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{Loving your wife is the best gift you can give to her. Every woman wants to be loved by her husband, even years after being married. When she’s loved by her husband, she’d feel completely happy and satisfied.}

So how can you love her completely?

{{1. LISTEN TO HER}}

Listening to her is very important; it’s a huge sign of how much you love and value her. It’s probably one of the most important ways to show her that you truly love her. It requires a lot of concentration, and that’s exactly what your wife needs.

{{2. APPRECIATE HER}}

Make her feel appreciated; notice the things she does and appreciate her for it. Appreciation is another huge sign that you value and love her, and of course, she wants to be appreciated.

{{3. MAKE HER A PART OF EVERYTHING}}

Don’t keep her by the side or on the sidelines; make her a part of everything you do. Let her be involved in every aspect of your life and everything that concerns the home. When you make her feel that important, then you’ve made her feel valued, and that’s one of the greatest love you can show her.

{{4. BE INTIMATE}}

Create time for her, create time to be with her, spend quality time with her and have lots of intimate moments with her.

{{5. GIFT HER FREQUENTLY}}

It’s not enough to gift her on her birthday or only on special events; you ought to make it a habit and a culture. Thrill her with gifts regularly; it’s only a sign of love and appreciation. Besides, it’ll make her happy, and you ought to make her happy.

{{6. PAMPER HER}}

As trivial as this might seem, it’s every woman’s dream to have that man who would pamper her and continually treat her like a queen. She wants to be spoiled by her husband; she might never say this, but she wants it, and will feel completely loved when her husband does this.

When a woman feels completely loved, she’d be happy and satisfied in that marriage, and she’d also want to go the extra length to make her husband happy.

Have you ever wondered why they say ‘a happy wife makes a happy home’?

{Today’s world is getting worse because a lot of parents aren’t doing a good job with their kids. Raising a child might not really be an easy task, especially when you have to juggle parenting and your career together.}

A parent is a child’s first influence, and being a good parent will go a long way in that child’s life.

Being a good man/woman wouldn’t necessarily make you a good parent; it’s being a good father/mother, figurehead, role model etc that will make you a good parent.

These are some ways you can be a good parent.

1. A good parent is involved in the daily growth of their children. A good parent doesn’t only cater for the child, but is involved in the growth of that child.

2. Children learn a lot from the examples parents show them; they’re watching you even when you don’t know it. A good parent sets good examples at all times. Like they say: “Children do what you do, not what you say”.

3. A good parent is involved in the child’s education. A good parent is interested in the child’s education and is involved in it.

4. A good parent tries to help create a balance for the child in not only education, but various aspects of the child’s life — morally, socially and spiritually.

5. A good parent corrects the child from a young age, and teaches the child what’s right and what’s wrong.

6. A good parent teaches the child to have certain core values like respect for others, selflessness, to apologise when wrong and to maintain honesty at all times.

7. A good parent showers the child with love, and is emotionally available for their child.

8. A good parent creates a friendly and positive relationship with their child. A good parent isn’t distant from their child.

9. A good parent knows how to talk their children, especially as they grow older. A lot of children tend to become distant from their parent as they grow older. This happens most times because many parents don’t know how to talk to their children.

10. As hard as this might be, but a good parent accords their children a degree of respect as they get older.

Being a good parent doesn’t end at providing for your children; it goes way beyond that.

{Are you struggling to attract a good woman? There are certain things you must give up if you want a good woman in your life. Check them out below}

{{1. Desire to be right always }}

You can’t attract a good woman if you have the attitude of wanting to be right always. You can’t have things your way always so you should be willing to compromise sometimes. Give up the need to be constantly right.

{{2. Your bad habits }}

Every good woman desires to be with a good man; no good woman wants to be with a man with terrible habits. If you want to be with a good woman, you have to wok on becoming the right man which means giving up every bad habit you have.

{{3. Caring less about the figure }}

When you were younger, you could be forgiven for thinking just about now and caring less about the future. At this stage of your life, every good woman expects you to be a man who has a concrete plan for the future.

{{4. Ego}}

A man with an ego will find it difficult to attract a good woman. A man with an ego sees everyone around him as a nobody and he believes he doesn’t need anyone. No good woman wants a man with this attitude.

{{5. Immaturity }}

At this stage of your life, every good woman expects you to be more mature. Immaturity is a turn off for most good women. Every good woman wants a man who is committed and doesn’t run away from his responsibilities.

{When your relationship is right for you, everything around you just feels right.}

{{Below are 10 signs your relationship is right for you}}

1. It’s not about winning when you argue with your partner. You always find a common ground and see things from your partner’s perspective when you have an argument with your partner.

2. You and your partner respect each other’s views on various subjects even when you don’t agree with your partner.

3. You make your partner better and your partner does the same too. The right person for you will make you a better version of yourself.

4. You are in the right relationship if you and your partner can talk about anything. No topics are off-limits.

5. You value your partner and keep your partner secrets and your partner does the same too. Couples in right relationships protect their partner’s secrets.

6. Your relationship is right for you if you and your partner enjoying carrying out tasks together. Running errands together is fun for the both of you.

7. You give each other space to spend time with friends and do the things you both like. You both don’t act clingy and stop yourselves from being with friends.

8. Your relationship is right for you if you both see yourselves together in future.

9. Your relationship is right for you if you aren’t interested in being with anyone else but your partner. No one comes close to your partner.

10. Your relationship is right for you if you’re patient with one another. There’s no love without patience.

{Every lady looks forward to being proposed to by the man of her dreams. Many women even feel more thrilled on the day of their proposal than on their wedding day.
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Buying her that perfect engagement ring will add more thrills to the emotions she’d feel on that day.

These are some tips to consider if you want to get her that perfect engagement ring.

{{1. Consider your budget }}

Like everything else, you have to start with the budget. You ought to know how much you can spend on the ring, because there is no price cap on a ring; it all depends on the amount you can afford.

{{2. Know her style }}

Knowing your woman’s unique taste, style and preference will go a long way in picking the right ring for her. Knowing the right metal, colour, style and shape will help you make the right choice.

{{3. Know her size }}

This is where a lot of men get it wrong. Not every ring will fit perfectly on her finger, and no matter how perfect the ring is, if it’s not her size then it isn’t right. If she wears a ring, your best could be going to the store with that ring.

{{4. Go through a variety of rings }}

Don’t just stop at one store and pick up any ring, go through a variety of rings and then make a choice from the best of them all.

{{5. Pick a trusted friend }}

If you feel you can’t still make the right decision on your own; you can pick one of her close friends that you trust won’t break the news to her. She’d definitely have an idea of what your woman loves.

Making the right choice of ring will make the proposal perfect.

{We live in times where the physical beauty of a woman is way more valued than her inner beauty, and women no longer build certain important qualities in them, but tend to concentrate only on their looks.}

There are some qualities every woman should have, and these qualities are what every man should watch out for.

{{1. Peaceful}}

With a peaceful woman, you have a peaceful relationship. A peaceful woman isn’t about the arguing, fighting, nagging, quarreling and drama that surrounds many relationships and marriages; a peaceful woman has the kind of nature that allows tranquillity to breathe through the relationship.

{{2. Trustworthy }}

Of course, you just have to be someone a man can trust. Lies and deceitfulness shouldn’t be in your nature. A trustworthy woman gives her man confidence.

{{3. Respectful }}

Respect is an important virtue that’s missing in many relationships these days, and it’s very important to be the woman who respects her man. How can you say you love him when you don’t respect him?

{{4. Kindness }}

A kindhearted woman is the most beautiful woman you can think of. When kindness flows within you, it also radiates and extends to the way you talk to people, how you treat others and what you do for people. Kindness shows in your relationship with people, and a kind woman is a beautiful woman.

{{5. Loving
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Having a loving nature shouldn’t only extend to your partner and family. Love life, love God’s creations, love your neighbours and try to do good. A woman who can love like this will love her husband in a way no one else will.

{{6. Selflessness }}

A selfless woman doesn’t think about herself alone; she doesn’t just want things to go her way all the time, and she isn’t looking to be in control. Also, a selfless woman is dependable and brings out the best in her man.

These six qualities will make any woman worth more than gold, and rather than just beauty and attraction, these are some important qualities every man should look for in a woman.

{Having a fight with your wife might not mean the end of the world, neither does it mean that your marriage is terrible, but how you talk to her and the things you say to her can determine how healthy or unhealthy your marriage could become.}

These are some things you should never for any reason say to her during a fight.

{{1. “It’s all your fault”}}

Heaping all the blames on her is the worst thing you could ever say to her during a fight. Playing the blame game will only bring more problems, and it’s only right to take responsibilities and not transfer blames.

{{2. “No other woman would act like this”}}

Comparing your woman to other women or trying to make her feel like the worst woman out there is one of the worst things you can ever say to your wife during a fight. You should be the one who’ll make her feel like the best woman in the world, and not the other way round.

3. “You are…”

Whatever comes after the “you’re” is never healthy during a fight. Name-calling is very bad and will leave negative imprints on your marriage for a very long time.

{{4. “I don’t care”}}

No! You ought to care, it’s your duty to care; you just have to care. If you don’t care, who else should? Besides, that statement says a lot about how you, and it will hurt her deeply.

{{5. Never threaten her }}

Never threaten to leave her just because of a fight; you ought to make your woman feel confident about the marriage and not feel threatened.

{{6. “You’re going to make me hate you”}}

This is another common thing a lot of men say to make their wife feel guilty, but it’s wrong. Never give her the impression that your love for her will diminish, and you should rather focus on the problem at hand than try to make her feel guilty.

Remember to always watch what you say to your woman during a fight. One thing with words is that it can never be taken back, and the scars it could leave in the heart, could take a very long time to heal.

{Anger is calamity set to happen; it makes you lose control of yourself and your senses, and you’ll end up doing things you wouldn’t ordinarily do.}

Being able to control your anger will make you a more mature and wiser person, and you’ll handle situations better.

These are some important tips every short-tempered person should know.

{{1. Know what triggers your anger }}

Try to identify what triggers you to become angry. Knowing what easily makes you lose your cool will give you a foothold over it.

{{2. Avoid those triggers }}

When those situations that will likely trigger your temper arise, try to avoid them. No matter how hard it may seem at first, try to focus your attention on something else.

{{3. Express yourself when you are much claimer }}

If you had an angry situation which you walked out from, you can express it when you are much calmer and in control of yourself.

{{4. Exercise more and free up your spirit }}

Physical activities can help you reduce the stress that can cause you to become angry. If you feel angry, take a walk or engage in any physical activity, and you’ll feel better. You can practice relaxation skills like deep-breathing exercises and yoga. Also, do more of the things you love and meditate daily. These will free your mind and spirit, and give you better control.

{{5. Learn to forgive }}

Try to free up your inner mind as often as possible; this will help you be in control of your temper. Don’t hold a grudge, try to be at peace with people and try not to remember certain situations.

Don’t give anger the chance to control your life.

Your temper shouldn’t control you and make decisions for you. You should do this for yourself.

{To many, the best things in life are cars, houses and a huge stack of money — but are they?}

The best things in life are immeasurable and they are things money can’t buy; they are freely given to us by God and nature, and you didn’t pay a dime to get them, but they are extremely valuable.

These are some of the best things in life.

{{1. Love }}

Sharing love with someone is one of the best things in life; loving someone and being truly loved in return creates a special feeling that is pure and true — and money can’t buy this.

{{2. Family }}

Family is another proof that the best things in life are actually free. You can’t put a price tag on family.

{{3. Friends }}

The love, support, encouragement and presence of a true friend are also immeasurable — and the great thing is that you get all these for free.

{{4. Beautiful memories }}

Those beautiful moments that turn into memories are some of the best things you can ever experience. Those memories last a lifetime, and the joy you feel whenever you remember a special moment cannot be bought with money.

{{5. Your smiles and laughter }}

That generous and warm smile makes you look more beautiful than when you keep a normal face, and moments that make you laugh or smile are worth more than gold.

{{6. A good sleep }}

You don’t need to have money to buy a good sleep, and a good sleep comes with many benefits. The way you feel refreshed and energised after a good sleep is priceless.

The best things in life aren’t sold in the market, and they don’t cost a dime.

{Do you always find yourself feeling hungry even soon after having a meal? Here are reasons why you are always hungry.}

{{1. You don’t eat enough protein }}

Protein keeps you full for a long time because it is a complex nutrient which takes longer to break down during the digestive process. To avoid feeling hungry always, always include protein in every meal.

{{2. You don’t eat enough fat }}

Inadequate fat in your meals will leave you feeling hungry always. Just like protein, fats are also a complex nutrient that requires longer time to break down. Add healthy fats like avocado to your meals.

{{3. Your meals don’t have enough fibre }}

Eating meals rich in fibres are good for your digestive system and they also keep you feeling full for longer. Vegetables provide plenty of fibre so you should always include vegetables in your meal.

{{4. You eat too fast }}

You always feel hungry even soon after eating because you eat too quickly. It can take 15-20 minutes after your food is eaten for your brain to signal a feeling of fullness. When you eat too quick, you don’t give your body time to register you have eaten and are no longer hungry.

{{5. You aren’t eating enough}}

You are probably always hungry even soon after eating because your new diet plan involves you limiting food intake during each meals or even skipping meals all together. If you want to limit your calorie intake but also don’t want to feel hungry, adding more vegetables to each meal would help.

{{6. You aren’t having enough sleep }}

Studies have shown being sleep deprived can make us crave for more food. Try to sleep more if you always feel hungry even soon after having a meal.