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{If you need ideas that would help you turn up the heat on your man tonight, these tips below are just what you need.}

1. Make your man expectant by texting him things you plan to do to him when he gets home.

2. Whisper into your partner’s ears, telling him exactly what you want to do to him right now.

3. When you are in bed with him, tell him what you want from him. Be direct and avoid beating around the bush.

4. Wear clothes that flatter your figure. Men are visuals and seeing you dress sexy for him will definitely turn up the heat.

5. Touch him. Place your hand on his knee briefly while he’s talking. Just ensure there is skin contact.

6. Flirt with him by running your fingers down his chest while looking into his eyes and telling him the things you want to do to him.

7. Get him to pay attention to your lips by licking or biting them.

8. If surrounded by people, kiss him when no one is watching and act like everything is normal. It will make him eager to find some privacy.

9. Make eye contact with him. Your eyes can do so much more than you think.

10. Go pantless and make sure he knows. He will be dying to have you.

11. Before he leaves for work in the morning, tell him he’s in for a surprise when he gets back home.

12. Take his hands and show him exactly how and where you want to be touched.

13. Kiss and give him what he wants, then stop suddenly and walk away. That will leave him wanting more. He will definitely chase you.

14. Suggest something new you have always wanted to try but haven’t.

15. Answer the door partially naked but make sure he is alone as you don’t want his friends seeing you partially naked.

Source:Elcrema

{What if you had the key to a man’s heart just after the first date? What if you could make him fall for you just after the first date of being with you? What if you could actually make him think about you all night long after that first date?}

All these things aren’t impossible, and they can be achieved with just these simple tips.

{{1. Bring along your smiling face }}

A smiling face is worth more than all the expensive make-up kits you have in your closet. There’s a certain charm that surrounds you when you smile. Just be cheerful and smile a bit more; it’ll make him attracted to you in a different way.

{{2. Look amazing }}

You can’t look like a roadside vendor and just win his heart all of a sudden. People will first of all judge you based on what they see, before they discover more about you. Just look good, and he’ll love it.

{{3. Be exciting to be with }}

Bring your exciting personality along with you; be willing to talk and laugh and be excited about being on that date. You’ll find him addicted to you in no time.

{{4. Don’t try to be all flirty and sexual }}

Cut every sexual advances; if you want to win his heart and not his body, then sexual advances should be off the table. This will even thrill him more.

{{5. Compliment him genuinely }}

Look for certain things to compliment about him, but it has to be genuine. He’ll feel special when you do this.

{{6. Let him feel your positive energy }}

Come to the date with a positive energy, and your positive energy will also transfer to him. From your facial expression, your body language, tone of communication and everything — you should be positive.

{{7. Let your mind be on the date }}

If you are on the date, then your focus should be on that date. Distractions like your phone and passers-by shouldn’t kill the date. Let your focus be on him.

Enjoy that first date with him, and that’s the key to winning him over.

Source:Elcrema

{Sometimes we are so deep in love with our partner that we don’t see the relationship is toxic and we need to quit ASAP.}

Here are 6 key signs it’s time to end your relationship

{{1. Physical abuse }}

Never stay in a relationship in which your partner abuses you physically. It’s wrong to justify the abuse you receive from your partner. Whether it’s the first time or the 29th time, physical abuse shouldn’t be tolerated.

{{2. Too much drama }}

A relationship with too much drama isn’t the right relationship for you. If there’s always crisis in your relationship, it’s time for you to walk away and save your energy for someone better. Too much drama in a relationship isn’t good for anyone’s sanity.

{{3. Your relationship is like a master and slave relationship }}

If your partner seems to be in more in control and tends to dictate everything that happens in your life, it’s time to quit that relationship. A healthy relationship is between two partners and not between a master and slave.

{{4. Your partner doesn’t respect you }}

Respect is an important trait every healthy relationship has. If there’s no mutual respect between you and your partner, even during disagreements, then it’s time to quit that relationship. It’s time to call it quits if respect is lacking in your relationship.

{{5. Your relationship lacks open communication }}

In a healthy relationship, partners maintain an open communication between each other. If you don’t feel comfortable talking with your partner about everything, then you are in the wrong relationship and it’s time to quit.

{{6. Your partner is deceitful }}

You do yourself more harm than good being in a relationship with a deceitful partner. You should never be in a relationship with someone who withholds information from you, cheats on you or lies to you.

{Charity they say begins at home, and it’s very important to love yourself. It’s not selfish to love yourself, as long as you go about it the right way.}

These are 5 very important reasons you should love yourself:

{{1. You know your value}}

You understand your worth and your value when you love yourself, and when you know how valuable you are, you wouldn’t succumb to the trash people throw at you. People will value you more when you value yourself.

{{2. You can love others better }}

When you are able to love yourself genuinely, you then make it easy to love others as well. When your heart is full of love; you wouldn’t find it difficult to see the good in others, and live without jealousy. You’ll love people more and be kinder and more generous to others, when you love yourself.

{{3. You experience peace}}

When you love yourself, you feel peace within you; you feel contented with yourself, and you feel grateful for all the things going on in your life, even when things seem to be going the wrong way.

{{4. You don’t live in competition with others}}

When you love yourself, you won’t be in competition with anyone; you would be contented and satisfied with what you have, and you wouldn’t be envious of other people’s success.

{{5. You make it easy for people to love you }}

The kind of life you live when you love yourself makes it easier for people to love you. People feel more comfortable with you when they know you value yourself, you are at peace with yourself and you aren’t in competition with anyone.

Loving yourself is probably the best thing you can do for yourself.

Source:Elcrema

{Communication is important in every relationship and you keep the spark in your relationship alive when you say the right things.}

Here are 8 things your partner wants to hear from you regularly

{{1. “You make a difference in my life”}}

There are certain efforts your partner make always that makes a difference in your life and it’s important you appreciate your partner for such efforts as you make him/her do even more when you appreciate.

{{2. “You are my priority”}}

Your partner has to be your priority and you make your partner feel extra special when you tell him/her that you consider him/her before you do anything or take any decision.

{{3. “I can’t find anyone better”}}

You make your partner know he/she is the best in the world when you tell him/her that you can’t find anyone better.

{{4. “I love being with you”}}

When was the last time you told your partner this? It’s important you always remind your partner that you enjoy his/her company and love being with him/her.

{{5. “How was your day?”}}

This is a very important question everyone should ask their partner everyday. Small gestures like asking your partner about his/her day can do a lot more than you can imagine for your relationship.

{{6. “I’m sorry”}}

Saying sorry when you are wrong doesn’t make you less of who you are, it only shows how much you value your relationship. If you value your relationship, you should be brave enough to admit your mistakes and apologise.

{{7. “I like it when you do that”}}

Appreciating the little things in a relationship matters so if you really like something your partner does, don’t forget to let your partner know.

{{8. “I love you”}}

You should never let a day pass without telling your partner you love him or her. Always remind your partner of how much you love him/her.

Source:Elcrema

{There are certain mistakes both men and women make that can affect even the cutest relationship. In this article however, I want to concentrate on huge relationship mistakes most women make.}

Below are 6 huge relationship mistakes most women make

{{1. Too hard to satisfy }}

You make yourself a difficult person to live with when you make yourself too difficult to please. I am not saying you shouldn’t have standards but trying to be a perfectionist will hurt your relationship because no man is perfect. Every one comes with flaws including you.

{{2. You don’t know your value }}

Men would treat you poorly if you don’t know your value as a woman. You do not your value as a woman if you go for men who are unavailable, you let a man treat you bad and still stay, you are afraid to ask for what you want in a relationship and you feel you aren’t good enough for him.

{{3. You don’t give }}

Some women expect their man to always give them the things they want but never bother to give their man. This is wrong. Love is about giving and you can’t claim to love him if you aren’t willing to give him. Take your man out on a date and buy him gifts regularly too. Love is about giving.

{{4. You don’t accept him for who he is}}

Nothing turns a man off like meeting a woman who tries to change major things about him. Before you try changing your man into someone else, you should ask yourself if you would be willing to do same too if he wants to change you? You should learn to accept your partner for who he is. If you can’t accept him for who he is, then don’t date him.

{{5. You don’t appreciate things he does for you }}

Your man owes you nothing so don’t go into a relationship thinking a man owes you the world just because you are a woman. It’s important you appreciate the things he does for you no matter how little it is. Having an attitude of entitlement is a huge mistake many women make.

{{6. You create too much drama }}

Nothing tires a man fast than being in a relationship with a woman who creates too much drama. You can handle issues in your relationship without having to be dramatic about it.

{Traditionally, before a man or a woman decides to get married, the father ought to give his son some words of advice before he takes that next big step, and the mother ought to do likewise to her daughter before she gets married.}

The advice a parent gives to the child before they venture into marriage can go a long way in preparing that person mentally and emotionally for marriage, and that can go a long way in making a marriage peaceful.

With marriage breaking up easily these days, and divorce happening too frequently, these are some of those pieces of advice many parents forget to tell their children before marriage.

{{1. When one partner is angry,the other should be calm }}

This is probably the biggest piece of advice you can get about having a peaceful marriage. When one partner is angry, the other ought to be calmer. When you and your partner are angry at the same time, then problems that will kill the peace of the home will definitely come up.

{{2. Don’t take everything seriously }}

Not everything your partner says or do should be taken seriously. Try not to be always serious; you choke your marriage when you do this. Loosen up a little, learn to take a joke and be more cheerful.

{{3. Every day should be a new day }}

Every day should be treated as a new day; the troubles, misunderstanding and aggression of the previous day shouldn’t enter the next day. Every day is a new day and should be treated so.

{{4. Arguments shouldn’t be a battle }}

Arguments with your partner shouldn’t be treated as a battle; it’s not a win or lose situation, and shouldn’t be treated so. There’s wisdom in learning to back down sometimes.

{{5. Letting go sometimes show maturity }}

You’ll save your marriage a lot of stress if you can learn to let go. The inability to let go is what kills the peace in most marriages.

{{6. Settle your differences on time }}

Learn to settle your differences early enough, so that love can have enough room to grow.

7. Don’t always wait for your partner to take the first step in reconciliation. A lot of partners make this terrible mistake, and it hurts the peace of many marriages. When there’s a problem between you and your partner, it ought to be fixed — not left alone. Taking the first step to reconciliation clearly shows how mentally ready you are for marriage.

8. Watch what you say to your partner, especially when you are angry. Words can bore large holes in your partner’s heart and you wouldn’t know.

Many parents no longer give their children sound marital advice anymore; but if you want to experience peace in your marriage, then you should have these tips at your finger tips.

Source:Elcrema

{Staying motivated will keep the hunger in you, to work hard to achieve your goals and dreams. When you are motivated, you have that extra zeal to push for your aim, but the same cannot be said when your motivation has been dented.}

Unfortunately, people hurt their own motivation and kill their drive to reach certain heights.

This is how you to do that?

{{1. You doubt yourself }}

Success starts with you; it starts with you believing in yourself, and you believing that you can achieve it. When you have doubts in yourself and you don’t believe you can do it, then your motivation will gradually diminish till there’s nothing left.

{{2. You let things distract you }}

If you want to maintain your motivation, you should be able to ward off distractions. Distractions come in many forms, and if you don’t keep it away, you’ll easily lose focus.

{{3. You keep procrastinating }}

When you keep postponing the things you ought to do now, you make it more difficult for you to even do them at a future date, and it wouldn’t take long for your motivation to be lost thereafter.

{{4. You see challenges as the final stop }}

Challenges will definitely come, some things will definitely look difficult to overcome, but the way you see these challenges can go a long way in determining how successful or unsuccessful the relationship could be.

Motivation can easily die off, if you let it to, and these are some of the ways you hurt your motivation.

Source:Elcrema

{If you notice most of the signs listed below in your relationship, you are definitely headed for heartbreak sooner or later.}

{{1. Your boyfriend doesn’t prefer to you as his girlfriend }}

If your boyfriend never refers to you as his girlfriend in public, you should know you aren’t his girlfriend and probably will never be. He will break your heart later if you don’t leave now.

{{2. He has another woman in his life }}

You are headed for a heartbreak if your boyfriend has another woman in his life. A man who makes you his girlfriend while in a relationship with another girl will definitely date another girl while he’s still dating you.

{{3. He avoids meeting your family }}

A man who avoids meeting your family isn’t interested in having a future with you and a man who isn’t interested in having a future with you will definitely break your heart.

{{4. He keeps hiss phone away from you }}

You are headed for a heartbreak if your man’s phone is out of bounds to you. This attitude shows he has a lot to hide and your heart could be at risk.

{{5. He rarely communicates }}

He rarely calls you and only does that if he wants sex. A man who isn’t willing to communicate with you regularly isn’t interested in you. He will break your heart sooner or later.

{Men are naturally visuals so that’s why you will find so many men become defenseless when they meet a really beautiful woman.}

Having a very beautiful girlfriend also comes with its own problems. Here are 7 struggles men with a pretty girlfriend go through

{{1. Every guy wants your girlfriend }}

One problem with dating a very beautiful woman is that every guy including some of your friends want your girlfriend. It’s really difficult for her to go out alone without getting the attention of other men. This brings us to number two struggle.

{{2. Jealousy may become an issue }}

Due to the numerous attention she seems to get from other men, jealousy might rear its ugly head if the man isn’t careful. Most guys will definitely agree with me that they have been jealous at least once while dating a very beautiful lady.

{{3. You worry about other guys trying to sleep with her }}

Lots of guys will still want to have a pretty woman in his bed even when he knows she has a boyfriend and this is a big struggle guys with pretty girlfriends go through. No matter how much you trust her, you know that guys will always come up with excuses to talk to her.

{{4. She knows she’s hot and she might use it against you }}

One problem with dating a very pretty lady is that she knows she’s pretty and she might use it against you. She might end up using her pretty looks to manipulate you into getting everything she wants. This brings me to number 5.

{{5. You are so scared of losing her and can even go broke just to keep her }}

Another problem lots of guys with a pretty girlfriend go through is that they know every man wants her so they do everything not to lose her. You are ready to go broke just to keep her because you know other men will be willing to snatch her from you if she’s not satisfied.

{{6. You are invisible when you go out with her }}

No one seems to notice you when you go out with her as all the attention seems to be on her. You become invisible when you go out with her because everyone becomes captivated by her beauty.

{{7. You may stay with her for the wrong reasons }}

Some guys with pretty girlfriends only stay with her just because she’s beautiful. She might be annoying, an egomaniac and unfaithful but you just can’t quit the relationship because she’s so beautiful. So many guys are in unhealthy relationships just because they have been blinded by her beauty.