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{Being led on by a woman is the worst kind of relationship you can be in. In a relationship like this, you’re like a sidekick; one who’ll get hurt more often than not, and one who wouldn’t really have a say.}

You’ve read the signs that show she’s leading you on, now it’s time to know the things you must be willing to do if found in such a relationship.

{{1. Determine what you really want}}

Know what you want from a relationship and try to figure out if that’s what you are getting from her. Of course, you can’t call a relationship with a woman who’s leading you on, a real relationship. So, figure out what you truly want, and then you’d understand that you are in a wrong relationship.

{{2. Tell her your stand }}

After figuring out what you want from the relationship, tell her your stand on it. Let her know that you want something tangible, and try to set certain boundaries.

{{3. Value yourself more }}

Value yourself more; no matter how much you feel you like her. Be more confident in yourself, and don’t for a second think you can’t find a better woman.

{{4. Be ready to leave }}

If things don’t get better, you must be ready to leave that relationship. Don’t force a relationship on a woman who’s only leading you on.

You might be addicted to a woman who is just leading you on, but for your own good, you just have to take certain drastic decisions.

{Not everything we buy for use comes with a user manual, so sometimes, we use some of these things without knowing their full operational pattern or the purpose they serve. The extra piece of fabric tucked in either your brand new pair of pants or T-shirt for instance, is there for you to use as a test subject for washing with detergent and machine. Some of us don’t know this, and that’s not all of it. I have 7 other things you may not know about your everyday items.}

{{THE LITTLE HOLE ON THE SIDE OF A PEN}}

No, it’s not just a design, it serves an important purpose. Without that hole, your pen wouldn’t be completely airtight and as you write, the pressure would fall, preventing the ink from flowing to the tip and eventually, the pen would cease to write although there is still ink in it.

If you’re ever on a highland area, due to the fact that the pressure is lower there, a pen without the hole could explode, and stain your clothing. So the hole serves the purpose of balancing the pressure in your pen to allow it function well.

{{THE HOLE ON THE CAP OF YOUR PEN}}

Apart from making sure your pen writes smoothly, and ink doesn’t overflow from the other end due to too much pressure when you cover it with the cap, this hole also serves a precautionary purpose. It is believed that if one accidentally swallowed the cap, the hole would allow for easy breathing, pending when a surgery is performed to remove it.

{{THE HOLE AT THE BOTTOM OF YOUR PADLOCK}}

If you look closely at your padlock, close to the keyhole, you’ll find a smaller hole there. It’s not for fancy. The hole is there to drain water that gets trapped in the padlock, for those exposed to rain. It’s also there so you can add grease/oil to your padlock without stress.

{{THE PUNT UNDER A WINE BOTTLE}}

If you noticed, all wine bottles have a little curve underneath, called a punt. The purpose of it is to make sure the bottle doesn’t explode due to pressure, and to keep the wine sparkling.

{{RED/ BLUE COLOURING ERASERS}}

Not all erasers are coloured like the same, but for those that come in this design, the whole purpose of it is to tell you which to use for what. The red coloured side is to be used for erasing soft surface papers, while the blue area is for hard surfaces.

{{A FERRITE}}

Oh that’s just the name it’s been given, but you’ll probably know it as the bump on the end of your laptop cable. As ugly as the feature makes your cable look, it’s there to prevent interference in the cable.

{{THE HOLE IN AIRPLANE WINDOWS}}

Now, if you’ve flown on a plane before and sat close to the window, you’ll notice there is a small hole in the glass covering the windows. Since the windows can’t be opened, the hole is meant to allow little air flow into the plane. It also helps regulate the pressure in the plane.

So now you know what purposes some of the things you use and see every day serve. More will be disclosed to you on this platform.

{All some men want from a woman is her body on his bed and nothing more. As a woman, it’s important you know how to identify a man who only wants you for sex.}

Here are 4 signs all he wants from you is sex and sex alone

{{1. He wants sex every time he is with you }}

If he demands for sex every time he is with you and gets angry when you say you don’t want to have sex, he only wants you for sex and nothing more. A man who wants you for who you are would be happy to spend time with you without demanding for sex.

{{2. His conversations with you are always sexual }}

If he isn’t interested in knowing about you but focuses all his conversations with you on sex, it’s a sign all he wants from you is sex and sex alone. A man who wants just sex with you will never make an effort to know deep things about you.

{{3. He only compliments your appearance }}

He would only compliment your appearance especially your boobs and your bum if all he wants from you is just sex and sex alone. A man who pays attention to just your body should be avoided like plague.

{{4. He tells you he doesn’t want a committed relationship}}

A man who is really interested in you would never tell you he isn’t interested in being in a committed relationship. A man who wants more than sex from a woman would never want to share you with another man and he will be willing to be committed to you. A man who is willing to share you with another man only wants you for sex and sex alone.

{The number of cheating women is definitely on the rise but you can strengthen your relationship and prevent your woman from cheating by doing the following.}

{{1. Make her feel wanted and appreciated }}

You push her to cheat on you when you make her feel neglected and unappreciated. You push her to the arms of another man if you ignore her needs and don’t appreciate her efforts.

{{2. Avoid breakup threats }}

Most men always threaten to breakup with a woman at the slightest provocation and this is an attitude you should stop. You don’t make her feel safe and secure with you when you always threaten to break up. You gradually push her into the arms of another man who would make her feel safe and secure.

{{3. Never cheat on her }}

Some men cheat on their partner but still expect her to be faithful. You can’t eat your cake and have it. A woman may also cheat on her man just to get back at him for cheating on her.

{{4. Improve your performance in bed}}

Poor performance in bed can make a woman cheat on her man. Most women will become disgruntled and seek gratification elsewhere if their man is poor in bed.

{{5. Don’t make her feel too lonely}}

Loneliness is another reason why some women cheat on their man. Avoid being too busy to be with her so she doesn’t start feeling too lonely. Inasmuch as she appreciates all the gifts and wonderful things you do for her, she still wants your presence.

{Do you feel something isn’t right in your relationship? Is your partner acting very cold and distant lately? Your partner might have lost interest in the relationship.}

{{Here are 17 obvious signs your relationship is over}}

1. Your partner picks up fight with you over things that are irrelevant and important. Arguments with your partner don’t just seem to make sense to you.

2. Everything starts becoming annoying to you partner and it suddenly becomes difficult pleasing your partner.

3. Arguments and disagreements between you and your partner have become more frequent.

4. Nothing you do seems to be enough for your partner. Your partner suddenly starts complaining about your ambition, job, finance, friends, car, house etc.

5. You used to be your partner’s priority but these days every other thing seems to be more important to your partner than you.

6. You and your partner are spending less time together lately. The both of you used to be inseparable in the past but those days are now in the past.

7. Your partner is always free to hang out with his/her friends but is always too busy to spend quality time with you.

8. Sex felt special but it’s more like a chore lately. Your partner seems to be somewhere else when having sex with you lately and cuddling after sex has suddenly become rare.

9. Your partner suddenly becomes conservative and no longer likes public displays of affection. No more holding hands, hugs and kisses in public.

10. You are the only one initiating sex lately and your partner rarely initiates sex like he/she used to do.

11. Your partner is always too tired for sex lately and rarely in the mood. Your partner suddenly starts giving excuses to avoid having sex with you.

12. Can you remember the last time your partner called? Your relationship could just be over if your partner rarely calls or sends messages like he/she used to do.

13. Communication with your partner seems to be emotionless lately with lots of one-word responses. Your conversations now feel lifeless.

14. Your partner isn’t interested in what’s happening in your life and rarely ask questions about what’s going on in your life.

15. Your partner never used to forget important dates in your relationship like your birthday, anniversaries and other milestones in your relationship but it’s so different these days. Your partner now forgets important dates in your relationship.

16. Your partner’s phone suddenly becomes out-of-bounds to you.

17. Your partner stops showing interest in the things the both of you used to enjoy as a couple.

{A lot can be deduced from the first date; the success of the first date can lead to so many other dates.}

First impression truly matters, and when a guy takes you out on a first date, he expects you to do some certain things.

1. Every guy wants to have your full attention on a first date. Meaning, no chatting on the phone, no calls, no looking at what’s going on elsewhere, but being present in the moment.

2. Every guy expects you to look beautiful on that first date. Inasmuch as you should dress according to the occasion, he also wants to be wowed.

3. Every guy wants the lady to be part of the conversation on the first date. If he has to do all the talking, the date will definitely be boring, and there might not be another.

4. Every guy secretly wants to be appreciated for his efforts. He’d try to please you as much as possible, and it’ll mean a lot if his efforts are duly noticed and appreciated.

5. If you can bring on your smiling face, and laugh at his jokes, he’d definitely be a happy man.

6. Every guy wants a positive body language on that first date. He wants the lady to enjoy his company and enjoy being out on the date.

7. The date will definitely mean much to your man if your personality is endearing. Most men expect to see a positive minded woman with self-confidence, charm and charisma.

8. No man surely wants a first date that’s filled with drama. He doesn’t want an ex-boyfriend drama, family drama and any other sort of drama.

9. He expects the lady to be very lively and feel comfortable with him.

10. A little compliment will definitely make him feel wowed.

A first date with these attributes will definitely make every guy out there happy.

{A lot of people have made lateness a permanent habit in their lives; they are late to church, late for every appointment, late for every function, and just about everything.}

Lateness is a bad habit, and these are some important reasons you should stop them now.

{{1. It kills trust}}

When you are always late for an appointment or event, you pass a message of being inefficient, and in turn kill people’s trust in you. Lateness doesn’t inspire trust, and you’ll miss so many opportunities in life when you aren’t deemed to be trustworthy.

{{2. It comes with so many negatives}}

Lateness comes with so many negatives, such as excuses, procrastination, lack of focus, disappointments, lies and deceits and so many other baggage.

{{3.Loss in productivity }}

When you are late, you tend to do the right things at the wrong time, and this could affect morale and productivity in many ways. Being timely keeps you in the right frame of mind to achieve certain results.

4. You might also be faced with so many problems at work, and a bad reputation as well, when you don’t keep to time. This might cause huge problems for you in the long run.

Being late isn’t a good habit, and if you’re always guilty of this, you should try to overcome the habit today.

{Sometimes you just don’t want to use the word sex; we all feel like that sometimes especially when we are in certain places.}

Here are 15 words you can use to replace sex

1. Screwing

2. Knocking boots

3. Humping

4. Boning

5. Doing the nasty

6. Getting busy

7. Getting your groove on

8. Sleeping together

9. Doing it

10. Making whoopee

11. Shagging

12. Banging

13. Doing the mattress dance

14. Hanky panky

15. Rolling in the hay

What words do you think we missed that can replace sex?

{It’s not just okay wishing to have love that lasts a lifetime; there are certain things you must do to make it happen.}

Here are 4 things you must do if you want love that lasts a lifetime

{{1. Don’t expect a perfect partner }}

You must be willing to overlook certain faults your partner has if you want love that lasts a lifetime. You should avoid being too critical of your partner.
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2. You must sacrifice for your partner when necessary }}

If you want love that lasts a lifetime, you have to be willing to sacrifice for your partner when necessary. Being there for each other irrespective of what life throws your way is an important ingredient every long-lasting relationship has.

{{3. You must prioritise communication }}

Communication is important if you want love that lasts a lifetime. You know your partner better when you talk and listen to your partner regularly. Without regular communication, you can’t have a long-lasting relationship.

{{4. You should be honest and transparent}}

You should be willing to share your entire life with your partner if you want love that lasts a lifetime and you can only do this by being honest and transparent. Nothing should be hidden from your partner if you want love that lasts a lifetime.

{Marriage could be a dreadful adventure if you aren’t ready and prepared for it.}

Below are 5 signs you aren’t ready for marriage

{{1. You are looking for a perfect partner }}

You aren’t ready for marriage if you are still looking for the perfect partner. The perfect partner doesn’t exist and everyone who is ready for marriage knows this. There’s no partner that doesn’t come with flaws so until you are ready to accept and live with your partner’s flaws, you aren’t ready for marriage.

{{2. Relationship is all about sex to you }}

If all you think about is sex when in a relationship, then you aren’t ready for marriage. While having great sex is important in every marriage, no great marriage is built on sex alone. You need to love your partner outside the bedroom as much as you love your partner in the bedroom.

{{3. You hope to change your partner after marriage }}

Hoping to change your partner after marriage is a sign that you aren’t ready for marriage. Getting married with the hopes of changing your partner is a recipe for disaster in any marriage. It’s either you accept your partner for who he or she really is or end the relationship.

{{4. You aren’t open about your finances }}

One of the common reasons many marriages have ended or are having issues is due to finance. It’s important you are open about your finances before marriage. If you aren’t willing to be honest about your finances before marriage, then you aren’t ready for marriage.

{{5. You can’t stick to a partner }}

If you enjoy cheating and find it difficult sticking to a partner, then you aren’t ready for marriage. Those who are ready for marriage are happy having sex with one person for the rest of their life.