Category: Social

{Creating a good atmosphere at home is an important way to have peace and love in marriage. When this exists, it will create a breeding ground for understanding, togetherness and friendship, and your marriage will of course get better when these exist.}

So what then should your partner come home to everyday?

{{1. A warm smile }}

A warm friendly and loving smile could be the most welcoming gift you could give your partner. A smile would make you look more attractive and appealing to your partner, and create peaceful ambience that’d make your partner feel welcomed.

{{2. Warm greeting }}

A hug and a kiss would be a good way to make your partner feel welcomed after a day out; you pass the message that you are happy your partner is back home.

{{3. Be interested in hid/her day }}

Ask your partner how his/her day went and be genuinely interested in your partner’s activities during the day.

{{4. Show your partner love }}

Show your partner love, care and affection in any little way possible; it could be by what you say or what you do.

{{5. A massage would do }}

Giving your partner a massage to ease them off stress would help your partner relax better.

{{6. Cook a meal }}

If you can, cook your partner a meal or have at least light refreshment ready.

{{7. Have intimate moment}}

Have beautiful moments with your partner and try to have intimate moments as well.

{{8. And then don’t forget to say good night to each other as well, before going to bed.}}

All these will foster peace, love and also bond you and your partner each day.

{Gone are the days when people wait to have sex with their partner. These days, people tend to see sex as a necessity in a relationship but it shouldn’t be so.}

There are several benefits you can derive from abstinence. Check them out below

1. When you abstain from sex, you have a chance to know more non-sexual qualities your partner has.

2. It’s easy to walk away from a bad relationship when you abstain from sex. Most people who remain in bad relationships do so because they find it difficult leaving a partner after having sex with that partner especially when the sex is good.

3. When you abstain from sex, you eliminate worries about pregnancy, birth control and STDs.

4. You have more self-respect when you abstain from sex. You and your partner will also respect each other more when you abstain from sex.

5. When you abstain from sex, you won’t have regrets about sex with someone in future.

6. When you abstain from sex, you have the security that you are not being pursued for sexual reasons.

7. The chances of not being satisfied in bed when you are married will be reduced. Many marriages today suffer as a result of a partner remembering past partners who may have been better in bed.

8. When you abstain from sex, you won’t get married based on your partner’s performance in bed. Getting married based on your partner’s performance in bed can bring problems to your marriage in future because you neglect important qualities you should look for in a partner.

{Whether you believe in soul mates or not, you will definitely agree with me that there are people you meet that just feel right for you and you find out the connection you have with them is deeper than any connection you’ve had with anyone else.}

Below are 10 signs your partner is your soulmate

1. Your partner is your soulmate if he/she knows exactly what makes you angry and tries to avoid doing those things that make you angry.

2. Your partner is your soulmate if even though you disagree on certain things, the both of you always agree on issues that really matter.

3. Your partner is your soulmate if you feel secure in your relationship.

4. Your partner is your soulmate if you love the relationship you share with your partner so much that you just can’t imagine life without your partner.

5. Your partner is your soulmate if you don’t have to pretend to be someone else when you are with your partner because your partner loves you for who you really are.

6. Your partner is your soulmate if he/she supports you and your dreams even if he/she doesn’t entirely understand your dreams.

7. Your partner is your soulmate if you have become a better person since you met your partner.

8. Your partner is your soulmate if you are satisfied having just him/her and don’t wish you are with someone else.

9. Your partner is your soulmate if your partner knows exactly what to do to calm you down when you are angry. He/she just knows how to cheer you up when you are down.

10. Your partner is your soulmate if after several years of being together, you still have a great chemistry.

{I was tuned in to a TV channel the other day, when this topic came up on one of their shows. It’s about what a man’s sleeping position says about his sex life. Their finding was really interesting; hence I’m sharing it with you.}

There are 5 common sleeping positions among humans (men, in this case), and apparently, each one of them says something about you, depending on the one you use often. Lol. Take a look and see where you or your man fall(s) in…

{{ 1. The one who sleeps face-down }}

The man who sleeps in this position is the traditional guy. He likes his sex traditional, and ‘natural’. Lol. If you have this sort of person in your life as a sexual partner, do not expect a spicy or experimental sex life because it’s not his thing. What you get from someone in this category may be a bland, perhaps boring sex life. It’s the missionary position, all day, every day for the man who sleeps in the face-down position.

{{2. The one who thrashes around }}

In case you don’t get what ‘thrashes around’ implies, let me do a quick break- down before I go to the sex life. If you ‘thrash around’ in bed, it simply means that you like to maximize the entire space in your bed. Lol. You go to bed sleeping here, and wake up in an entirely different part of your bed. People who ‘thrash around’ can be a bit difficult to share a bed with because they’ll make the night unbearable for you— throwing punches and kicking at you subconsciously. Lol.

Typically guys like this have an abnormal sex life. They’re not into the missionary’s position or anything else except quickies.

{{3. The one who sleeps.lying on his back }}

The man in this category likes to add a bit of spice to his sex life, unlike the two before him. However, his favorite position remains the doggy style. With someone like this as your partner, you’re sure to have a spicier sex life.

{{4. The one who sleeps on his side }}

The man who sleeps in this particular position is the ‘baddest’ of the lot. He ticks all the boxes when it comes to sex. In fact, they say he’s the complete package, and the ideal man every woman wants to have in bed. He likes foreplay, he goes down on his woman, and he gives bomb sex. He doesn’t stick to one position as well, but tries as many as time would let him.

{{5. The combo guy}}

Just as the name implies, men in this category have no definite position that they sleep in. They sleep on their back; they do the face- down, their sides, and thrash around. Men who fall into this final category are generally good in bed, because they tend to combine the different s*x positions available to them. The only difference between them and the guy who lies on his side is they don’t seem to care much about foreplay — something the former dedicates an ample amount of time to.

So, where do you/ your man fall in, ladies and gents? I know mine, but I am not sharing! Lol. At least, not until you tell me yours!

{The height difference is obviously cute when you are dating a short girl but there are other things you should know about dating a short girl.}

1. Never underestimate short girls. She might look cute, adorable and tender but she’s tougher than she looks.

2. Just because she’s short isn’t a good reason to lean your elbow on her. She definitely hates that.

3. Short girls enjoy hugging a lot. Don’t really know why they crave for a hug so much but I know they love it.

4. When going out with her, always hold her hand. Short girls love it when a taller man holds her hand when walking. If you don’t enjoy holding a lady’s hand, please don’t bother dating a short girl.

5. Short girls always complain about the stress of wearing high heels but they keep wearing them anyway. Maybe she doesn’t want you bending too much to give her a kiss.

6. Short girls enjoy wearing their man’s shirt when they are in his apartment. So have it in mind that she will definitely wear your shirts and t-shirts because they basically look like a dress on her. Lol.

7. If you met her online before actually meeting her, please never tell her she looks taller in her Facebook or Instagram photos. That’s a backhanded compliment and short girls hate that.

8. Short girls are fun in bed. Yes, you read that correctly. You can have her in any position you like in bed and that’s so nice.

9. When dating a short girl, be prepared to bend down to her level when she wants to whisper something in your ears.

10. Short girls love dating tall men. So if you are tall, you have a higher chance of dating her.

11. When dating a short girl, you should be prepared to help her grab stuffs from a high shelf.

12. Don’t make fun of her feet not touching the floor. She won’t find it funny.

13. When dating a short girl, always bear it in mind that people would think you are dating a 15-year-old girl because of how small she looks.

14. You will have to master the art of bending down to kiss her. It might be stressful but trust me when I say it’s really worth the stress because most short girls have gorgeous lips and are good kissers.

15. Short girls know how to love a man. They have so much love in their little body to give you that will last for a lifetime. If you want true love, maybe you should consider dating a short girl. Lol. I know the taller girls won’t like this.

Phil

{Why do men keep secrets from women? This is a huge question, but one with very simple answers.}

There are different kinds of secrets men keep, as revealed in this article, and almost every man keeps a secret from his lady; it could be something huge or something little or it could be something they deem unimportant (which the woman might see as important).

Why do men keep these secrets?

{{1. They don’t feel comfortable telling their lady
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A lot of the times, men don’t feel comfortable discussing certain things with their woman, so they keep it a secret instead.

{{2. They don’t want to hurt her }}

It could be that he doesn’t want to hurt his lady’s feelings, so he’d rather keep a secret from her than tell her. For example, if he’s always eating at a restaurant rather than eating at home because he hates his lady’s cooking, he’d never tell her this for fear of not hurting her.

{{3. They are unsure of her response }}

Sometimes it’s the woman’s response that they are unsure of. Men want to tell their women a lot of things, but they’re unsure of the response they’d get.

{{4. The bond isn’t much }}

Couples who have great bond keep lesser secrets compared to couples who don’t bond well. If the bond is missing, there will always be secrets hidden somewhere.

{{5. They don’t tell each other things }}

Sometimes it’s as a result of the nature of the relationship. If the woman doesn’t tell the man things, there’s every probability he’d do same.

{{6. The secret is absurd }}

Sometimes, the nature of the secret is absurd. If he’s having a crush on another lady, you don’t expect him to tell his lady this. This kind of secret never gets revealed.

{{7. It feels like a trap }}

Sometimes, a man could feel trapped if he says a secret or even something bothering him. This is why he’d feel comfortable telling his buddies than his lady.

Is your man keeping secrets from you? It doesn’t go beyond these reasons.

{Every woman wants to feel special and expects her man to treat her like a queen but it’s also important you make your man feel special too.}

Hearing this from you regularly would make your man want to be a better man and treat you better.

Here are 16 things every woman should tell her man regularly

1. “I’m proud of you.” This will definitely make your man feel special.

2. “I love the way you look in that shirt.” Your man wants to know you find him attractive.

3. “I trust and appreciate you.” Every man wants to know his partner trust him.

4. “I am happy I met you because you are so special.”

5. “I love how safe you make me feel.”

6. “I’m happy we are together.”

7. “I believe you.”

8. “I love waking up next to you.”

9. “I am sorry.” Don’t be too proud to apologise when you are wrong.

10. “I love how you smile.”

11. “I forgive you.” Your man would make mistakes sometimes so it’s important you forgive him.

12. “I trust you to do the right thing.” This tells him you trust his judgement.

13. “You are the kind of dad I want my children to have.” This tells him you see qualities of a good father in him.

14. “Meeting you was the best thing that happened to me.” This tells him you don’t regret meeting him.

15. “I love spending time with you.” He wants to know you enjoy his company.

16. “I love you.” This is a must. You should say this several times daily.

{While a man always reaches his peak whenever he has sex, it’s not always that way for women.}

Below are 5 reasons why some women don’t always reach their peak during sex

{{1. They rush foreplay }}

Foreplay is really important if you hope to reach your peak during sex as a woman. Most women need at least 20 minutes of foreplay before they can reach that height. So if you want to reach your peak during sex, avoid rushing foreplay.

{{2. You worry too much about reaching your peak}}

When you spend the whole time during sex worrying about reaching your peak, it will become a problem for you to reach your peak. When you worry about reaching your peak during sex, you forget to relax and enjoy the sex.

{{3. Many women don’t know their pleasure points }}

It becomes easy to reach your peak as a woman during sex when you know your pleasure points. When you know your pleasure points, you can guide your partner and this will help you reach your peak during sex.

{{4. There isn’t enough stimulation down there }}

Only less than one-third of women can reach their peak through penetration alone. Most women will need enough stimulation down there during foreplay to reach their peak.

{{5. You are distracted during sex}}

When you are distracted during sex, it becomes difficult to reach your peak.Thinking about your money problems or work assignments during sex won’t make you reach your peak.

{When a woman has agreed to bed you for the first time especially and takes off her clothing, she’s at this point most vulnerable; so what you say and how you react can go a long way in making her feel comfortable or uncomfortable.}

It’s important to know that certain topics should be left out at that moment; else you would ruin the mood.

{{1. You’ve added weight }}

No lady loves to hear she’s fat, especially when she’s naked in front of you for the first time. To her, this could mean you find her unattractive.

{{2. You look different with your cloths on }}

This is also another harsh thing to say to a naked lady; this is probably worst than the first. Such words would ruin her confidence and esteem for a very long time; she could consider herself as one with a terrible body.

{{3. You have stretch marks }}

Stretch marks are unattractive, and if she has stretch marks, she would also be aware of it. Reminding her of marks on her body, especially the first time would definitely make her feel awkward.

{{4. Don’t you wax?}}

If you want to talk to her about the hairs on her body, there is a better way to go about it, and it’s definitely not on the first day or when she’s naked.

{{5. You should consider shaving }}

Some women love to keep a neat low shave around their woman part, while some others don’t. Some men love it neatly shaved, others don’t. If you find the hairs undesirable, find a subtle way to tell her and definitely not when she’s naked.

Sometimes, words leaves scars on the mind, deeper than a sharp blade would leave on a skin; admire her body when she’s naked and if you have something not too nice to say, it should never be when she’s naked.

{There are a lot of secrets men keep from their women, but feel more comfortable telling their friends.}

Men keep these secrets for various reasons; from being unsure of how she’d respond to not trying to hurt her feelings.

But, these are some of the secrets most men keep from their ladies.

{{1. The sex }}

Ladies, have you ever wondered what your man thinks about the sex with you; how highly he rates it, his expectations, his fantasies and what he probably doesn’t like? Men have their answers to these questions, but they’d rather discuss it with their pals than you.

{{2. Her flaws }}

Everyone has flaws, and there are certain things your man might not like about you; he might keep this away from you, but he’d tell his friends.

{{3. His fears about the relationship }}

A man could have certain fears about the relationship; many men have fears of taking the relationship to the next level, but they won’t tell you that. Men tend to keep this away from women, but discuss it with their buddies.

{{4. Some of the things she does that he doesn’t like }}

It could be your attitude, your demands, or something as flimsy as having to do or watch something boring with you. He might never tell you about these things he doesn’t like, but he’d tell his buddies.

{{5. What he tolerates }}

There are certain things he tolerates and try not to get angry at; he tells his buddies these things, but he keeps them away from his lady.

{{6. What he thinks of her expectations }}

It could be that she has high expectations of him and the relationship. Men discuss the expectations of their partners with their buddies; what they think about it, how they feel about it, but don’t do so with their ladies.

{{7. Her friends }}

Yes, he most likely has his thoughts on your friends; you might never get to hear this part, but he’d be open to tell his buddies.

Men keep different kinds of secrets from their women for various reasons, but they’re always willing to tell their friends about it.