Category: Social

{Your teen years to your early 20s are some of the best years in your life as you have unlimited fun and live life to the fullest. As you approach your 30s, it is expected you start to see life differently. It will be wrong for you to head into your 30s still acting like a teenager.}

{{Below are 10 truths every woman above 25 should know}}

1. You need to stop caring about what other people think about you. You should learn to be yourself. When you start being yourself and less of what others think of you, life gets better because the expectation of pleasing others is removed.

2. At this stage in most women’s life, they start thinking of settling down. Just because your friends are getting married doesn’t mean you should rush into one. Get married because you feel you are ready and you have found the right one and not because that person is the only choice you have.

3. Being in a relationship just for the sake of having a boyfriend was cool in your younger years but I believe at this stage of your life, you should see potential in a relationship before heading into it. If you don’t see longevity in the relationship you are in, it’s best you quit.

4. Stop trying to please everyone because it’s really impossible doing so. You should also understand that when you say no, you do not have to justify your no.

5. It’s time to let go of the negative friends in your life. You do not have to put up with all those negative vibes.

6. You can’t be free if you don’t forgive. You must have been hurt by several persons at this stage of your life but you need to forgive because when you don’t forgive, you stop yourself from being happy.

7. Make giving a habit. It’s rewarding investing your time in putting a smile on someone’s face. When you make giving a habit, you begin to see life differently.

8. At this stage in your life, you should have savings. I wonder what you are waiting for if you don’t have savings. Start saving for the unexpected today.

9. Love who you are and stop comparing yourself to others. Comparing yourself to others does nothing but destroy your self-worth. There will always be someone prettier, or curvier than you. Learn to accept yourself for who you really are. Stop trying to be someone else.

10. A relationship is a two-way street. It shouldn’t be just you trying to make the relationship work. Compromising is important in every relationship but you should understand that your partner also have to meet you half way. It’s time you quit that relationship if it is one-sided.

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{A woman’s kiss almost always means something, or comes with a message, but not every man understands those signals that come with a kiss.}

A kiss could signify love, sex, trust, distrust and could even signify anger and a host of other emotions.

Have you kissed a lady and wondered what it meant or what’s going through her mind? Find out what a lady’s kiss actually means

{{1. If she kisses slowly }}

More often than not, such a kiss signifies love and attraction; it also signifies that she wants something sensuous and isn’t in a hurry; it signifies romance; it doesn’t really signify she wants sex, but it shows she’s attracted to you and wants something quite special.

{{2. Kiss and stop }}

When she kisses you and stops, it could signify a lot of things. Could be that she doesn’t trust you, she doesn’t want to take things too far, has another partner she doesn’t want to betray; it could also mean you’re taking things too far. Most times, this is done to keep her emotions in check.

{{3. Passionate/aggressive kiss }}

This kiss signifies a lot of intent; with this, there is hardly anything in her mind but to get down with you. She isn’t trying to hide her emotions; rather she’s ready to let hell loose.

{{4. If she kisses with a closed mouth }}

This could mean she’s unhappy with you; it shows something isn’t right; could mean she isn’t in the mood for sex; could be that there is something troubling her; she might also do this to pass a message that she is having some grudge or is unhappy over something.

{{5. Flirty kiss }}

Sometimes her kiss is meant with the intention to be flirty and arouse her partner; you could call this the erotic kiss. This isn’t just a kiss, it comes along with other body involvements.

A quote by Sylvia Plath reads: “Kiss me and you will see how important I am”, this quote isn’t farfetched as kissing shows a lot of things, even how valued or important you are.

{Science has found some ways you can improve your IQ, and become smarter in general.}

Of course, there are enormous benefits that come with being smarter. Check out these findings about improving your smartness.

{{1. Write instead of type }}

Typing might be swift and faster, but writing would make you smarter. Writing has been found to make one smarter when compared to typing.

According to a research by researchers from Princeton University and UCLA, students who took notes by their hands in class generally outperformed those who typed their notes via computer.

{{2. Exercise more }}

Minus its health benefits, researchers have found that exercising regularly can stimulate brain cells growth. People who exercise regularly tend to have higher I.Q scores.

Exercising could also trigger the release of neurotransmitters which would help improve your energy and concentration level, as well as enjoy a stress-free life.

{{3. Learn a musical instrument }}

Research has found that learning how to play a musical instrument can improve one’s cognitive function.

When one learns to play an instrument there’s also an improvement in the part of the brain associated with hearing, memory, motor skills and audio information.

Hand-eye coordination, concentration and mathematics skills all improve when learning how to play an instrument.

{{4. Practice meditation }}

Meditation can also help improve one’s smartness level. A brief period of meditation can help you to make a better and rational decision.

According to the Association for Psychological Science, researchers at graduate business school INSEAD and The Wharton School found that “one 15-minute focused-breathing meditation may help people make smarter choices.”

{{5. Drink coffee }}

According to researchers, coffee stimulates the mind to think clearly. Caffeine blocks an inhibitory neurotransmitter in the brain called Adenosine. Caffeine then increases neuronal firing in the brain and triggers the release of other neurotransmitters like dopamine and norepinephrine.

With these five ways, you can improve your smartness, according to science.

{There are certain things ladies just can’t keep to themselves when they are in a relationship. When you are dating a girl, be certain there are so many things her friends know about you.
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Check them out below

{{1. Whether she pictures a future with you or not }}

When a girl meets a guy and starts a relationship with him, she starts looking into the future as her feelings grow deeper for him. After a while of being with a man, most ladies know if they will want a future with him or not. Her friends definitely know if she pictures you in her future or not because she has definitely talked about it with them.

{{2. Your finances }}

When a girl is seeking for a stable and lasting relationship, she always considers a man’s finances or his prospects of being stable financially. Women always seem to know a guy who has it in him to make it in future. A woman at least wants a man who can comfortably take care of himself. Her friends will know if she sees you as someone who can handle his business financially or not. Ladies always seem to tell their friends how they view their man financially.

{{3. Your friends and family }}

Ladies consider a man’s friends and family when going into a committed relationship with a man. She might not tell you how she sees your family and friends but she will definitely tell her friends what she thinks about your family and friends.

{{4. Sex
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If you think women don’t discuss sex in their relationship with friends, you need to think again. When a woman meets a new guy, she always tends to talk about how good he is with her friends. The sex conversation however will decline or even stop when she settles deeply into the relationship.

{{5. Your temperament and the annoying things you do }}

This is another information a woman also tends to disclose to her friends. If she sees you as someone who is hot-tempered, her friends will know. If you have an annoying attitude, she will definitely talk about it with her friends too. So your annoying habit of leaving your apartment untidy all the time might be a piece of information her friends know already.

{Your sex life will improve instantly if you stop making these mistakes. Just because you last in bed doesn’t mean you are the king in bed.}

Below are 6 mistakes that ruin your sex life

{{1. You are not creative }}

Lack of creativity during sex will ruin your sex life. Sex is fun when you try to be creative and you are willing to try new ideas.

{{2. Not being patient }}

Why the rush? Rushing through foreplay will ruin your sex life. You can’t call yourself the king in bed if you don’t practice patience during sex. Sex shouldn’t be hurried.

{{3. Underestimating the power of music }}

Good music and sex go together. You take your sex life to the next level when you bring good music to the bedroom. Playing a good music in the background during sex will make you and your partner feel closer.

{{4. Dirty bed sheets }}

Nothing ruins sex faster than dirty bed sheets. You should change your bed sheets weekly or at most every two weeks.

{{5. Taking lessons from porn }}

You ruin your sex life when you take lessons from porn. You shouldn’t use porn as your guide in the bedroom.

{{6. Bad breath }}

You destroy your sex life if you have a bad breath. You can’t have a good kiss with your partner when you have a bad breath. Bad breath kills sex.

{Marriage is a sacred institution, but many still treat it as a mere relationship. Marriage goes beyond relationships; that’s why you have vows which are taken in front of people who matter to you — family and friends.}

If you want to have a healthy marriage, there are certain people you should let go of.

{{1. Your exes }}

Of course this is a given. You should be done and over with your ex at this point of your life, and all your attention should be on your spouse.

{{2. The ones you still have flings with }}

You should keep away from people you still have flings with; keeping them around could prompt you to cheat one day.

{{3. Your crush}}

If you still have a crush on someone, you should kill that crush and move on from it, before you find yourself losing your attraction to your partner.

{{4. Friends who lead you astray }}

Cut down certain friendships that you know is bad for your marriage; marriage requires a lot of maturity, and you need to keep away from friends who could lead you astray, if you want to be a mature partner.

{{5. The gossips}}

Keep away from people who are always too eager to gossip; they would ruin your marriage for you.

Anything you know that wouldn’t be healthy for your marriage should be put away with, else you might suffer the consequences later on.

{Do you have little doubts about your partner being the real deal? You know you truly love your partner but you aren’t too sure if your partner is the real deal.}

{{Below are 11 signs your partner is the real deal}}

1. Your partner is the real deal if you feel comfortable being around your partner and your partner understands essential parts of you.

2. Your partner is the real deal if he/she brings out the best in you.

3. Your partner is the real deal if you feel secure with him/her and don’t feel jealous when he/she isn’t with you.

4. Your partner is the real deal if he/she longs to be with you always but still give you space to do the things you enjoy doing.

5. Your partner is the real deal if you don’t have to pretend to be someone else when with your partner. Your partner lets you be yourself when you are around him/her.

6. Your partner is the real deal if the both of you feel a strong attachment to each other. Everyone around you can see the strong chemistry in your relationship.

7. Your partner is the real deal if he/she makes you laugh without trying hard. You always find yourselves laughing together.

8. Your partner is the real deal if he/she is willing to meet you halfway to enable the both of you work out major differences in your relationship.

9. Your partner is the real deal if you can disagree with him on certain issues without being afraid you will lose him/her. Your partner is willing to listen to you even when he/she thinks you are wrong.

10. Your partner is the real deal if your partner respects you and doesn’t try to change the essence of who you truly are.

11. Your partner is the real deal if your partner tells you things he/she doesn’t tell anyone else.

{We all have certain views about certain things, which are sometimes, influenced by our environment and upbringing. Some of these views are healthy, while others are just wrong and plain unacceptable for both the society and our lives. For the purpose of this post, we’re taking a look at some of those things that we consider ‘ok’, but are not.}

{{1. The idea that you can gain a woman’s respect by hitting her }}

I have come across a number of men who acknowledge that hitting a woman is bad, yet they think it’s necessary if you truly want to be respected by women, and that is just contradictory if you asked me; there’s nothing good in anything bad – if it’s bad, it’s bad. Hitting a woman is wrong, and cannot be justified in any way. Hitting a woman makes you a weak person, and shows you lack respect for her. You can’t even gain respect by hitting a woman, all you’ll get from them is fear and hate. Fear isn’t respect, someone can fear you, yet have no respect for you. Fear and hate/dislike go hand in hand, while love and respect go hand in hand. You can win a woman’s respect by simply living up to your responsibilities as a man, and being the perfect gentleman.

{{2. Niceness doesn’t guarantee you ‘the spot’ in her heart }}

There’s a saying that ‘nice guys finish last’, and while this is ridiculously true, I’d like to explain it better, so we don’t get it confused. Being nice is a good thing, because it’ll open doors for you, and help you build great relationships. It’s like laying up treasure, in the long (and sometimes, short) run, it’ll pay. Niceness however, is not always the key to a lady’s heart if you’re seeking a relationship. I’m not saying, be bad or rude, I’m just saying that for most women, being nice doesn’t do the trick. A woman’s head is wired in a complex manner, and what works for her is not what works for the average man. You can be the nicest person in the world to her, and she’d be attracted to the other guy who makes her laugh. So you have to be more than nice. Find what works for her, and use it to your advantage.

{{3. It’s not enough to be good-looking }}

So you think because you’re very handsome and dress good, you can land the woman of your dreams? It doesn’t work that way. To get the dream woman, you got to be the dream man. You must have the right attitude, personality, and character. You must be the rare kind of man to get the rare kind of woman. That’s all it takes, bruh. You don’t even have to be physically good-looking, the most important part is having a good-looking personality; if you have that, you can land the best woman.

{{4. True love is not for sale }}

There are lots of men out there that think money can get just about anything you want in life, but while that belief is true for most things we know of, it’s NOT true when it comes to true love. If a woman who ordinarily wouldn’t say yes to you, does so because you splashed the cash, know this, that yes will only be for as long as you have the cash to splash or you are the highest spender; the moment it runs dry, she’ll run off to someone else. Women who date for money oftentimes, have someone else to whom their heart truly belongs to. If you ask a woman out, and her answer is a strong NO, do not push her with cash, move on, and wait for another.

I hope you have learned one or two things from this interesting post. Don’t forget to share with your friends and family.

{Love is a beautiful feeling but many women don’t think so because they have given up on love. Many have decided not to fall in love again. But why do women give up on love?
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Below are 4 reasons most women avoid falling in love

{{1. Terrible experiences }}

When it comes to love, many women have invested in lots of relationship that only left them heartbroken. These bad experiences have made them give up on love and they protect themselves by never falling in love again.

{{2. They believe all men are the same }}

Many women believe all men are the same and this prevents them from falling in love again. They just don’t believe any man who talks them about love and you really can’t blame them.

{{3. They think they aren’t good enough }}

Some women believe they aren’t good enough for any man and this mentality prevents them from ever falling in love. They think they are less attractive and less worthy for any man to love them.

{{4. They are scared }}

Most women who avoid falling in love do so because they are afraid of falling for the wrong guy. This fear stops them from opening their heart to any man.

No matter your reason for giving up on love, you need to understand that giving up on love won’t make you happy. It’s makes more sense to take a break from love while you become the woman who can captivate any man rather than totally giving up on love.

{We intentionally or unintentionally embarrass our partners in public sometimes and it could be really humiliating for our partner.}

When we make a fool of ourselves in public, we also make our partner look bad because we’re judged by the company we keep.

Below are 11 ways you embarrass your partner publicly

1. You embarrass your partner publicly if you discuss details of your s*x life in public. This information is supposed to be private.

2. You embarrass your partner publicly when you raise your voice and shout at your partner in public. Arguing in public with your partner isn’t something you should do.

3. You embarrass your partner publicly when you display poor table manners. Quit talking while your mouth is full when out with your partner.

4. You embarrass your partner publicly when you boast publicly and claim to be what you are not.

5. You embarrass your partner publicly when you put down your partner in your public. You should always treat your partner with respect.

6. You embarrass your partner when you dress inappropriately in public. Please always endeavour to dress properly in public.

7. You embarrass your partner when you flirt publicly with your friends or your partner’s friends. You should desist from doing this.

8. You embarrass your partner when you can’t make a statement without using the F-word in public.

9. You embarrass your partner publicly when you spill your partner’s secrets in public. You shouldn’t go about telling people dark secrets from your partner’s past.

10. You embarrass your partner publicly when you openly criticize your partner.

11. You embarrass your partner publicly when you get drunk and start misbehaving in public. It’s really painful watching your partner fool themselves when they are drunk.