he can to achieve that purpose, and that includes lying about his relationship status. If he tells you he has a girlfriend, chances are you’ll run in the other direction. One of the common lies men tell is that they’re single when they’re actually in a relationship. Sometimes you have to take his word for it, but if you take the time to do some digging of your own, you might find out something that will kill-off any feeling you have for him.

{{2. I WON’T TELL ANYONE}}

Sometimes, you like a guy, and wanna hook up with him, but somehow, you have doubts about his ability to keep secrets. Now, being the smart man that he is, he’ll want to delete your doubts. He’ll promise you that he’ll keep your romance a secret, but he’ll end up bragging to his friends. Once he blabs to one person, it can quickly become public knowledge, and it won’t stay secret for long.

{{3. YOU’RE AMAZING/YOU’RE JUST MY TYPE}}

Ladies, beware when a man constantly showers you with compliments. Of course they’re genuine sometimes, but often times, they’re nothing but a ploy to get you in bed. If he feels like he has to butter you up before you’ll kiss him or have sex with him, he’ll say whatever he has to say. He’ll tell you you’re beautiful, and that you’re so ‘marryable’ (if there’s such a word). He might even tell you that he loves you. If you’re anywhere near a bed, don’t always take his word for it.

{{4. I EARN BIG}}

This lie is often used on women who are more attracted to men with higher incomes. If a guy perceives that you’re easily impressed by a fat wallet and fancy things, he’ll use that weakness against you. He’ll lie about his job; how much he earns, and what he does for a living. He’ll tell you that he makes six figures, or that he recently got promoted. He’ll say whatever he can to appear more marketable. There are women who just fall prey to this sort of lie, not because they are attracted to money, but because they met the wrong guy.

{{5. I LOVE CHILDREN…CAN’T WAIT TO HAVE MINE}}

If a man’s really desperate, he’ll also lie about something as important as children. I mean, what do women love more than babies? In an attempt to impress you, he’ll make you believe that he loves babies, and that he wants to get married and have kids as soon as possible. That way, you’ll think of him as a potential mate, and won’t mind jumping into bed with him. This is one of the most deceitful ways men use to get into a woman’s pants.

{{6. I JUST WANT TO CUDDLE}}

It’s common knowledge that women like cuddling a lot. They love to feel a man’s body pressed against their own, and most times, when they do it, they do it for the sake of it, and nothing more. However, men rarely cuddle for the sake of it. If a man wants to cuddle with you, chances are he wants to have sex in the process…so ladies, always be wary. It’s possible that he’s romantic, but most times, he’s using cuddling as an excuse to get into your pants.

{{So ladies, BEWARE!}}

{Staying in love forever with your partner needs an effort from you and your partner.}

Below are 20 ways to stay in love with your partner

1. Learn to pick your battles wisely. Some fights aren’t just worth it.

2. Spend quality time with your partner regularly. Whether it’s a weekly night date, or a vacation together, you should ensure you create time for your partner regularly.

3. Cherish your partner and make your partner feel loved and appreciated.

4. Men should treat the woman in their life like a queen while women should treat like their man like a king. You can only do this when you put his/her needs ahead of yours because this shows how important he/she is to you.

4. Before you do anything, you should consider your partner’s feelings and needs.

5. Daily communication is needed. Make sure you call your partner or send a message at least once a day.

6. Make it a habit to appreciate your partner daily. Overlook your partner’s faults and focus on his/her positives.

7. Be your partner’s best friend. What is important to your partner should be important to you.

8. Never stop doing the things you did in the beginning.

9. Make it a habit of asking your partner how his/her day went.

10. Be spontaneous. Don’t let your relationship get stale.

11. Listen to your partner without interruption. Good partners listen to each other.

12. Learn to meet your partner half way. Compromise is important in every relationship.

13. No one is perfect. Learning to forgive each other is very important.

14. Don’t force your partner into doing things he/she isn’t comfortable doing.

15. Never keep your partner waiting. Always be on time when meeting him/her.

16. Make each other laugh.

17. Trust your partner. No relationship can survive without trust.

18. Do the things your partner enjoys doing sometimes even if you might not like them.

19. Never let a day pass by without saying “I love you”.

20. Always praise your partner’s physical appearance.

{This study is no excuse for anyone to have multiple sexual partners as we all know the dangers of doing that but the findings from the study is really worth publishing.}

According to a study published by The Journal of Sexual Medicine, women who have sex less than twice a month get sick more often than those who climax regularly.

The researchers from the Women’s Health Program at Monash University in Australia did find that women who had climaxed more had higher levels of energy, fewer illnesses and a better psychological outlook.

It’s also important to note too that according to the study, the key for women is the climax and it isn’t just about getting laid. Having sex and not reaching that height might mean you won’t enjoy all its health benefits.

So this means more work for our men, LOL. Get your women strong and healthy by getting her across the finish line.

Like I said earlier, this is no excuse to have multiple sex partners.

{Those in long term relationships or better still, those that are married would definitely relate to this. You would all agree with me that something changes about your s*x life after being with someone for a year.}

I have got a list of things everyone in a long term relationship or marriage goes through

{{1. YOU BECOME COMFORTABLE BEING NAKED IN YOUR PARTNER’S PRESENCE AFTER SEX:}}

Do you remember when you used to rush to cover up after s*x with your partner? It’s funny how it becomes so easy to remain naked after s*x after dating for a while.

{{2. YOU RARELY ALTERNATE POSITIONS WHEN MAKING LOVE:}}

In the beginning you could alternate between 6-10 positions during s*x but these days you barely go past 3.

{{3. YOU GO WEEKS WITHOUT SEX:}}

In the beginning, you couldn’t go a day without sex but these days you could go weeks or even months without getting down.

{{4. YOU FART DURING SEX AND YOU DON’T CARE:}}

You could be kissing your partner and you just fart; the amazing thing is you don’t even care. Eeewww.

{{5. IF YOU ARE NOT INVENTIVE, IT COULD BECOME BORING:}}

Boring, boring sex. That seems to be what our bedroom whispers silently to us after we have been in a relationship for a year. Only those that are inventive overcome this.

{{6. YOU MAKE FUN ABOUT EACH OTHER’S SEX FLAWS:}}

After being with your partner for so long, it becomes so easy to make fun of your partner’s sex flaws without hurting their feelings. You both laugh at it while you both talk about it. Coooooool.

{{7. KISSING YOUR PARTNER BEFORE THEY BRUSH IN THE MORNING BECOMES NORMAL:}}

In the beginning, you won’t dare kiss your partner in the morning when they haven’t brushed. You could just give a quick kiss and that’s it but no tongues. LOL. Well after being together for a long time, it no longer becomes gross.

What else do you think missed the list, why don’t you share with us?

{The passion just before sex can make couple who use a condom even rush to wear it, and researchers say that it could lead to higher health risk.}

The study used data collected from 2007 through 2011 from 512 men and women who sought treatment at five U.S health clinics with reputations for diagnosing and treating sexually transmitted infections.

The participants, whose ages ranged from 15 through 65, recorded their sexual encounters in an online diary for up to 180 days. In total, the data covered 8,856 instances of vaginal sex between men and women that included condoms.

About 7 percent of the sexual encounters were reportedly being rushed while putting on the condoms.

The effect was: the condom broke, slipped off and leaked about 5 percent of the time when people rushed to put it on, which is in stark contrast when compared to about 2 to 3 percent of time when they didn’t rush to put on the condoms.

According to Lydia Shrier of Boston Children’s Hospital and Harvard Medical School; “The message is take your time. If you’re going to be using the condom, use it correctly so you avoid the type of problems we reported on.”

“I think that this study demonstrates that being rushed when putting a condom on can produce a whole range of problems with a condom,” Shrier said.

According to the U.S. Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), consistent and correct use of condoms reduces the risk of infections such as Chlamydia and gonorrhoea that are transmitted by sexual fluids. It also reduces the risk of ulcer conditions, such as herpes.

“It works really well to prevent sexually transmitted infections when it’s used correctly and consistently.”

“Until we overcome all of those hurdles, condoms can’t really work to prevent disease,” Shrier said.

So people, don’t be carried away by the passion that comes with sex; always make sure you wear your condoms properly.

{Positive thinking doesn’t start when you are faced with a terrible situation, it doesn’t start when you are faced with challenges; it starts when you wake up each morning. It starts with the things you speak, the things you say and the things you believe.}

These are some things you should say to yourself when you wake up.

{{1. THANK GOD FOR A NEW MORNING}}

Be glad and grateful that you saw a new morning. Don’t think negatively about anything; just be grateful.

{{2. “TODAY WOULD BE A GOOD DAY”}}

Say to yourself that today would be good, and believe it in your heart that today would actually be good.

{{3. “TODAY IS FILLED WITH POSSIBILITIES”}}

Everyday is filled with possibilities; believe it and say it to yourself as you wake up each morning.

{{4. “TODAY’S A HAPPY DAY”}}

If you want a happy day, say to yourself that today would be a happy day.

{{5. “I CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY TODAY”
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Speak to yourself what you choose; choose to be happy and be glad no matter what.

{{6. “I CAN DO IT”}}

Say to yourself that you can do that daunting task which you have had challenges with.

{{7. “THE EARTH WOULD FAVOUR ME”}}

As long as you are alive, say to yourself that the earth would favour you each day.

{{8. “TODAY WOULD BE SUCCESSFUL”}}

Speak out success to yourself and forget about failure every morning.

9. “I’M BEAUTIFUL”

Look at yourself each morning in the mirror and tell yourself that you’re beautiful, and love just the way you are.

{{10. “I CAN MAKE AN IMPACT”}}

Believe that you are awesome and that you can make an impact, and say it to yourself each morning as you wake up.

What do you say to yourself when you wake up?

There’s a lot of negativity in the world today, and you shouldn’t be carried away with them. Remain positive by saying these things above.

{Some people are single by choice while some are single not because they chose to, but because they just can’t seem to get someone hooked…no matter how much they try, these sets of people just can’t get someone into their lives. It’s one thing to be available, and an entirely different thing to be admirable. Some people are available, but they’re just not admirable, and here are possible reasons why that is so.}

{{1. YOU DON’T ASK}}

They say, ‘ask and you shall receive’, but some of us just don’t get this. There’s no way you can get something you don’t make an effort to get; if you want a partner, you must walk up to someone you like and tell them. I get that some people are shy and fear rejection, but that won’t get you anywhere, if you desire something/someone, you go get it, life is about risks.

{{2. YOUR PERSONAL HYGIENE IS NEXT TO ZERO}}

You can wear the most expensive designer outfits, but unless you’re really clean, there’s no way you’re leaving a good impression. Some people are so dirty they don’t even bath and brush their teeth often. Your body, teeth and clothing should be well cleaned if you want to make a good impression on people. Everyone likes cleanliness, so it’s a step towards getting hitched.

{{3. YOU’RE A NOTORIOUS CHEAT}}

Some people are so promiscuous they make a reputation out of it. When everyone knows you’re an incorrigible cheat, they tend to stay far away from you as possible because no one wants to be associated with an unreliable person. Promiscuous people are unreliable; they are considered to be heart-breakers, some people don’t know this, but it can render you unattractive to potential partners.

{{4. YOU NAG TOO MUCH}}

This is more for women than men. Some women can cause you a heavy migraine with their constant complaining. If there’s one thing men hate about women the most, it is nagging. It doesn’t matter how pretty you may seem, if you nag, men will automatically find you unappealing.

{{5. YOU’RE A NEGATIVE PERSON}}

Some of us just don’t see the good in any situation or people; we only see the bad. People like that usually have a negative vibe around them, they rarely even smile or laugh—It’s bad! People want to be associated with positivity and happiness; you need to change that about you, if you’re someone like that.

{{6. YOU’RE SLOW}}

Some people are just too slow when it comes expressing their feelings for someone they like. They finally meet their crush, and rather than cut right to the Chase or at least, drop a hint, they decide to play it cool—and get friend-zoned in the end. If you like someone, make your feelings known ASAP…delay is dangerous!

{When a woman is in love with a man, she gives her all to make the relationship work. She’s passionate about her relationship and all she wants is for it to be better.}

However, there are certain things she expects from her man, and she would be most glad when he does the following:

{{1. HONESTY}}

Every woman who loves her man expects total honesty from him; she doesn’t want to be fed with lies and deceit, she just wants her man to be honest and true to her.

{{2. ATTENTION}}

Nothing hurts a woman in love than having to beg for her man’s attention. No woman wants this. She wants her man to give her attention all the time.

{{3. LOVE AND CARE}}

Like attention, another important thing to her is love, as well as care and affection. If she loves her man and showers him with care and affection, she also expects the same from him too.

{{4. TO BE UNDERSTANDING}}

She also expects her man to be understanding; a woman in love tries to be an understanding partner to her man, and she expects same from him. She wouldn’t want the relationship to be chaotic and full of quarrels and arguments.

{{5. TO BE TREATED WITH RESPECT}}

Every woman who loves her man wants to be treated in the same manner; she doesn’t want to be treated like she isn’t worth it. She expects her man to respect her for who she is to him and treat her thus.

{{6. TO BE ADORED}}

She also expects to be treated like a queen, to be adored and treated like the most important person in her man’s life.

Every woman in love expects this from her man, and it would hurt her when she gives all these to him and gets nothing in return.