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{Women take time out to look good and try to make a good impression whenever they leave the house, and they often wonder what most men are often attracted to the most in a woman. Today is your lucky day ladies, there is a study that shows the list of what a man notices first when he meets a lady, and her boobs doesn’t come number one.}

A 2013 study by Murine eye drops took a survey of 1,000 men and it found that the first thing a man notices in a woman is her eyes, then her smile, before her boobs. Over 70 percent of the men admitted that the eyes of a lady are what they notice first.

According to a spokesperson for Murine eye drops: “Eyes usually tell us a lot about a person so we aren’t surprised that eyes are what draws us to the opposite sex.

“Until you get to talk to a person for the first time, all you have to go on is the way they look, a simple smile is also something that both genders notice in each other.”

In order of first to tenth, below are the ten parts of a woman a man notices at first:

Eyes

Smile

Boobs

Hair

Weight

Legs

Dress sense

Bum

Height

Skin

The study found that rather embarrassingly, one in five men have walked into another person when their eyes have landed on the opposite sex.

The study also found that two-thirds of men are confident enough to tell a stranger they had a specific nice feature.

Also, one in four men has been caught by their partner staring at another woman.

Well, ladies can use this to their advantage to being attractive, and according to the spokesperson for Murine: “Getting attention from the opposite sex boosts your confidence so using your eyes and smile in positive ways really gives you a good chance of getting welcomed attention, even if it’s innocent.”

But, can we really say the eyes of a woman and her smile are what a man first notices? Definitely not with Nicki Minaj.

Source:Elcrema

{If you find most of these signs in your relationship, then your relationship is one-sided.
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1. Your partner isn’t involved in anything

Your relationship is one-sided if it’s always you responsible for making plans in the relationship. Your partner is never involved in anything.

{{2. Your partner makes no effort to involve you }}

Your relationship is one-sided if your partner makes no effort to involve you in his/her life despite your efforts to involve your partner in your life. Your partner tries to keep his/her life private and you don’t know much about your partner’s family and friends and your partner makes no effort to change that.

{{3. Your partner is never there for you }}

Your relationship is one-sided if you are always there for your partner but your partner is never there for you. Your partner is always no where to be found when you need him/her.

{{4. You always apologize for everything }}

Your relationship is one-sided if you always have to apologise for everything. You find yourself apologising for things you shouldn’t apologise for.

{{5. Your partner prefers other things to you }}

Your relationship is one-sided if your partner would rather do something else than spend time with you. Even though you love spending time with your partner, your partner doesn’t enjoy spending time with you.

{{6. You alone initiate communication }}

Your relationship is one-sided if it’s just you initiating communication. If you don’t call or text your partner, you will never hear from your partner even if several days have gone by.

Source:Elcrema

{There are some characters you exhibit that will make people just choose to dislike you. Sometimes, they might not choose to dislike you, but your actions and habits could make them have a bad feeling about you.}

{{Characters like these below tend to draw dislike from people:}}

{{1. You don’t have respect for others}}

Being disrespectful to other people will generally make people to dislike you. Even if you are in a higher position than them; people want to be respected at all times.

{{2. You always cause a scene}}

There are people who always have drama around them, and choose to cause a scene wherever they go. People like these are generally disliked.

{{3. You don’t know how to relate with others}}

Knowing how to talk to people, knowing the right things to say and things you shouldn’t say, will make people either love or hate you. If you don’t know how to relate with people, they’ll dislike you.

{{4. Too much Pride}}

No one likes a proud person; being too full of yourself and looking down on other people will cause people to dislike you.

{{5. You are selfish}}

Selfishness is another bad character that draws dislike. When you choose to think of yourself alone, you most certainly draw dislike to yourself.

{{6. You are greedy}}

Greedy people are hated wherever they go; greediness is even worse than selfishness, and it doesn’t show any good in you.

{{7. You never want the good of others}}

People who get jealous and envious at other people’s success, rather than celebrating with them will also be disliked. You give a bad report about yourself when you can’t be happy for someone else.

{{8. You make life a competition}}

Life isn’t a competition; but when you are in steady competition with everyone around you, and make everything a competition, then you will cause people to dislike you. Living a competitive lifestyle will never draw the praise of people.

These above-mentioned characters will make people choose to dislike you. You make it hard for people to like you when you live your life like this.

Source:Elcrema

{It’s certainly true that there are no perfect men but many marriages would be successful if men strive to become good husbands to their wives.}

Here are 10 things every husband should do for his wife

1. Every husband should take into account how his wife feels. Ensure you value your wife’s feelings.

2. Do not be too busy for wife. Spend quality time regularly with your wife.

3. Every husband should trust his wife. You cause cracks in your marriage when you doubt your wife.

4. Help your wife with house chores without her asking you.

5. Always remember days that are important to your wife like birthdays, anniversaries etc.

6. Every husband should know the likes and dislikes of his wife. Know her hobbies, the movies she likes etc.

7. Every husband should be transparent and hide nothing from his wife.

8. Every husband should treat his wife like the most important woman in the world because that is what she is to you.

9. Every husband should believe in his wife and also believe in her dreams and goals whether he supports them or not. If it makes her happy, support her.

10. Every husband should do everything that he can to make his wife feel better when she’s sad.

Source:Elcrema

{Are you worried you don’t last long enough in bed? These tips below will do wonders for you
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1. Having expectations puts you under unnecessary pressure. If you want to last long in bed, you have to free your mind of every sexual expectation.

2. Don’t rush the sex. Start slowly and you’ll end up lasting longer.

3. Squats can help you boost your performance in bed.

4. Strengthening your pelvic muscles will help you last longer in bed and kegel exercise is the best way to strengthen your pevic muscles.

5. Alcohol isn’t good for your sex life. If you want to perform better in bed, stay off alcohol.

6. What you eat is important if you want to improve your performance in the bedroom. Eat a well-balanced diet.

7. Blood circulation is important and to improve your blood circulation, get a good massage from your partner.

8. Stress kills your performance in bed. If you want to last longer in bed, take time to relax.

9. Lack of sleep isn’t good for your sex life. If you want a better performance in bed, focus on getting better sleep.

10. Eat good quality protein regularly like fish, chicken, egg whites and low-fat milk and milk products.

11. Exercise regularly if you want to last longer in bed. Exercise is a great way to increase your stamina in bed and boost your blood circulation.

12. Men who use condoms last longer in bed compared to men who don’t.

13. Having sex more often will not just make you an expert, it will also build your stamina in the bedroom.

14. Maintaining a healthy weight will also improve your performance in bed.

Source:Elcrema

{Women complain most times about their inability to reach orgasm, and it isn’t just about the women, men also complain when their lady is unable to reach orgasmic heights; it kills the ego in a man when he feels he cannot satisfy his partner.}

Surprisingly, research has revealed that there could be so many things hindering a woman from reaching orgasm which she isn’t even aware of.

9 things women should be wary of as regarding their orgasm:

{{1. Feeling bad about yourself }}

The way a woman feels about herself can affect her orgasm unknowingly to her. If you feel good about yourself it would help your body’s response to a better sexual desire; if you feel bad about yourself, it would be harder to enjoy sex and it would even be more difficult to reach orgasm as you don’t enjoy the sex. Exercising would help a lot as it improves blood flow and when there is adequate blood flow to the genital, it would improve orgasmic level.

{{2. Sitting for too long on a chair }}

You might be busy at work on a chair and think it’s okay to seat for too long but it isn’t, a little stretch and walking around would help you a lot. When you sit for too long, it could shorten the muscles of the pelvic floor and by this, the tightness of the muscles can be a hindrance to orgasm.

{{3. Antidepressants }}

If you are stuck with taking antidepressants then you should watch this as it could possibly affect your orgasmic level. Research has shown that up to 96 percent of women who take antidepressants report a sexual side effect of the drug. However, exercising can help alleviate the mood killing effect of antidepressants.

{{4. Lack of concentration }}

Some women don’t know this, but concentration is highly important if you are going to attain climax. It isn’t just about hitting the sheets but it’s about using the right frame of mind. When your mind is carried away from the moment, you can never feel that drive to reach climax. Lack of concentration kills orgasm.

{{5. Unnecessary talking }}

Some people are turned on by erotic words during sex; however, unnecessary chatter can kill the mood. Fewer words and more action would be a better suggestion. Talking too much can actually turn your partner off, and not just your partner, it can also kill your concentration level.

{{6. Too much alcohol }}

A little booze might stir you up to have sex, but anything massive can impair your concentration level during sex and it would have an adverse effect on your orgasmic level. Drunken sex can impair judgement and concentration level during sex—two prerequisites for reaching climax.

{{7. You don’t drink enough water }}

Lack of water can also affect your orgasmic level. Our bodies need water to function well and a lack of it can lead to poor orgasmic level as well. With water and other hydrating fluids, you would have a surer orgasm than without it.

{{8. You don’t know how your body works}}

Every woman should know how her body works and the right places that make her more sensitive to orgasm, but not every woman knows this. According to experts the most important aspect for any woman wanting to become orgasmic is to explore her own body and discover what she likes, what feels good and how to have orgasms alone before engaging in sex with a partner.

{{9. Excessive wearing of high heels }}

Christian Louboutin became famous for saying that high heels are a sexual abuse because the arch of the foot is exactly the same position as a woman’s foot when she orgasms. So even when you know that high heels are extremely sexy you should be cautious about it as too much of it could just be hindering your orgasm.

Almost each year, research is being carried out for causes and solutions to why most women can’t reach climax. Studies have shown that only 25 percent of women orgasm during sex while 75 percent need an extra sort of stimulation to make them orgasm and worse still, 10 to 15 percent have never reached orgasm.

There are a thousand and one reasons as to this and these nine tips could go a long way.

Source:Elcrema

{There are certain promises you should make to your partner and also keep if you want a solid relationship.}

{{Check them out below}}

1. Promise to always tell your partner the truth.

2. Promise to love and support your partner always.

3. Promise not to look for who to blame when something goes wrong but instead try to fix it.

4. Promise not to be a controlling partner.

5. Promise your partner that he or she will always come first.

6. Promise to continually put effort into making your relationship work.

7. Promise to spend quality time regularly with your partner.

8. Promise to never threaten your partner.

9. Promise to make your partner feel safe and comfortable always.

10. Promise to always cherish your relationship.

11. Promise to always have regular date nights with your partner.

12. Promise to accept all of your partner.

13. Promise to always listen to what your partner has to say.

14. Promise to be gentle with your partner.

15. Promise to give your partner full access to your heart.

16. Promise to be open about your sex life to your partner.

17. Promise to be there for your partner when your partner is hurting.

18. Promise to always love your partner no matter what happens.

Source:Elcrema

{It’s certainly true that there are no perfect men but many marriages would be successful if men strive to become good husbands to their wives.}

Here are 10 things every husband should do for his wife

1. Every husband should take into account how his wife feels. Ensure you value your wife’s feelings.

2. Do not be too busy for wife. Spend quality time regularly with your wife.

3. Every husband should trust his wife. You cause cracks in your marriage when you doubt your wife.

4. Help your wife with house chores without her asking you.

5. Always remember days that are important to your wife like birthdays, anniversaries etc.

6. Every husband should know the likes and dislikes of his wife. Know her hobbies, the movies she likes etc.

7. Every husband should be transparent and hide nothing from his wife.

8. Every husband should treat his wife like the most important woman in the world because that is what she is to you.

9. Every husband should believe in his wife and also believe in her dreams and goals whether he supports them or not. If it makes her happy, support her.

10. Every husband should do everything that he can to make his wife feel better when she’s sad.

Source:Elcrema

{If you are lucky as a man to find a woman you love who has most of the qualities listed below, you should never let her go.}

1. If she’s kind and attentive to your needs as a man, you should never let her go. A woman who cares for you as much as she cares for herself is a keeper.

2. You should never let her go if she’s authentic and doesn’t pretend to be someone else.

3. Every man needs a woman who brings meaning and direction to his life. So if she’s supports your career and goals no matter how unrealistic everyone else thinks they are, you should never let her go.

4. Beauty definitely lies in the eyes of the beholder. If you see her as the most beautiful woman in the world, you should never let her go.

5. We all make mistakes and it’s important as a man to have a woman who is honest enough to tell you when you are wrong. If you find a woman who is honest with you, never let her go.

6. If you have a woman who doesn’t bear grudges but easily forgives, then you should never let her go. Forgiveness is the foundation of every relationship.

7. If you have a woman who motivates you to be a better man, never let her go. You improve yourself as a man when you have a woman who challenges you.

8. If you have a woman who is energetic, lively and fun to be with, never let her go. Sometimes life can become boring and monotonous, so having a woman like this makes life more interesting.

9. If she loves you with all of her heart, you should never let her go. A woman who loves you with all of her heart will genuinely dedicate herself to you. Such a woman is a treasure you should keep for ever.

10. If you have a woman who has a positive outlook about life, then you shouldn’t let her go. Negative people are toxic so you should appreciate your woman for being optimistic.

11. A relationship can only work if both partners are willing to compromise. So if you have a woman who is willing to compromise, then you should never let her go.

12. We can’t have a healthy relationship if we expect to have a perfect partner. Expecting a perfect partner leads to constant criticism. So if you have a woman who accepts your flaws, you should never let her go.

13. You should never let her go if she makes you feel like you’re in the right place by being with her. When you have such a woman who makes you feel that way, you don’t need any other woman in your life.

14. If you have a woman who has her own life and goals and knows exactly what she wants out of life, never leave her. Be with a woman who doesn’t need you but wants you.

15. If you truly love her and she makes you feel like the only man in the world, you should never let her go.

Source:Elcrema

{If you tick the following boxes, then, you’re definitely ripe to take the next step of getting married.}

{{You are faithful to your one partner }}

This is probably one of the biggest hurdles to a lot of people getting married. Because the point of getting married is to be with just one person for the rest of your life. If you cannot stay true and faithful to one man or woman, you can as well forget getting married because you wouldn’t be able to stay faithful to your partner in that marriage, and without faithfulness, what’s marriage?

{{You are happy with that person }}

Marriage is a lifelong affair. If you’re going into it, then it has to be because you are happy and excited about it. You must get married to the person you truly are happy with. Life’s too short to settle for less. Some people marry out of pity; you don’t want to do that, trust me. If you’re happy with the person you’re presently seeing, then, you’re most likely ready to be with them for the rest of your life.

{{You are mentally strong and mature enough }}

There is so much emotional stress and difficulty that come with marriage and dating. There’ll be quarrels, there’ll be disagreements and difficult times. If you have come to the stage of mental maturity where you think you know and understand these factors, and know that you can navigate through them when they hit you, then, you’re ready to take the next step.

{{You are scared to commit to marriage }}

This may seem contradictory, but then it’s been said that those who have doubts about how well they’ll do in marriage are the ones who eventually turn out the best partner in marriage. So if you have any fears about marriage, don’t let it deter you. As Long as you tick the other boxes; give it a go, and you’ll see how well things will turn out.

Source:Elcrema