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{Some women are described to be gold; women like these make the best wife, and are everything a real man wants in a woman.}

She’s a special and rare breed, and she has the following qualities:

{{1. She’s loyal }}

A woman who’s like gold is a loyal woman; she sticks to her man and is his biggest supporter. When she’s in a relationship, she gives her all to make it work and is all committed to making it a success.

{{2. She’s trustworthy }}

A woman who’s gold is trustworthy; she doesn’t give you a reason to doubt her. When she says she’s at a place, you know that she’s there. Her everyday life shows you that she’s to be trusted.

{{3. She’s understanding }}

A woman who’s gold is an understanding woman; she isn’t just bent on her will. She is empathetic and tries to always build an understanding relationship with her man. She forgives, she forgets and when she’s wrong, she apologises.

{{4. She’s appreciative }}

A woman who’s gold is an appreciative woman; she appreciates everything her man does for her, no matter how little it is.

{{5. She’s easy to be with }}

A woman who is worth like gold has an inner beauty that makes her stand out. She has an impeccable character that makes her easy to be with.

{{6. She has a heart of gold }}

And of course, she has a heart of gold. She loves genuinely, is kind, compassionate, forgives easily, lets go of the past and starts a new day free of the worries of yesterday.

Does such women exist? I believe so, but then gold isn’t something you can just pick on the street; it’s highly sought after and isn’t seen everywhere.

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{Dating can be hard work if you’re involved with the wrong person, just as its fun if with the right person. In a relationship, happiness and self-worth are everything. If the person you’re going to be with is going to zap your energy and make you feel worthless eventually, then, trust me, it’s not worth it. That is the reason it’s important to take note of the following as you go into that relationship.}

1. In a relationship, respect is everything. If your partner isn’t going to respect you enough, you might as well not be with them. It’s one thing if it happens just once, but it’s entirely different if it happens every time. If they disrespect you all the time, you should let them go, they don’t deserve you.

2. Do not be with someone who’s not sure if they want to be with you or not. Indecisive people are not worth being with. Don’t be a pity case for anybody.

3. You can’t buy love. Do not think you can get someone’s affection by buying them expensive gifts and throwing money at them. If they do show you love, they’re doing it because of the money and gifts. Let things flow naturally. If they don’t like you the way you are, nothing will change that.

4. Guys, it’s definitely not real love if she uses sex as a means of negotiation to get what she wants. If she does the same to you, she’ll do it to another man.

5. Before you throw caution to the wind, and love with your all, be sure they feel exactly the same, so you don’t end up regretting and hurt. You always know when it’s mutual. If it’s not, it’s not worth it.

6. Guys, desperation is not attractive. It won’t make you seem serious to her. It’s a huge turnoff to women (men too). Try to give her space sometimes.

7. If they keep comparing you to their Ex, it’s not a healthy sign. You may want to leave because you’ll never really cut it enough for them.

8. You can’t be the one to make all the efforts in your relationship; ‘it takes two to tango’ they say. If they aren’t ready to put in as much effort as you, you should look for someone who will.

9. Do not lose your identity to your partner. It’s a relationship, and you’re supposed to complement each other. If they make you feel like you need to be somebody else, it’s not worth it.

10. This may seem harsh, but it’s the truth. If your partner ever cheats on you, just forget it and move on. It’s a known fact that most cheaters always do it over and over again.

I hope you find this piece useful. Good luck.

Source:Elcrema

{Negativity is the opposite of anything positive; negativity will block peace, happiness, success and any beautiful thing that you should have in life.}

If you give negativity the chance, it’ll ruin your life. These tips will help you block negativity from ruining your life.

{{1. Choose to spend your time productively}}

If you’d notice, negativity is mostly borne out of idleness. It’s in your idle moments your mind tricks you into thinking negatively. If you can be more productive with your time, you wouldn’t have the time to let negativity settle.

{{2. Guard your thoughts }}

You have the power to control what you think about, and it’s important to guard your thoughts because it eventually becomes your actions. Channel your mind to more positive thoughts and negativity will be far from you.

{{3. Spend time with positive people }}

The people you also spend time with will have a lot of impact on your thoughts and actions. Spend time with positive people and you’d find yourself being more positive, no matter what.

{{4. Cut negative relationships }}

Just as you must spend time with more positive people, you ought to cut off every form of negative relationship. Relationships that are bringing you down, making you think low and channeling your positive energy in the wrong direction aren’t good for you – steer clear from such relationships.

{{5. Create time for happiness }}

Create time to be happy and spend time with people who make you happy. Spending time with family, friends and loved ones will boost your happiness, and happiness is a good source of positivity.

{{6. Choose your attitude }}

You could be confronted with situations that will make you unhappy, angry, sad, bitter and draw out other forms of negative attitude from you, but if you search deep within, you have the power to control your attitude and never let anything bring out the beast or ugly part of you.

{{7. Think of solutions and not problems }}

We’ll be faced with challenges and difficult situations – that is life for you; it wasn’t meant to be a bed of roses, and it’s in overcoming those difficulties that you become a better and stronger man/woman.

When faced with problems and challenges, think of solutions because that’s what will bail you out. Thinking of the problem will only ruin your positivity and it wouldn’t add any tangible thing to your life.

Have you been battling negativity in your life? You actually have the power to win that battle and let positivity guide you.

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{Being a perpetual latecomer is the worst thing you can do for yourself. When you are known to be a latecomer, the perception people will have of you will be very low.}

In whatever field you find yourself, being a latecomer will send across a bad image about you.

These are some of the ways people see you when they know you can’t keep to time.

{{1. You shouldn’t be taken serious }}

You lose your integrity in people’s eyes when they can’t trust you with their time. People wouldn’t take you seriously when they know you are always going to be late.

{{2. You are a terrible leader }}

A good leader leads by example, while a terrible leader tries to use force. Being a leader isn’t about the position you have been given or the title you hold; being a leader is about winning the trust of your followers, and you can’t do that when you are a perpetual latecomer.

{{3. You lack drive and focus }}

You can’t have the drive to achieve success and fail with your timing. The most successful people in every given field manage their time wisely.

{{4. You don’t care }}

People will believe you don’t care when you’re always late. It’s not about how you feel inside but what you show, and people will believe your actions than your words. You pass a message that you don’t care whenever you come late.

Do you have a penchant for being late? Don’t be surprised that you have a bad reputation; it’s all about the message that you pass, and you’ve been passing the wrong message.

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{Staying away from Sex in your relationship can be a tad difficult, especially seeing as it’s almost a mainstay in relationships today. However you can actually stay away from sex until marriage if you want to, it’s only a matter of you making a conscious decision to stay off it, and trust me, you’ll find that it’s not unachievable or impractical. I also believe that with the right help and guidance, it’s even easier.
}

So I have a few things I think would aid your achieving that goal once set.

{{Never be alone in a room or house with your partner }}

This is why group dating is strongly emphasised. You do not need to be alone to talk. In fact, when you are alone together, you would not be talking. You would be consumed by feelings which would lead you to breaking your promise of avoiding premarital sex unless you do the next best thing.

{{Know when to leave }}

You must be prepared to leave the scene of dating when you notice that you are alone or the mood has started to change.

The moments his friends who were all with both of you start leaving, it is also time for you to leave, as it could be arranged, so you don’t end up doing something regrettable.

{{Set boundaries from the start }}

It wouldn’t be a bad idea to set boundaries in your relationship from the start. It’s important to sit your partner down and talk about those things you think can jeopardise your chances of fulfilling your goal of staying celibate until marriage. Tell him or her those things you wouldn’t want to find yourselves doing, including dirty talking, touching, etc, as those can be a temptation.

{{Read up related subjects }}

If you’re going to be an auto mechanic, apart from going for training, you’re also expected to study related books in order to grow and learn more. The same applies here. Read books and write ups that pertain to celibacy and how to stick to set principles and goals. They’ll be helpful a great deal.

Good luck!

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{As you get past your teenage age and your early twenties, your friendships should begin to have value and a meaning, unlike your younger days when friendship was mostly for the fun of it.}

As you grow older, your friends should be people who will take you forward in life and not backward; just as you ought to make your friend a better person, your friend also should urge you to be better.

Any friendship that doesn’t take you forward will take you backwards.

These are those kinds of friendship you should avoid:

{{1. The friends who lead you to make bad choices}}

When you reach adulthood and you still keep friends with people who will lead you to make bad choices, then you’ll definitely make bad choices. How far can you go when you keep making bad choices in life?

{{2. The friends who make you feel empty }}

Friends who make you feel bad about yourself, who make you feel less of a person and who are in competition with you aren’t truly your friends, and such friendships will bring you down.

{{3. The friends that don’t take care about tomorrow }}

Friends who don’t care about the future, who don’t make plans for the future and who are only interested in the short-term could negatively influence you with their short-term approach to life. While it’s good to live life one day at a time, not having plans for the future, dreams and vision is another thing entirely.

{{4. The friends who never grow up }}

There are friends who never grow up; they still think and act like kids and never really try to take control of their life and what’s happening around them. Friends like this can have a negative impact on you if you aren’t careful.

{{5. The friends who always bring negative energy }}

There are those friends who never think positively; they are always negative minded and will never see the positive side of anything. Friends like these might influence you with their negative energy, and negativity is a sure path to failure.

{{6. Friends who aren’t ready to change }}

Bad communication they say corrupt good manners, and being friends with someone who is unrepentantly lazy, clueless and carries around so many baggage might just influence you in the long run. A friend who isn’t ready to change will be intent on bringing you down to his/her own level – and remember that misery always needs company.

Friends can take you far in life and friends can take you even more than two steps backwards; it’s all about the choices you make.

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{Everyone has the right to get married when they want to. Some get married at 21, others at 51, and some do not even feel the need to. So it’s a matter of choice and understanding. However I’m doing this for the benefit of those who are interested in marriage, and settling down with their dream man/woman.}

Marriage is a very important affair; it is something that can make you happier if done right and can be full of regrets if done with the wrong person. The reason why some people choose to marry late is because they are mostly afraid of the union. This is why you see people marrying when they’re getting much older. Of course, there are those who just chose not to, but a lot of people don’t because they’re just scared. If you fall into either category, perhaps, you’ll think different about marriage after you read this post.

So what is the benefit you stand to gain from an early marriage? Well, the first one is early childhood birth. I’m not about to say it’s always so, but in some cases of late marriages, you realise that by the time the couple get together, to make babies, there’s a brick wall somewhere, and that’s because by then, it’s likely that the reproductive health of one of them would have been deteriorated. Menopause in women is a very good example of this. But apart from that, men’s reproductive health also can be damaged over time due to the things they eat or take in their body. So it’s a safer measure to get married early so you get the children while your body can still allow it.

Early childbirth then has its benefits; from giving you ample time to focus on other areas of your life, like your career and spouse for example, to allowing you enjoy the fruits of parenthood. The earlier the kids come, the earlier you train them with the resources you have, the earlier they grow, and the earlier you enjoy the fruits of your labor.

So these are some of the things one could enjoy from getting married on time, rather than waiting until they’re older, but remember like I said before now, it’s all a matter of choice and what makes you happy.

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{Everyone loves a good wedding, and it could be said that couples in the 21st century have taken the wedding culture to new heights.}

A beautiful wedding doesn’t necessarily mean a beautiful marriage but these are the kinds of wedding people really like.

{{1. Wedding with a unique concept }}

There are different kinds of weddings, but weddings where there’s a unique charm about it will always have an impression on people for a long time. People want to go to a wedding and see something different.

{{2. Wedding with love }}

People want to go to a wedding and be reminded what love feels and looks like. A wedding where people feel the love in the air will always leave a lasting impression.

{{3. Wedding with good food }}

Good food, good drinks and you’d be surprised at how people will talk about your wedding for many years.

{{4. Wedding with organization }}

Whether it’s a big wedding or a small wedding, as long as the wedding is well organised, people will love it and have a good time.

{{5. Wedding that’s fun }}

In the 21st century, no one wants to go to a wedding and be bored. Everyone loves a wedding with an electric atmosphere, where you just go and have a good time.

{{6. Genuine happiness }}

Everyone loves a wedding where they can not only see but feel the happiness as well. The joy on the faces of the couple is transferable, and it could be transmitted to the bridesmaid and groomsmen, as well as the wedding guests. A wedding where there is genuine joy and happiness will always leave a lasting impression in the hearts of people.

At the end of the day, what matters most is the success of the marriage, but we all still do love a wonderful wedding.

Source:Elcrema

{One bad thing about words is that, once said it can never be taken back. Once it’s done, it’s already been done, and there is nothing you can do to take that away.}

Sometimes you might get to lose your cool with your partner and say things you didn’t really mean, but in that heat of the moment, there are some things you just shouldn’t say.

{{1. “You’re such a …”}}

When you’ve lost your cool, never attempt telling your wife a statement like this; it never ends well. The words that’ll complete that sentence are usually heavy and disrespectful, and a woman never forgets.

{{2. “I hate you”}}

You might take everything back, but a strong word like hate is something that’ll last in her heart forever, even if you don’t mean it. Every other thing you tend to do will only bring those words into her heart.

{{3. “Other women…”}}

Never compare your wife to another woman, not for any reason and especially during a fight. You make her feel less of a woman when you do this. In fact, the only message you pass to her is that the other woman is better than her.

{{4. “You’re being senseless”}}

Never give her the impression that she’s acting ignorantly; this is another thing that will break her heart. Whether you are right or wrong, it doesn’t matter. If you are having a misunderstanding with your wife, never make her feel like she’s ignorant, because she isn’t – else you wouldn’t have married her.

The words you say during a fight can leave a lasting impression in a woman’s heart, so you must be very careful with the things you say.

Source:Elcrema

{Life is a journey, and there’s always that point where you’ll start something new. In each phase you get to, it might just be a new start.}

These quotes will motivate you to give your best when starting something new:

1. “Everyone sits in the prison of his own ideas; he must burst it open, and that in his youth, and so try to test his ideas on reality.” – Albert Einstein

2. “I do not know anyone who has got to the top without hard work. That is the recipe. It will not always get you to the top, but should get you pretty near.” – Margaret Thatcher

3. “Beginning with audacity is a very great part of the art of painting.” — Winston Churchill

4. “Whatever you do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius and power and magic in it.” — Goethe

5. “The creation of a thousand forests is in one acorn.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

6. “Begin today. Declare out loud to the universe that you are willing to let go of struggle and eager to learn through joy.” – Sarah Ban Breathnach

7. “The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.” – Steve Jobs

8. “Start by doing what’s necessary; then do what’s possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible.” – Saint Francis of Assisi

9. “Life is not a dress rehearsal. Stop practicing what you’re going to do and just go do it. In one bold stroke you can transform today.”

10. “There are two mistakes one can make along the road to truth… not going all the way, and not starting.” – Buddha

11. “The beginning is the most important part of the work.” – Plato

12. “When I face the desolate impossibility of writing 500 pages, a sick sense of failure falls on me, and I know I can never do it. Then gradually, I write one page and then another. One day’s work is all that I can permit myself to contemplate.” – John Steinbeck

13. “The secret to living the life of your dreams is to start living the life of your dreams today, in every little way you possibly can.” – Mike Dooley

14. “Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.” – Theodore Roosevelt

15. “You will never win if you never begin.” – Helen Rowland

16. “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” – Maria Robinson

17. “If all you can do is crawl, start crawling.” – Rumi

Source:Elcrema