Category: Social

{There are so many things happening on social media these days, and so many news of how it has ended many relationships and marriages.}

Social media has its pros and cons, depending on how you use it. However, there are many ways it can breed jealousy, distrust and unnecessary suspicions, ruining your relationship in the process.

{{1. Snooping }}

Snooping on your partner’s private messages doesn’t inspire trust in any way, rather you’ll plant a seed of suspicion and distrust deep within you, and that can go on to burn your relationship.

{{2. Checking your partner’s browser history }}

Only the thoughts to do something as grave as this will definitely ruin your relationship. To go to such a length only shows how low your relationship has come, and such an action wouldn’t inspire trust in any way.

{{3. Checking out your partner’s exes }}

Surely, this is taking things a bit too far. Going as far as looking up your partner’s ex wouldn’t help you in any way. Instead, jealousy and an unnecessary rivalry will follow next, and you’d end up doing things that’ll hurt your relationship.

Have you been guilty of these habits? You should quit them now; they wouldn’t help your relationship in any way.

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{You lie to yourself and will definitely end up hurting yourself if you are with a woman who isn’t into you.}

{{Below are 13 signs that show she doesn’t care about you}}

1. She doesn’t care about you if she’s not willing to adjust her schedule to make time for you. A woman who truly cares about you would never be too busy to spend time with you.

2. She doesn’t care about you if she never compromises and always want things done her way. A woman who truly cares about you would be willing to compromise.

3. She doesn’t care about you if she avoids letting the world know you are her man. She refers to you as just a friend when she introduces you to others.

4. She doesn’t care about you if she always appears annoyed whenever you touch her. A woman who truly cares about you will desire your touch.

5. She doesn’t care about you if she always compares you to other guys and always tends to highlight the achievements of other guys.

6. She doesn’t care about you if she never puts her phone down when with you. There’s always someone important she needs to talk to or chat with whenever she’s with you.

7. She doesn’t care about you if she avoids being together with you in public.

8. She doesn’t care about you if she shares embarrassing details about you in public to get others laughing. A woman who truly cares about you would never make fun of you in public.

9. She doesn’t care about you if she never apologises when she’s wrong. She always disappears after an argument and it’s always you reaching out to apologise.

10. She doesn’t care about you if she never bothers or feel a little threatened when other women show interest in you. She isn’t bothered if she finds you flirting with someone else.

11. She doesn’t care about you if she has no idea what you are up to and she doesn’t even bother to find out. Nothing about your life bothers her.

12. She doesn’t care about you if her communication with you lacks emotion. She rarely calls you and is always quick to end the call when you call. Her messages are short and lack emotions.

13. She doesn’t care about you if she’s rarely in the mood for sex. She gets irritated when you try to initiate sex and you can’t remember the last time you had sex with her.

If you notice these signs in your relationship, it’s time to quit that relationship.

{If you want a happy and long-lasting marriage, you need to work towards it. For a marriage to be successful, the husband and the wife should see themselves as partners working towards a common goal.}

Here are 10 things you should do if you want a long-lasting marriage

{{1. Continuous communication}}

Couples who communicate regularly have better chances of having a successful marriage. Continuous communication, both verbal and nonverbal, is important if you want a long-lasting marriage.

{{2. You trust each other}}

Trust is an important factor your marriage needs if you want a long-lasting marriage. To build trust in your marriage, there has to be transparency in your marriage and you should ensure you are someone who is reliable. Transparency and reliability helps build trust in a marriage.

{{3. You are there for each other irrespective of the challenge}}

Every marriage is bound to have challenges. For you to have a long-lasting marriage, you and your partner have to be willing to be there for each other irrespective of the challenge.

{{4. You show gratitude }}

You have to pay attention to the little details if you want to build a long-lasting marriage. Showing gratitude is an important trait that helps you have a long-lasting marriage. Saying ‘thank you’ when your partner does something nice for you is very important.

{{5. You forgive each other easily}}

Forgiveness is another important trait that should be found in your marriage if you want to have a long-lasting marriage. Your partner isn’t perfect and is bound to offend you sometimes so you should be willing to forgive easily if you want a long-lasting relationship. Never go to bed angry, learn to forgive your partner easily.

{{6. You spend quality time together}}

Don’t let your busy lifestyle destroy your marriage. To have a long-lasting marriage, it’s important you spend quality time with your partner regularly. Spending quality time with your partner leads to a better connection between you and your partner.

{{7. You never compare your partner to someone else}}

If you want to have a long-lasting marriage, you should avoid comparing your partner to someone else. The grass will always appear greener on the other side but it’s not always as it looks from the outside. Stop focusing on the things your partner don’t do and start appreciating the things your partner does.

{{8. You respect each other }}

You can’t have a long-lasting marriage if you and your partner don’t respect each other. To have a long-lasting marriage, it’s important you respect your partner’s needs, likes and the things your partner doesn’t like.

{{9. You don’t look for who to blame when something go wrong }}

You can’t have a long-lasting marriage when you always look for who to blame when something goes wrong. To have a long-lasting marriage, you should be accountable for your actions.

{{10. You are able to compromise }}

You can’t have a long-lasting marriage if you have pride. Couples who are able to compromise and meet each other halfway are more likely to have a long-lasting marriage.

{Technology has helped relationships; it has enhanced communication and has helped keep couples together no matter the distance. But then, it has also made cheating and unfaithfulness easily accessible, and has also created a sense of jealousy, competition and rivalry among couples.}

Once jealousy and rivalry starts to enter a relationship, then that relationship is close to facing doom. These habits can help inspire trust in your relationship.

{{1. Sharing each other’s passwords}}

Sharing each other’s passwords across various social media platforms creates this sense of trust and honesty. It passes a message that you both have nothing to hide, and you’re true to each other.

{{2. Posting on each other’s walls}}

Sharing items on each other’s walls helps create a sense of acknowledgement that will pass a message that you are both happy and satisfied with the relationship. This habit will also inspire trust.

{{3. Updating your relationship status}}

Updating your relationship status from single to “in a relationship”, and tagging your partner, will help create a sense of acknowledgement and pride, and will help inspire trust, in that you aren’t ashamed to tell the world that you are hooked up.

Social media and tech can in many ways inspire jealousy and suspicions, but these habits will help breed trust.

{Science says men are more emotional than women, only that they’re good at hiding their emotions. But why is it that women usually appear more emotional than men?}

{{1. Society }}

It’s socially more acceptable for women to show their emotions than for men to do so, and this has made men tend to macho up and hide their emotions rather than reveal them, while women on the other hand, feel okay to show their emotions everywhere they find themselves.

{{2. Motherly instincts }}

Many women tend to have motherly instincts that make them feel danger, love and certain other emotions, and this instinct is never hidden — it always shows.

{{3. Role }}

In many cultures and society, women have been given a much softer role/task, while men are usually given the difficult ones, and this has made women more open and revealing, while it has made men more withdrawn.

{{4. Hormones }}

Women pass through many hormonal changes at various points of their lives, and these hormones tend to make women more emotional, especially during PMS and pregnancy. The hormone estrogen is usually responsible for this.

{{5. Relationship/family values}}

In a family setting, the man is usually the breadwinner; the one who’s supposed to protect and provide for the family, while the woman is the helpmate. Also, in relationships, women seek out to be loved and cherished by the man, and love to get all the affection and attention.

This family and relationship setting has in a way made women more comfortable with being emotional, and has toughened men up.

{The little things you do everyday matter if you want to appear more attractive and irresistible.}

Here are tips that will make you appear more attractive

{{1. Smile more }}

You can’t appear attractive if you always frown. You lighten up your face instantly when you smile.

{{2. Eat fruits and vegetables}}

Eating fruits and vegetables daily is important if you want to appear more attractive. Several studies have shown that eating fruits and vegetables daily gives the skin a healthy glow.

{{3. Be kind}}

Being kind will also make you more attractive. You will appear more attractive when you are willing to help people around you through your kind words and gestures.

{{4. Relax}}

Too much stress isn’t good for the body and it also makes us appear less attractive. You appear more attractive when you relax more.

{{5. Be confident }}

You appear less attractive when you aren’t confident. Being more confident in yourself and abilities will make you appear more attractive.

{{6. Drink water }}

Drinking enough water is important to avoid dehydration. You appear more youthful and restore elasticity to your skin when you drink enough water.

{{7. Maintain a good hygiene }}

You can’t appear attractive when you always look dirty and unkempt. Trim your beards, smell good, take good care of your hair and always make sure you maintain a good hygiene.

{Is there an ideal age range to get married? Science thinks there is and has revealed the best and worst ages to get married.}

According to Nicholas Wolfinger, the best age range to get married is between 28 and 32. Wolfinger made this discovery after analysing data from 2006 to 2010 in the National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG).

It was previously thought that getting married when one is older reduces the chances of having a divorce but the research by Wolfinger disagrees with this idea.

According to the research by Wolfinger, you are more likely to get a divorce if you get married too early or too late.

Couples who got married as teens have a 38% risk of divorce; those who got married in their early twenties have a 27% risk of divorce but there is a strong decline for couples who marry between ages of 25 and 29 (14%) and ages 30 to 34 (10%).

The risk divorce starts increasing by age with couples who wed for the first time at age 35 or above having a 17% risk of divorce.

So at what age do you intend getting married?

{Ever wondered why some ladies are irresistible to men and others aren’t? There are secrets that can make every woman irresistible to a man.}

{{Check them out below}}

{{1. Smile more }}

Men are naturally attracted to women who smile more. You make yourself unattractive when you don’t smile.

{{2. Greet him warmly}}

Nothing attracts a man like a woman who greets him warmly. Always make him feel liked when you meet him. Say hello with a huge smile and give him a huge hug.

{{3. Be fun to be with}}

No man wants to be around a woman who is too serious and boring. Men love being around women who are fun to be with. Learn to be playful and have fun.

{{4. Appreciate kind gestures}}

Don’t act like kind gestures from men are your entitlements. Learn to appreciate kind gestures. Men love women who show appreciation. You would wow him even more when you say “thank you” more than once.

{{5. Don’t sell yourself cheap}}

You make yourself less attractive when you sell yourself cheap by having sex with a man who isn’t your boyfriend. Mature men are attracted to women who make them wait for sex.

{{6. Be positive }}

Men are attracted to women who are positive so it’s important your conversations with him are positive. Stop all the negative conversations as they can be energy-sapping.

{{7. Compliment }}

Everyone wants to be flattered sincerely so don’t forget to compliment him. If you like something about him, tell him. You make him feel more confident and comfortable around you when you do this.

{A lot has been said about men and their cheating ways; but there are also men who don’t cheat on their women, and these men don’t get enough credit that they deserve. The mantra that ‘all men are the same’ seems to have overshadowed the fact that there are many men out there who wouldn’t cheat on their wives.}

These are some signs that suggest he’s not cheating on you.

{{1. He’s always honest }}

100% honesty and 100% faithfulness go hand in hand. A man that’s never deceitful and that’ll always tell you the truth, will never cheat on you. If he can be that honest to you, then he can as well be that faithful.

{{2. He’s an open book }}

When your man is like an open book, then he’d have nothing to hide. With such a man, you’ll easily know his whereabouts, the things he does and everything about him. He has nothing to hide and no tracks to cover.

{{3. His friendships are open }}

A man that’s faithful to the core wouldn’t keep compromising friendships, especially with the opposite sex. His friendships are open, and there’s no reason to suggest he’d want to have an affair.

{{4. He’s still interested in you }}

Of course, a faithful man will more often than not stick to his woman; he’d still love to do certain things with her and be her number one man.

{{5. He’s contended }}

According to a study conducted by Newman, most men cheat not really because they aren’t sexually satisfied, but because they aren’t emotionally satisfied. If he’s emotionally satisfied, then he’d have no cause to stray.

{{6. He has high moral values }}

More importantly, a man’s actions are usually as a result of his moral standards and values. If he has high moral values, he wouldn’t see cheating as an option; he wouldn’t even be drawn to it.

There are also men who don’t cheat, and it’s untrue that all men are the same.

{Not everyone is informed when it comes to the laws governing an area or country, that’s why sometimes, people break the law without knowing it. We all have been guilty of something like that at some point in our lives; but of course, we got lucky enough to get away with it.}

I present to you, those common laws you’ve probably broken without knowing it.

{{ Driving too slow}}

Speeding too much is bad, but so is driving too slow, depending on the area and the speed limit it has. Sometimes, we get carried away by things around us, but it’s wrong, and punishable to drive too slow. Always pay attention to speed limits.

{{Jaywalking }}

Jaywalking is crossing a busy road without regard for traffic laws. Each city, country has traffic laws that control pedestrians, cars, etc, and you’re expected to obey them. Crossing the road casually without regard for incoming traffic isn’t just dangerous, but can also land you in jail in countries with strict traffic laws.

{{ Eating an item before you pay}}

Some of us have done this before without knowing the implications of what they’re doing. When you eat anything gotten from a store before you pay for it, that can be translated as theft. Because the owners have no idea what you’re doing.

{{ Sharing passwords}}

Your password is meant for you, and you alone. You’re not expected to disclose it to anyone else. If you do, it can be deemed a breach of contract, and legal action taken. It rarely happens, but it’s a fact.

{{Drinking alcohol on a Sunday }}

Obviously, this law isn’t applicable everywhere. In most parts of the world, nothing’s wrong with it, but in other parts, it’s considered unlawful to buy alcohol on a Sunday.

{{ Cycling without a helmet}}

Some of us think only motorcyclists have to wear a helmet, but while this is true in some countries, there are parts of the world where all cyclists are required to wear a helmet for safety purposes.

{{ Using other people’s songs without their permission }}

Unless you’re playing the song on your device, and you’re not using it for some other purpose, then you have no reason to worry. However, if you use an artist’s song as part of your own personal work, like using the song of your favorite Singer as background sound for an instagram video, you can land in jail for copyright infringement. You cannot use another person’s intellectual property without their permission.

Now, you know how you’ve been breaking laws without knowing!