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{Many women aren’t knowledgeable about how to care for their man, and to a lot of women, men don’t need those stuffs. But the truth remains that a caring woman will always have a soft spot in a man’s heart.}

These are some ways you can care for your man, and make him happier.

1. Listen to him and be conscious of how he feels. Men also feel cared for when they are listened to; giving him a listening ear is one of the best ways to show him that you really care.

2. Make him a priority in your life. He wants you to value him and make him feel important; if you can achieve this, then you have actually shown him that you care.

3. Give him attention. Unknown to women, men also seek and value attention. If he has to beg for your attention, then you aren’t doing a good job.

4. Don’t always be centred on yourself; care about the needs of your man as well. When you are interested in his needs, you reach a certain part of his life that no one else would.

5. Compliment him, make him feel handsome, and always admire him when he looks good. Complimenting your man can make him feel alive again.

6. Appreciate him, appreciate his work and appreciate everything that he does for you. Appreciating your man is one of the best ways you can care for him.

7. Nothing says “I love you” more than a woman who does stuffs to thrill her man. Plan romantic dates too and do stuffs to excite him; don’t wait for him to do everything alone.

Being a caring woman is the best way to tell him that you love him.

{Why live a life of unhappiness, when you can live a life of happiness?

Happiness can’t be bought; it’s as a result of the actions you take, and our happiness and unhappiness are tied to us and no one else.}

These are some happy habits you should start today.

{{1. Live a life of contentment}}

Being contented with the things you have doesn’t make you stupid; rather it keeps your heart at peace, and when you are at peace, only then can you be happy. But when you live your life like it’s a competition and you are envious of other people, and try to compare yourself with them, you can never be happy.

{{2. Don’t be all too serious}}

Don’t be the kind of person who takes things too seriously all the time. Sometimes, be a little silly, have fun, crack jokes and have a laugh with others.

{{3. Keep positive friendships}}

Be friends with people who are positive minded. The kind of people you associate with truly matters. When you remain friends with people who are positive minded and who share a free spirit, your life will go along in that direction.

{{4. Take care of your body }}

Take proper care of your body; you will feel an extra sense of satisfaction and happiness when your body is in the right shape. So eat well, exercise and avoid things that will harm your body.

{{5. Spend time alone }}

Sometimes you need to spend time with yourself, meditate on things and understand who you truly are. Spending quality time alone can do you a world of wonders.

{{6. Live in the moment }}

Sometimes, it’s good to live in the present and enjoy those moments in the present, because after that moment, it’ll only turn to memories.

{{7. Stop worrying about things you can’t control }}

Anything that you cannot change or control should be left alone. If you spend time pondering over things that are beyond your control, you’d only be unhappy.

{{8. Spend time with people you love}}

Try to spend quality time with your friends and family, and with people who matter to you. Create and enjoy good moments with those people who truly matter to you.

{{9. Be grateful }}

Choose to be grateful for all that you have. There’s always something to be grateful for, but people only tend to look at the things that are missing in their lives. If you check your life well, you’ll always find at least a thousand things to be grateful for.

{{10. Be kind to others }}

Learn to be kind; kindness draws its own form of happiness that can never be quantified. The kinder you are, the happier you’ll tend to be.

Start these happy habits today, and your life will remain better for it.

{Sex is pleasurable and when it’s even more amazing when done with someone you truly love.}

There are certain things every woman should do after having sex with her partner if she wants to maintain a healthy vag*na.

Check them out below

{{1. Urinate }}

Urinating after sex is important for a woman because it prevents you from getting a urinary tract infection (UTI). Urinating after sex also stops bacteria that got to the vag*na from going into the urethra.

{{2. Wash up}}

Washing up after sex is also important as it keeps yeast and bacterial infection away. Avoid using soap or antiseptics when washing up as it can upset the natural pH of the vag*na. Water alone is okay.

{{3. Drink water }}

Sex can be really intense and it’s important you drink enough water after sex to ensure you stay hydrated. Drinking water after sex is also useful because it would help you urinate, thereby helping keep UTI away.

{{4. Wear cotton underwear}}

Staying totally naked after sex can be cool but you should consider wearing cotton underwear if you want to wear an underwear after sex. Cotton undies do not trap moisture, hence letting your vagina breathe and feel fresh.

{You probably have noticed this. You probably have found yourself feeling gravitated towards a man or woman who already is in a very functional relationship with someone else. If you have, and you thought, “what is wrong with me?” Not to worry, there’s nothing wrong with you, and you’re not the only one who has found his or herself in that situation. I think it comes with being human.}

Research has proven it more than once that we tend to want what belongs to another; those things we cannot really have, the things that are most difficult to get, they are the things we tend to want. It’s like driving your car on the road, and you find someone with a newer looking model of the same year, you naturally would wish you could switch places with them.

I was speaking with a friend about this subject, a female, and although she has been in a relationship with her man for years, she said she’s sometimes felt attracted to other taken men too. So I think it’s a natural phenomenon. I don’t think it’s bad in itself, but obviously, it becomes bad if you can’t snap out of it, and it’s recurring. It’s a problem when you go out of your way to ruin a happy relationship because of infatuation. It’ll pass if you let it; it always does.

So ladies and gents, don’t get too disturbed if you find yourself attracted to another’s partner for a minute. It’s natural, but will pass, once you take it as what it is, infatuation.

{It just doesn’t end at saying you love someone, there are certain things you will never do if you truly love someone.}

Here are 8 things you would never do if you truly love someone

{{1. You won’t keep secrets}}

You can’t claim to love someone and keep secrets from the person you claim to love. Keeping important information from your partner can lead to a breakdown in trust.

{{2. You won’t cheat }}

You can’t claim to love your partner if you cheat on your partner. When you truly love someone, you would want to be committed to just that person.

{{3. You won’t be too busy for your partner }}

When you truly love someone, you will be happy to make out time to be with your partner no matter how tight your schedule is.

{{4. You won’t disrespect your partner’s family and friends }}

If you truly love love your partner, you would never disrespect your partner’s family and friends no matter how annoying you think they are. Your partner’s family and friends are part of your partner’s world so you will treat them with respect if you truly love your partner.

{{5. You won’t shut your partner off}}

You can’t claim to love your partner if you shut your partner off instead of talking about the issue with your partner. If you truly love someone, you will be willing to talk about the issue with your partner, even when it’s potentially difficult.

{{6. You won’t neglect your partner}}

You can’t claim to love your partner and then neglect your partner. That isn’t love. If you truly love someone, you will care about how your partner feels and what your partner needs.

{{7. You won’t disrespect your partner}}

You can’t treat your partner with disrespect and also claim to love your partner. Shouting at your partner is a sign of disrespect and you wouldn’t do that if you truly love your partner.

{{8. You won’t reveal your partner’s secrets to the world }}

If you truly love someone, you would never reveal his/her secret to the world. He/she shared those deep secrets with you because he/she trusts you to keep the secret. Even after breakup, you should never share your partner’s secrets.

{It’s a huge waste of time being in a relationship without any future. Are you confused because you don’t really know where your relationship is headed?}

Here are 5 signs your relationship is destined to fail

{{1. Your partner doesn’t meet your needs}}

Your partner definitely can’t meet your every need but there are certain relationship needs your partner is expected to meet. Your partner is expected to communicate regularly, support you and cheer you up when you are down. If your partner can’t meet your basic relationship needs, then your relationship has no future.

{{2. Your partner puts in no effort into making the relationship work}}

Your relationship has no future if your partner puts in no effort into making the relationship work. Both partners in a relationship are expected to put in an equal amount of effort into making the relationship work. If your partner doesn’t care enough to meet you halfway, then your relationship has no future.

{{3. Your relationship lacks trust}}

Trust is an important ingredient in every relationship. Your relationship has no future if you and your partner struggle to trust each other. There’s no point being in a relationship with someone you don’t trust or someone who doesn’t trust you because that relationship certainly has no future.

{{4. You both want different things}}

Your relationship can’t have a future if you and your partner both want different things. If you are ready to settle down and your partner isn’t even interested in settling down, your relationship may encounter problems.

{{5. Your partner doesn’t accept you for who you are }}

Your relationship has no future if your partner doesn’t accept you for who you are. We all have our good and bad traits and a partner who has a future with you will accept your flaws.

{There’s a school of thought that believes you have to spend a lot on someone if you truly value that person. Does this mean you have to spend so much on your partner just to show your partner how much you care?}

Drama and Shawn will share their opinions on this subject.

{{Drama}}

No you don’t! Money and spending do not really tell how much you love a person, per se. I believe so because there are two angles to that statement. If you have money to spend, then, it is expected that you spend some of it on your partner from time to time. Mark the key words, “if you have”.

But we also should understand that not everyone in a relationship or marriage has money to get their partner all the fancy things of life, and take them to fancy places. That doesn’t mean they don’t care, it means they just don’t have money to do it at that time. Money isn’t the only way love can be expressed. Money can spice up a couple’s love life, and that I’ll agree, but not that it shows you love someone. We have heard and read stories of people who are unhappy in their relationship even when they’re with a wealthy partner.

You do not need to have money to show someone you care, you can do that in other ways that don’t involve spending.

{{Shawn}}

I strongly believe that if you care about someone, it has to go beyond words, and it should be seen; you ought to show that person that you really care.

But then, my above-mentioned thoughts have been misconstrued by many and targeted at only splashing the cash as the only genuine of showing value, especially by the female gender.

Of course, you have to do so much to show someone that you truly care. You should be willing to show support, attention and time. No matter how much money you spend on that person, if these three are missing, then your care or love just isn’t enough.

Care and love cannot really be quantified with money; you can have so much and spend so little (compared to what you have), and have so little and spend so much on a person. So who then should be seen as the more caring person?

How much you care about someone first and foremost will emanate from the heart, before being shown, and it doesn’t just end at how much you spend on that person; it goes way beyond that.

{There are two kinds of broke guys — the ones who are comfortable being broke and don’t care, and then the ones who are working hard to better their lives.
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In every society, these two kinds of men exist, and more often than not, there’s usually hope for the second category, and there are some things about this kind of men that women must understand, if in a relationship with them.

{{1. He might want to do certain things,but can’t }}

A broke guy who works hard to get out of his broke situation, will always have certain things that he’d want to do for his lady but can’t. Although he might not say it, but he’d want to surprise you on your birthday or even get you an expensive gift.

{{2. He’d go over the line to please you }}

A broke guy who is uncomfortable with his current predicament will always try to go over the line to please his lady. He understands that he can’t get her all the fancy stuff she might want, so he’d try to please her more, in a bid to keep her happy and not lose her.

{{3. Expect some dull moments }}

Of course, being broke isn’t a happy situation to be in. A broke guy will sometimes have those dull moments where it might seem so difficult to cheer him up. When a man can’t meet his present needs, unrest and worries are two common factors that could steal his peace.

{{4. He might be a bit insecure}}

The broke guy knows that there are many rich men out there who can sway his lady off her feet, and this might make him feel a bit insecure. Sometimes, he might get jealous or feel insecure even when there’s no reason to.

{{5. He’d always give his best }}

A broke guy who loves you will always give his best, and of course he’d be faithful and honest. Most broke men tend to be loyal, but then the same cannot be said about a certain percentage of them when they start making money.

These 5 things are usually synonymous with broke guys, and it’s something many women won’t understand.

{There are different degrees to being broke, but no matter how broke you are, there are some type of women you shouldn’t have in your life.}

{{1. The ones who love luxury }}

Dating a woman who loves luxury when you are broke is like trying to draw out water from the well with a basket. Certain things don’t rhyme, and this is just one of them. If you can’t afford her, then don’t be with her.

{{2. The ones who never get satisfied }}

If you give in your best and she never gets satisfied, then she isn’t who you need in your life. Look for a woman that’ll find contentment and satisfaction in what you do for her.

{{3. The ones who never appreciate }}

Totally avoid women who don’t appreciate what you do for them. Being broke doesn’t mean you are poor; it’s only a temporary situation, and if she cannot appreciate the efforts you put in, then she isn’t right for you.

{{4. The ones who don’t care about your finances }}

Of course, you should steer clear of a woman who doesn’t care about your financial position. If she wants to live above what you can offer financially, and doesn’t care about the impact of her lifestyle, then you should run far away from such a woman. She’d never help you in life, rather you’ll remain stagnated.

{{5. The ones who are lazy}}

If you’re a broke guy, the last thing you need in your life is a lazy woman around you. She’d kill all the positivity you have, and you might enjoy being broke before you know it. Be with a woman that’ll motivate you.

These kinds of women should be far away from your life if you’re broke, and one could ask — will they even be a good choice if you are rich?

{The success or failure of your relationship is mostly a result of what you’ve sown into it. Your relationship gives you what you give to it, and more often than not people tend to sow bad seeds into their relationships without knowing, and then they expect the relationship to be good — but that’s impossible.}

If you’ve been doing these things in your relationship, then you need to stop:

{{1. Stop treating your fights like a war }}

Okay, you have a fight with your partner or a misunderstanding — that’s okay depending on how you treat it. If you treat those fights like a war, and a must-win case, then you’re only destroying your relationship.

{{2. Stop hurting your partner with your words}}

Words hurt a lot, and the unfortunate thing about the words you speak is that you cannot take them back; they’d always leave a sting in your partner’s heart, and not everyone can deal with that. Be very careful with the things you say to your partner.

{{3. Stop thinking only about yourself }}

Stop putting yourself ahead of your partner, stop trying to make all the decisions and be in control, stop trying to have your way all the time and stop making the relationship about you.

{{4. Stop waiting }}

Stop waiting for your partner to make the first move, stop waiting for your partner to apologise first after a fight, stop waiting for your partner to show love and affection first. Stop waiting and start doing.

{{5. Stop comparisons}}

Stop comparing your partner to another person; you hurt your partner’s ego and kill your relationship when you do this.

6. Stop washing your dirty linens in public. Learn to sort things out with your partner, and not broadcast every issue to the whole world.

7. Stop bringing up old fights; they never help. You only bring more troubles into your relationship when you do this.

Have you been guilty of these acts? Well, it’s never too late to change.