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{Falling out of love isn’t something that happens overnight; it’s a gradual process that happens without you even knowing it.}

Here are 10 signs you are no longer in love with him

1. Every little thing leads to a fight. You find yourself fighting with him over the slightest issue.

2. You can go days without hearing from him and you don’t care.

3. Everything about the relationship bores you and you don’t know the reason for it.

4. His presence annoys you and you have no idea why.

5. Every little he does irritates you for no reason at all.

6. Sex with him is like a burden to you because you don’t feel the attraction anymore.

7. You find yourself getting attracted to someone else and even contemplating cheating on him.

8. You yell at him easily these days because you don’t respect him anymore.

9. You start feeling you deserve someone better and he isn’t good enough for you.

10. You don’t look forward to spending time with him because the thought of spending time with him bores you.

{Thinking of getting him in the mood tonight? Here are 6 parts of his body that will turn him on tonight.}

{{1. HIS EAR}}

Your man’s ear is a spot in his body that will get him in the mood. Get him in the mood tonight by using your tongue on his ear while also gently squeezing his ear lobe with your thumb and forefinger.

{{2. HIS FACE}}

Making circular motions with your fingers on his face will get him in the mood for some action tonight. Don’t forget to move your index finger slowly across his lips.

{{3. HIS FEET}}

Many women neglect the feet but those who know this trick use it to full effect. Making circular motions with your thumb on his feet will get him in the mood. Don’t forget to make him go crazy by kissing his big toe.

{{4. HIS NECK}}

Never neglect his neck. Making circular motions around his Adam’s apple with one fingertip will make him go crazy.

{{5. HIS KNEES}}

Behind your man’s knees is another part of his body you shouldn’t neglect if you want to get your man in the mood tonight. Gently scratching behind his knee while having him lie on his stomach will make him get into the mood. Using your tongue to make circular motions will do the job even more.

{{6. HIS PALMS}}

Using the right pressure on his palm will make him want you tonight. The centre of his palm is quite sensitive so make circular motions on his outer palm while moving towards to the centre.

{If you just met this cool guy and you want to know if he would be good in bed before you end up going on a second date with him, there are some signs you need to watch out for.
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Below are 5 signs your man will be good in bed

{{1. HE IS NEVER IN A HURRY:}}

A man who is good in bed knows that to have an amazing sex, you don’t need to be in a rush. If he is patient with you, there is a good chance he would bring that to bed with him too.

{{2. HE TREATS YOU LIKE A QUEEN:}}

A perfect gentleman knows a lady should be treated like a queen and if your man treats you like one, then he might be special in bed. When he treats you like a queen, he would go an extra mile to treat you even better in bed.

{{3. HE APPRECIATES YOUR BEAUTY:}}

A man who is good in bed understands when a woman feels beautiful, she would give her all in bed to make the sex wonderful. When a woman feels beautiful about herself, it creates a perfect chemistry in bed. A man who is good in bed knows all this and never forgets to let his woman know how beautiful she is.

{{4. HE IS NOT SELFISH:}}

A man who is good in bed is never selfish because he knows it’s not just about him when he is under the sheets with you. He knows it’s not just about his happiness in bed but yours too. When a man wants your happiness and always wants the best for you, he would definitely bring that unselfish character to the bedroom.

{{5. HE IS THE TOUCH MASTER:}}

He doesn’t just know how to touch you but also when to touch you. A man who is good in bed knows that a great time in the sheets doesn’t start in the bedroom but hours before you are in the bedroom. He knows he should hold your hands while you walk with him because he understands the power of touch.

{ {{So do you think your man is good in bed?}} }

{No one is perfect; everyone makes mistakes. However, there are certain mistakes that could destroy your relationship, especially if you keep making them over and over.}

These relationship mistakes below are common with men, but men ought to stop making these mistakes.

{{1. BEING TOO SELF-ABSORBED}}

Thinking of yourself too much, making yourself the priority, wanting to be in control always, wanting to have all the say are some examples of being self-absorbed and men should stop making this common mistake if they want the best out of the relationship.

{{2. NOT RECOGNISING HER EFFORTS}}

This is another common relationship mistake men make that doesn’t end up well.

A lot of men don’t recognise the efforts of their women, they don’t really appreciate what she does and only recognise it when she’s gone or when the relationship has sunk. Many men have lost beautiful relationships just for this act, and it shouldn’t be so.

{{3. YOU DON’T COMMUNICATE ENOUGH WITH HER}}

You should talk to her always, you should communicate with her, you should listen to her, you should keep in touch with her. When you don’t do this, your relationship would suffer terribly.

{{4. YOU DON’T INSPIRE TRUST}}

It shouldn’t be about ‘not getting caught’ as so many men do, it should be more about being faithful to that loving woman. Unfaithfulness aside, a lot of men hide things from their women and this doesn’t inspire trust. Try honesty, truthfulness and being open with her, and she would trust you the more.

{{5. PRIORITIES}}

Priorities are what matters to you, and it isn’t about what you say, it’s about what you do. So many things might be important to you, but it doesn’t mean you should prioritise them over your relationship with her; your relationship would suffer when you do this, and you should avoid this common mistake.

{{6. YOU DON’T TRY TO UNDERSTAND HER}}

Not understanding her is one thing, but not trying to understand her is the mistake here. If you don’t care about how she feels, if you don’t try to understand what she’s saying and why she’s saying it, if you don’t try to understand her emotions and what she’s going through, your relationship with her would suffer, and you should avoid this mistake.

{{7. NOT PLAYING YOUR PART}}

You have your role just as she has hers. If you are nonchalant in playing your role and being there for her as a man or not playing your role well enough, you aren’t building your relationship the right way.

You should care about her and show it, you should make the relationship better and you should make her better as well, and you should contribute enough to the relationship.

{{8. BEING INCONSISTENT}}

Inconsistency is just another common relationship mistake a lot of men are guilty of; when you are committed today and the next day you aren’t, you are loving today and unloving the next, you are hot today and cold tomorrow. When you are inconsistent, the relationship would swing back and forth, and end up going nowhere.

What common relationship mistake do you make as a man? It could even be outside these things mentioned above; it could be being inconsiderate, being quick to anger, being overly jealous for no reason, being too critical, having time for friends and not her — it could be anything. But these mistakes that are tagged as common are what hurt the relationship the more.

{Scientists and philosophers have puzzled for more than 2,000 years over the biological point of the female climax.}

Why do women have orgasms?

While in men the function is clear — to transfer sperm — scientists and philosophers have puzzled for more than 2,000 years over the biological point of the female climax, which is not required for conception.

This week researchers came up with a new theory: an ancient ancestor needed orgasms to induce ovulation, thus releasing eggs for fertilisation.

“Female orgasm seems to be a happy afterthought of our evolutionary past,” said a statement from Yale University, which took part in the study published this week in the Journal of Experimental Zoology.

“Human female orgasm is an evolutionary holdover from induced ovulation,” study co-author and Yale biologist Gunter Wagner told AFP.

The team used published research to create an evolutionary model of ovulation in animals.

ADDITIONAL ROLES

In many mammals, they found, release of the hormones prolactin and oxytocin is linked with ovulation, while in humans it accompanies the female orgasm.

“We interpret this evidence to suggest that the physiological changes caused by human female orgasm are homologous (similar) to those that cause ovulation in other species,” they concluded.

Whether or not other animals have orgasms remains largely a mystery, though it is known that males induce ovulation in some mammal species, including rabbits and cats.

The model showed that in an ancient common mammalian forebear, which lived some 60-65 million years ago, females needed male stimulation to induce ovulation.

This trait was later replaced in some species by cyclical, or spontaneous, ovulation as exists humans today.

This likely happened around the dawn of the primates — the group of animals we humans belong to.

“Female orgasm did not evolve in the human lineage, but may have acquired additional roles” after it was no longer required for ovulation, such as pair bonding, said the study.

As ovulation became spontaneous, the layout of the female genitalia also changed, it added.

The clitoris “relocated from its ancestral position inside the copulatory canal,” where it remains in many animals today, but not in humans or monkeys.

“This may help explain why many women do not have orgasm during intercourse but are able to reach orgasm during masturbation or during clitoral stimulation during intercourse,” said a statement.

{Because of their soft and emotional nature, women find it very sweet when the man they admire use romantic words on them, but a lot of men find it difficult to be romantic towards their partner. Maybe the reason for this is the fact that men aren’t so soft by nature, but then it is extremely expedient that people constantly use romantic gestures towards their partner because it is a proven way to keep a relationship alive. So guys, no matter how awkward it may seem, make it a daily routine to compliment your woman, and tell her how much you love her. There’s an endless list of things women want to hear men tell them, but these 5 top the list.}

{{1. “I’m happy you are in my life “}}

Telling her you’re happy she’s in your life isn’t just a compliment, it is also a way of reassuring her that she’s still as important to you as she always was. Put yourself in her position, and imagine she’s the one telling you this—I bet you’ll be elated. That’s exactly how she’d feel if she heard you say that to her.

{{2. “I’m sorry”}}

A lot of men believe it’s not appropriate for a man to apologise to his woman under any circumstances; so even when they’re wrong, they still won’t say they’re sorry—but the good thing about apologising for a wrong is that not only does it show how remorseful and repentant you have become, it also means you cherish your woman enough to swallow your pride and say ” I’m sorry”.

{{3. “You are great at that”}}

Tell her she’s the greatest cook you’ve seen, tell her she is incredible. Even if she isn’t the best at whatever it is she does, ignore it all, and tell her she’s the best. Women want to be appreciated and honoured, not criticised and under-appreciated.

{{4. “Please,tell me all about it”}}

Women adore nothing more than a listening ear. They want you to pay them quality attention and listen to everything they have to say. So no matter how ‘boring’ her gist may seem or how busy you are, give her time, and listen… After all, she’s your woman.

{{5. “You are so beautiful”}}

If you don’t tell your woman how beautiful she is, someone else will, and if that happens, you just might lose her. Lol. I don’t know why most men find it so herculean a task to tell their woman she’s the most beautiful being in the universe. I mean, how could that be so difficult? I tell mine she is beautiful every day, and the smile I get in return…amazing!

There is nothing as romantic as appreciating your lady!

{Almost every man can attest to the fact that sometimes your lady does something that seems to annoy you but all you do is act normal so as not to cause a hitch between you and your partner.}

However, ladies do some of these things without even knowing that they are probably annoying their man — but in reality, the man gets annoyed by these acts.

9 things ladies do that annoy their man

{{1. Talk about an ex }}

Personally, I’ve also been a victim of this; a lady I used to date almost always talks about her ex, and such conversations leaves me feeling awkward, and I try as much as possible to change the discussion at every point in time. However, I observed that she didn’t do this intentionally and she had no intentions of going back to her ex, but it still didn’t stop that awkward feeling. I’ve never seen a man who loves listening to a conversation about his lady’s ex— it’s annoying but ladies don’t know this.

{{2. Mood swing }}

Women have this habit of having a mood swing at some point in time, for no just reason and with no fault from the man. The annoying part of it is the man doesn’t even know the cause of the mood swing and when he tries to lift up the lady’s mood, she pours everything on him. Mood swing doesn’t just annoy men, it leaves them feeling infuriated.

{{3. Unnecessary calls }}

Any man who has a lady that calls him unnecessarily at probably odd hours would tell you how annoying it is. When he’s at work, she calls; at a business meeting, she calls; sleeping at night, she calls and so many of those kinds of situations. She probably might think she’s doing the right thing by checking on her man regularly, but in essence, the man is going nuts and probably can’t say. When a man is extremely busy, calls could be quite infuriating especially when it’s done for no reason. Every lady should try to understand her man’s timing of events and stop calling every hour unnecessarily.

{{4. Get angry at the slightest instance }}

This is also another thing women do that men most times can’t comprehend. It’s normal to get angry but when a lady gets angry at the slightest instance, it could be quite annoying. Even when the man tries to apologise, deep down he feels annoyed.

{{5. When he has to apologise for very long }}

Loving a lady sometimes takes a huge responsibility and one of those responsibilities is apologising for long periods unnecessarily. When she gets angry at the slightest instance and you have to plead for a very long time is something that infuriates every man but he wouldn’t say.

{{6. Unnecessary delay }}

We understand women really love to look good and we love it when our ladies look good, it’s a thing of pride, but the waiting process is never easy. No matter how calm a man’s demeanour is, deep down he hates it when he has to wait for very long hours for his lady when they are supposed to go out together. A man naturally understands a lady has to look good but one thing we hardly understand is why it takes so much time.

{{7. Not believing our compliments }}

It’s quite disturbing when you appreciate your lady and she either doesn’t believe you or she doesn’t take it serious. When a man truly loves a lady and compliments her, he means it and also wants that lady to take him for his words.

{{8. Thinking another guy is hot }}

Hot is a word that would give a man chilly spines when his lady uses it to refer to another man. It might seem domineering but men feel a little edgy when their lady thinks another man is hot; handsome might probably be a more subtle word to use or more preferably tell only your friends

{{9. Insecurity issues }}

Some women even as beautiful as they may look still have insecurity issues and it’s something that really annoys men. When she disbelieves she’s beautiful or that her man likes her for who she is or when she thinks every other lady is better than her or when she suspects her man is thinking of someone else and comes up with the question ‘what are you thinking about?’ Such things infuriate men; men hate it when the woman they are dating is compounded with insecurity.

Sometimes it’s really a hard deal being a man, because you don’t have to show your anger at everything a lady does and that might mean putting up an okay face when your lady is probably doing things that makes you feel edgy.

Ladies, read this piece with the intention of making your man happier at all times, and fellas, you can probably leave this page open on your computer screen in a way that would make your lady understand that sometimes she annoys her man without knowing.

{Have you considered dating a nurse? Well, nurses make good partners and I’ve got proof.}

{{1. Nurses are hardworking people }}

You can’t be a good nurse and be lazy. Nurses put in a lot of work; they work long hours and even work at odd hours. This makes them very hardworking.

{{2. They are good listeners }}

To be a good nurse you have to be a good listener; you have to listen to your patient and understand what they are saying, and what they aren’t saying.

{{3. They are highly observant }}

Being observant is a key quality of a nurse. Nurses have to be highly observant when dealing with a patient, and pay attention because they have lives of others in their care.

{{4. They are good teammates }}

A team of nurses always cooperate together, during an operation, during working hours and even when they are off.

{{5. They have a good medical background
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Nurses have a good medical background and know how to handle medical situations. This makes them good partners when you are sick and they would help you make better health decisions.

{{6. Nurses are compassionate }}

Nurses have a good heart and are compassionate people; they can be understanding and share your pains with you too.

{{7. They are hygienic and organized }}

Nurses are hygienic and organised people; most nurses tend to be neat and orderly people.

{{8. They have a good sense of humour }}

Nurses have a good sense of humour; they know how to chip in some cool jokes that could calm situations down.

{{9. They know when to be concerned }}

Nurses know when something isn’t right; they are very sensitive people, and know when to show concern.

Nurses also tend to be good-looking and very attractive people too. Don’t nurses just rock?

Sex is lovely, sex brings intimacy but sometimes we act in ways that kill this pleasurable act. Most people are guilty of killing the mood due to their actions after sex. I understand for some, it’s something they don’t do intentionally so I decided to write about this.

Below are 5 things you should never do immediately after having sex

{{1. QUICKLY WEARING YOUR CLOTHES}}

Quickly wearing your clothes after sex doesn’t show intimacy, it kills what you just shared with your partner.

{{2. CHECKING YOUR PHONE}}

Making a call, sending messages or doing whatever with your phone isn’t the right thing to do immediately after sex. You pass the wrong message to your partner when you do this.

{{3. TURNING ON THE TV}}

Watching soccer or a cartoon isn’t the right thing to do immediately after sharing a passionate moment with your partner.

{{4. HURRYING TO THE BATHROOM}}

Yes I understand you need to have a shower after a hot and amazing sex but it shouldn’t be immediately after sex. You need to spend some time with your partner before you visit the bathroom. It’s even better when you have a shower together after sex.

{{5. FALLING ASLEEP}}

Most people do this and it’s not the best thing to do after sex. Sleeping immediately after sex won’t give you the opportunity to cuddle and enjoy the moment you just shared with your partner.

Have an amazing sex life with your partner.

{More women are beginning to appreciate the girl-on-top as it gives the ability to be in control. While most men would tell you it drives them crazy when they have the woman on top, women have to overcome some problems when they go on top.}

Below are 5 problems every girl experiences with the girl-on-top sex

{{1. HE HAS GOT A SUPER HUGE MACHINE INSIDE HIS TROUSERS:}}

When a man has got a super huge machine inside his trousers, the girl-on-top could become a little bit challenging for women. It’s important the woman takes in as much as she can handle; don’t try taking in everything.

{{2. IT’S A PROBLEM FOR WOMEN WHO ARE WORRIED ABOUT THEIR BOOBS:}}

Women pay a lot of attention to their body especially their boobs. Sometimes having small boobs could mean the woman becomes worried about her boobs and she would find it difficult doing the girl-on-top because she knows the man would have a great view of her boobs. It’s important every woman loves her body just the way it is. You have got to love your body first.

{{3. SHE IS JUST TOO BIG FOR HIM:}}

Some ladies who have got way more weight than their man fear they might crush their man when they go on top. You can still be on top if you are a plus sized lady dating a skinny guy. You got to ensure he doesn’t support all your weight.

{{4. SHE NEVER ENJOYS IT BECAUSE THE ANGLE IS ALWAYS OFF:}}

Some ladies never enjoy girl-on-top because they feel the angle is always off for them. It takes time and talking to each other to get it right. If you are in the right place and move the right way, you definitely enjoy the ride while you give him a treat too. Experiment by moving forward towards him or leaning down more.

{{5. SHE GETS TIRED EASILY:}}

It’s so easy for the woman to get tired when she is on top as she is the one controlling the tempo. It’s important you dictate the tempo properly and try to catch your breath whenever possible.

So ladies, it’s time we enjoy ride by being on top.