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{As a man, it can be very frustrating to want to do it, and your woman doesn’t feel the same way; it gives the feeling of both anger and unattractiveness. However there’s nothing that ever happens without a reason, women don’t just turn down the opportunity to have se* with their partner for nothing; if they do, there’s a reason why.}

On this post, I’ll be listing some of those reasons and shedding light on them.

{{ 1.Tiredness }}

Women are humans too, they may engage themselves in tiring activity through the day, and end up very exhausted at night. If their partner wants to have sex with them the same night, there’s every likelihood that they won’t bulge to his request because they lack the energy to get down.

{{2. Poor libido }}

While most men and women have a very high sex drive or libido, there are others who do not. People like this rarely feel the urge to have sex, even if their partner wants to. If you’re a man and your partner has refused you sex, this could be the reason; it doesn’t necessarily mean that she’s not attracted to you anymore. So, rather than hold it against her, seeking a solution is the wiser move. There are many drugs and procedures that can help people with this condition.

{{3. It’s that time of the month }}

This is one of the commonest reasons why women don’t want to have sex with their man. When it’s that time of the month, most women have no interest in anything else, except trying to see it out. Even if as a man you have no problem with getting down with a woman in her period, she may not respond to your advances.

Wait it out, man, it’s just a couple of days, yea?

{{4. The penny is humongous }}

Forget all those things you see in porno, there’s a limit to how much a big penny can satisfy a woman; if it’s too big, it simply can hurt her instead, and that can be a turnoff for women. The whole point of sex is to get pleasure, isn’t it?

{{5. There’s someone else }}

As sad as this is, it’s true, so I can’t skip it. Women can definitely turn down sex if they’re no longer attracted to you. When someone is no longer attracted to you, they lose total interest in everything related to you, including sex.

{{6. They don’t get what they want }}

We all have sexual fantasies and fetishes, and we expect our partners to indulge us, sometimes. There are women who enjoy being spanked or staying on top for example, but most men wouldn’t have that because they want to be ‘in charge’. This can put a woman off, and make her lose interest in having sex with her man; I mean, let’s face it, what’s the fun in it, if you can’t get what you want out of it?

{{7. Poor confidence }}

There are people who just don’t feel comfortable being naked, either because they think they don’t look great when naked or they just can’t get over their shyness, and it can be a problem in bed because she’d rarely want to do it, even if the man is dying for it.

Poor confidence can also be as a result of her sexual abilities. If she’s not confident in her own abilities in bed, it can scare her away from the act.

{{8. Their man can’t do it right }}

Many men love sex, but very few know how to do it right. Doing it right takes a lot of commitment, effort and sacrifice on the man’s part, so unless they’re ready to put in all that, it’ll always be difficult for them to please their woman, and the truth about sex and women is that if you don’t get it right, you risk putting them off or losing them even. You don’t expect a woman who knows what it feels like to orgasm to accept anything less, no way. If she feels like she’s not getting anything out of the whole exercise, she might as well quit it with the man.

{{9. Bad breath }}

Let’s face it, there’s no way you’ll enjoy sex or even being with someone if their breath stinks, because you’ll always feel disgusted at the thought of kissing them. It’s sad, but it’s the honest truth.

{{10. Weak erection }}

A weak erection is also known as ‘half erection’. It is inadequate, insufficient, and can’t offer women maximum satisfaction. Women who have partners with this problem try to help them if they really love them, otherwise, they’ll just ignore and avoid having sex with them.

{{11. It’s boring }}

If a man doesn’t find newer ways to satisfy and wow his woman in bed every time, he risks losing her or maybe causing her to lose interest. Women like to be surprised and wowed all the time, if you stop bringing the wow factor to the bedroom, she might get bored and tired of doing it with you.

{Building a connection with your partner is important if you want your relationship to last. Your relationship will suffer if there is no connection between you and your partner.}

{{Below are 15 ways to connect with your partner}}

1. Always listen to what your partner has to say. You disconnect yourself from your partner when you don’t listen to your partner when he/she is talking.

2. Always hold hands. Always seat close to your partner and hold his/her hand.

3. You connect with your partner when you cook a meal together.

4. Never stop flirting with each other. Many people stop flirting with their partner after marriage and this is wrong.

5. You build a connection with your partner when you take a shower or bath together.

6. You connect with your partner when make time for your partner. Your connection with your partner dies when you are always too busy for your partner.

7. Scheduling a date night with your partner often is a great way to build a connection with your partner.

8. You can build a connection with your partner by talking a walk in the evening together. Make sure you hold hands while you do this.

9. Doing chores or running errands together is another good way to build a connection with your partner.

10. You create a connection with your partner when you get involved with your partner’s hobbies sometimes.

11. Going to bed early and together with your partner helps build a connection with your partner. While this could be difficult after having kids, try to do it when you can.

12. You build a connection with your partner when you play together with your partner. Don’t think you are too old to play with your partner.

13. Having meals together is another great way to build a connection with your partner. This is difficult today but it’s something you should do when it’s possible.

14. You build a connection with your partner when you get physical with your partner without it leading to sex.

15. Dancing with your partner helps build a connection with your partner.

{Science has a lot of answers to many questions we might tend to ask, and unsurprisingly there are some science backed facts that can tell a woman just had sex.}

You might want to ask how useful this might be. Well, some of these facts if properly considered can tell if your partner has had sex with another man and can as well be used to judge the sexual life of a woman you are trying to woo.

Are you ready to know those signs that she just had sex?

{{1. The way she walks}}

A research conducted by Belgian researchers were able to tell women who had sex regularly and were able to reach climax. The research examined the association of general everyday body movement with history of vaginal orgasm. The researchers found that women who reached climax visibly walked different. The researchers suggest that the ‘Big O’ can loosen muscle group.

{{2. Deep and sound sleep }}

Sex as well as reaching the Big O can make women sleep deeper than usual at night. A research published in Oxford Journal of Human Reproduction found that women who have sex and reach the Big O have a 30% increase in the release of the hormone, prolactin — a hormone responsible for drowsiness and deep sleep.

{{3. An unusual happy mood}}

The hormone, endorphins which is secreted after sex can give a significant boost to a woman’s mood especially if she reached the Big O. This could lighten her mood and even make her extremely happy.

{{4. You become more attracted to her }}

A research published in the Journal of Advanced Research found that the more a woman has sex, the more her body releases a chemical substance called pheromones. These secreted pheromones can induce the opposite sex to be more aroused. When your sense of smell picks up these substances, you could become more attracted to her, even by just standing close to her.

{{5. She could even become less clingy }}

Research has found that s*x triggers the release of a hormone, oxytocin which helps couples bond more. However, an increase in the level of oxytocin could make her better satisfied, in turn reducing her need to feel bonded. In other words, sex could as well make her less clingy to you.

These five facts point to one direction — she’s been having sex.

Every man wants to be classy but what really makes a man classy?

To help all men around the world understand what it means to be classy, a survey of 2,000 women was commissioned by fashion label Peter Hahn.

Below are 37 things that make a man classy

1. A classy man says please and thank you.

2. A classy man is well-read.

3. A classy man has good table manners.

4. A classy man doesn’t swear.

5. A classy man knows what cutlery to use.

6. A classy man is discreet.

7. A classy man doesn’t start eating a meal until everyone else at the table has theirs.

8. A classy man holds doors open.

9. A classy man never drinks directly from the bottle.

10. A classy man doesn’t use text speak.

11. A classy man avoids emotional Facebook or Twitter rants.

12. A classy man gives up a seat on public transport for someone else.

13. A classy man is able to speak more than one language.

14. A classy man has great posture.

15. A classy man doesn’t gossip.

16. A classy man brings gifts for hosts when attending events.

17. A classy man only gives compliments when he actually means it.

18. A classy man doesn’t get drunk.

19. A classy man knows the correct way to pour a bottle of wine.

20. A classy man places a napkin on lap when eating.

21. A classy man doesn’t discuss money or how much things cost.

22. A classy man knows more than two types of wine.

23. A classy man knows the correct way to hold a wine glass.

24. A classy man pays the bill.

25. A classy man is a good listener.

26. A classy man doesn’t watch reality TV.

27. A classy man isn’t easily flustered.

28. A classy man owns a timeless pair of shoes.

29. A classy man is up to date with current affairs.

30. A classy man has good culinary knowledge.

31. A classy man doesn’t get into arguments.

32. A classy man never borrows money from friends.

33. A classy man never forgets a meeting.

34. A classy man doesn’t fill the wine glass to the top.

35. A classy man rarely eats takeaways.

36. A classy man is a generous tipper.

37. A classy man is never caught running for the bus or train.

Do you agree with the women’s definition of a classy man?

{Many people consider sexual cheating as the only form of cheating, but there are various forms of cheating, and emotional cheating is even more dangerous than having sex with another person.
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Emotional infidelity could come in various forms. It could be being emotionally dependant on someone else other than your partner, not caring about your partner’s emotional needs, loving someone else, being disconnected from your partner emotionally, pouring out your emotions to another person other than your partner, purposely cutting all emotional links with your partner while being emotionally available for another person and so on.

Sexual infidelity is totally dangerous and it’s a betrayal of trust, and in many cases it leads to the end of a marriage or relationship. Many marriages and relationships have been broken due to sexual infidelity, but emotional infidelity is even a dangerous one that people don’t pay attention to.

Emotional infidelity wouldn’t only hurt the relationship, it will kill it without any hopes of reviving it. When emotional infidelity reaches its peak, it could even lead to sexual infidelity. Besides that, emotional infidelity would create a divide between a couple that would be hard to rectify. Emotional infidelity could in turn lead to hatred and other terrible emotions, and while sexual infidelity hinges on trust and forgiveness, emotional infidelity goes far beyond that.

A partner could cheat on you sexually and realise his/her mistake and be sorry for it, but it would take more than reconciliation to bring back a partner that’s emotionally lost. Emotions most times control our actions, and when a partner has lost that emotional desire to be in the relationship or is now emotionally connected to someone else, the relationship would almost be as good as dead.

{Why do attractive women date less attractive men? Almost all men must have asked this question at least once in their lifetime.}

Most men seem to think the reason attractive women date less attractive men is mainly for financial reasons. This notion is so wrong as you would always miss the point if you think this way.

So why then do attractive women date less attractive men? Below are some of the best reasons attractive women date less attractive men

{{1. They are fun and spontaneous:}}

Every woman needs a guy who is fun to be with. Most very attractive men seem to rely on their good looks alone and forget that dating has to be exciting too. The less attractive man understands the importance of being a fun and spontaneous guy when trying to impress a woman.

{{2. Good looks aren’t very important to a woman:}}

When choosing a man, good looks isn’t the first on the list of qualities a woman wants in a man. She wants a man with an unquestionable character that would also make her feel loved. The less attractive guy understands this compared to the very attractive guy who believes his good looks should be enough for her.

{{3. Less attractive guys are more mature:}}

The very attractive guy keeps relying on his good looks and doesn’t act mature most times compared to the less attractive guy. The less attractive guy is more mature and offers the woman the stability she craves for.

{{4. They offer a secure relationship:}}

The very attractive guy rarely offers security in relationships because they understand every woman wants them. The attractive guy is mostly a player using his good looks to get every woman to his bed. With the less attractive guy, a woman feels secure as he is less poachable.

{{5. The beauty of the attractive woman could also be a curse }}

You know sometimes a woman’s beauty can be so intimidating to men as most men think she is high-maintenance, snobby or probably dating. The few men who get the chance to date her mostly date her so they can brag to friends that they had her in their bed. The less attractive man understands this struggle and knows in most cases, the very attractive woman is probably single, tired of being played with and seeking a real man. The less attractive man offers her all this.

{{6. The relationship is more likely to last:}}

The very attractive woman who wants a long-term relationship always goes for the less attractive man because they believe it’s more likely to last. the chances of him dumping her is low because he believes he is privileged to have her and he also has less girls around chasing him.

{{7. It gives them an edge in the relationship:}}

The very attractive woman understands dating a less attractive man gives her an edge in the relationship. She understands he is more likely to do what she desires because he adores her beauty.

{It’s totally impossible to please every guest at your wedding but that is no reason not to try at all.}

Here are 5 things you should avoid during your wedding

{{1. Poor music choices and really loud music }}

It’s supposed to be a wedding and not a club so you should avoid loud music in your wedding. Ensure the music selection in your wedding appeals to everyone.

{{2. Too many speeches }}

Speeches are definitely great during weddings but you should ensure you avoid too many speeches in your wedding. The maximum number of speeches in your wedding should be four as it could get really boring and tiring if there are more.

{{3. A huge gap between wedding ceremony and reception }}

Having a huge gap between your wedding ceremony and reception might make lots of guests miss attending either your wedding ceremony or reception. Waiting too long for the reception after the ceremony can get really tiring and this is something you should try to avoid.

{{4. Waiting in long lines for food }}

You should ensure you have enough persons helping out to avoid your guests waiting in very long lines for food.

{{5. Demanding for cash gifts}}

It’s wrong to demand for cash gifts during wedding. Demanding for cash gifts during your wedding turn off some of your guests. Your guests should decide the gift they give to you.

{Do you see yourself yawning and cannot help it?}

Yawning is natural, but there haven’t been a known cause for yawning. However, yawning could also mean your body is sending you a message.

These are the common reasons why you yawn.

{{1. It’s a sign of boredom }}

Research has shown that yawning could be a sign of boredom. A study revealed that a group of college students yawned more when shown a pattern of colours than when shown a 30-minute rock video.

{{2. It cools down the brain }}

Another research has found that an open-mouthed yawn helps cool the brain. It causes the sinus walls to expand and contract like bellows, pumping air onto the brain, which lowers its temperature, the study found.

{{3. Yawning is also contagious}}

Various researches have found that yawning could be contagious. One particular study found that when shown videos of yawning, around 50% of people started yawning.

{{4. Fatigue and drowsiness }}

Fatigue and drowsiness have also been associated with yawning.

{{5. Sleep disorder}}

Sleep disorders or inadequate sleep could also make one yawn during the day.This could be your brain sending you signals that you are tired and need to rest.

Certain medications like pain relievers and antidepressants could also make you to yawn.

{When a woman has a man who respects her, she feels valued; it also passes a message that she’s loved, she’s more than an asset, and that she means the world to her man — this would give her lots of confidence.}

However, when a woman isn’t respected by her man, she lives on the edge, she’s treated anyhow, and she feels no love, care and attention from her man — this could even make her lose her self-esteem and confidence as well.

Do you think your man respects you or not?

It’s easy to tell; when a man respects a lady, the following are obvious:

{{1. Never leaves you in the dark }}

When a man doesn’t really respect his lady, he can act anyhow without caring how she feels, and this could even mean not telling his lady things that are going on in his life — he leaves her in the dark without minding. The case isn’t the same when a man loves and respects his lady; he knows she’s highly important to him, so he tells her every important thing that’s going on, and would rarely make a major decision without her knowledge.

{{2. He would never hit you }}

I find it funny when women even make excuses for their man when he hits them. There is no excuse for such act; no sane person would squash an object on someone he/she loves and values. Imagine you buy a wrist watch for $10,000, you wouldn’t want a scratch on that wrist watch, because you value it; if one can place such value on an object talk more of a woman who a man respects—he would never do anything to bring you bodily harm.

{{3. He’s honest
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Honesty is a quality that’s rarely seen in most relationships these days, but it’s one that should be at the forefront really. When a man respects his lady, it means he values his relationship, and when you place value on your relationship then you would try to be honest. If he’s honest with you then he totally respects you.

{{4. Apologises when due }}

The fact your man respects you doesn’t mean he wouldn’t err or do something wrong; no one is perfect. But the difference is that he would apologize once he’s seen that he’s wronged you. A man who respects his lady never fails to apologize when he’s wrong. Being apologetic isn’t always an easy feature; it requires an absence of pride.

{{5. Treats you right even when with friends and family}}

Some men show half-baked respect to their women; treat them right when they are alone, but the opposite is the case when out of the home — it shouldn’t be so. A man who respects you would still give you that respect even when he’s with his friends and his family, and because he respects you that much, they would respect you as well.

{{6. He would listen to you }}

Men that respect their women listen to what they have to say; a relationship is never a one man affair; it’s about two people trying to be the best they can be to each other.

When he hardly ever listens to you then he doesn’t really respect you. A man who listens to his lady even when he doesn’t quite agree with her and still loves her no matter what, is a man who respects his lady.

Can you say your man respects you?

{If you desire to improve your performance under the sheets with your partner, there are certain foods guaranteed to help you do this.}

Here are 10 foods guaranteed to boost your sx drive

{{1. Bananas
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Salty foods diminish the supply of blood to your privates and this can ruin your sex life. Bananas are rich in potassium which helps counteract the effects of foods high in sodium.

{{2. Green tea }}

Taking a cup of green tea will help boost your sex life because green tea contains catechins which help boost your sex drive by promoting blood flow to your privates.

{{3. Salmon }}

Salmon is rich in omega-3 fatty acids which raises dopamine levels in the brain thereby improving circulation and blood flow and boosting your sex drive.

{{4. Watermelon }}

Watermelon helps boost your sex drive due to its lycopene content. Lycopene helps relax the blood vessels and improve circulation to the privates.

{{5. Red wine }}

A study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that women who drank one or two glasses of red wine had heightened sexual desire compared to women who don’t drink red wine. This is because red wine contains antioxidants that trigger nitric oxide production in the blood, thereby relaxing the artery walls and increasing blood flow to your privates.

{{6. Ginger }}

According to a study published in the International Journal of Cardiology, consuming ginger a few times weekly helps boost your sex life by increasing blood flow and improving artery health.

{{7. Spinach}}

Spinach helps boost your sex drive because it is rich in magnesium, a mineral that decreases inflammation in blood vessels. Decreased inflammation in blood vessels help increase blood flow.

{{8. Pepper }}

I know you will be surprised to see pepper in the list. Eating pepper helps increase your metabolism and stimulate endorphins which speed up your heart rate thereby increasing blood flow to your privates.

{{9. Pomegranate juice }}

A study published in the International Journal of Impotence Research found that drinking pomegranate juice had a positive effect on a man’s ability to get hard. This is because pomegranate contains antioxidants that support blood flow.

{{10. Peanuts }}

Peanuts help boost sex drive and make a man’s private get hard because it contains the amino acid L-arginine. Peanuts also help boost blood circulation which is important for your sex drive by reducing your cholesterol levels.