Category: Lifestyle

  • Rwanda:Why Child forced marriage is dominating Africa at a high rate

    Rwanda:Why Child forced marriage is dominating Africa at a high rate

    {Child marriage disproportionately affects girls and is found nearly everywhere. It is particularly widespread in South Asia and in sub-Saharan Africa, where more than half of the girls in some countries are married by the time they are 18. }

    Girls are forced to be married by their parents or male abductors for various economic and cultural reasons.

    UNICEF has publicly labeled child marriage as a human rights violation and is working to combat the practice by developing education programmes and empowering local human rights organizations in regions where the practice is widespread.

    Across the globe, children, primarily girls, are forced into early marriages.

    It is difficult to estimate the number of early marriages because many early marriages are unregistered and unofficial, but the highest rates appear to occur in Mali, Niger, Uganda, Burkina Faso and Cameroon.

    Girls as young as 8 or 10 years old are forced to be married, often with much older men.
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    Impact of Early Marriage}}

    Despite its pervasiveness, forced early marriage has rarely been viewed as a human rights violation in itself.

    Nonetheless, it violates Article 16 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, as well as several other human rights treaties, notably the Convention on the Rights of the Child, the world’s most widely ratified human rights treaty.

    Recently, UNICEF has publicly demanded an end to child marriages. A study on the practice declared that it often inflicts physical and emotional anguish on young girls and deprives them of the right to give free and full consent to marriage and the right to education.

    Early marriage is also linked to health risks, notably due to premature pregnancy. Pregnancy-related deaths are the leading cause of death worldwide for girls aged 15 to 19.

    UNICEF has also asserted that domestic violence is common in child marriages.

    {{Reasons}}

    In some cases, parents willingly marry off their young girls in order to increase the family income or protect the girl from the risk of unwanted sexual advances or even promiscuity.

    Virginity can also attract a particularly high dowry for families. The lack of employment opportunities for girls and the perceived need for children all add to the pressure for early marriage.

    Sometimes families will promise a newborn daughter to another family who will formally propose marriage. In the case of child marriages involving those under 10, a girl will live with her in-laws or stay with her own family until the two families agree to an exchange.

    In other cases, girls are abducted on their way to school or the market and are forced into marriage.

    In some places, abduction is viewed as a way of acquiring a wife. A man abducts a girl, hides her, and then rapes her until she becomes pregnant. Once he is the father of her child, he can easily claim her as his bride.

    Although the laws in most countries prohibit forceful marriage, after a girl is abducted her family often agrees to marriage.

    {{Prevention}}

    UNICEF has pushing for governments and local organizations to discourage child marriages by educating both parents and children about the negative sides of the phenomenon. It is also urging governments that have not already done so to increase the legal age of marriage.

    In addition, services must be developed to help young girls who are already married. They may be in need of special advice concerning abuse and reproduction.

    UNICEF has already developed the Sara Adolescent Girl Communication Initiative in ten Eastern and Southern African countries in order to educate girls and their families about information to which they may otherwise not have access.

    The initiative includes the development of a radio series which emphasizes the importance of staying in school and addresses issues such as HIV/AIDS, domestic workload, female genital mutilation (FGM) and early marriage.

    {{Local organizations are doing their part as well. }}

    For example in Ethiopia, The Family Guidance Association runs 18 clinics and more than 500 community-based centres in five of the country’s nine regions. The clinics promote safer sex practices and offer advice on relationships.

  • How to Celebrate Christmas

    How to Celebrate Christmas

    {Christmas is one of those holidays that just seems to be filled with cheer and wonder. Whether you are celebrating a secular or religious Christmas, your day is sure to be filled with happiness, especially with a little help from wikiHow. Read some helpful tips on how to celebrate a secular, religious, kid-friendly, or consumer-free Christmas after the jump. Happy Holidays!}

    1. Spread cheer. When you hear Christmas songs, instead of being grumpy (ever heard of Ebenezer Scrooge?) smile and whistle along. Being cheerful during the Christmas season really will help in spreading Christmas spirit to those around you, plus it helps you enjoy it more too.
    Wish others a Merry Christmas if you know they celebrate Christmas. If you’re not sure, just say Happy Holidays! Either way, you are spreading the holiday cheer.

    2. Enjoy your country’s Christmas traditions. Let yourself be a kid again and enjoy the holiday spirit. Whether it’s leaving cookies out for Santa Claus, watching for Baba Noel out the window, or leaving your clogs by the fire for Sinterklaas, indulge in a little holiday tradition and give into the magic.

    3. Decorate your house for Christmas. The possibilities for decorating are nearly endless. Put Christmas lights on your house. Hang mistletoe in the doorways (particularly if you know that special someone is coming over,) hang a homemade wreath on your door, or put Christmas figurines like Santa or Rudolph out on your counters.

    4. Buy and decorate a Christmas tree. Go with your family to your local Christmas tree farm to cut your own or head to a lot selling pre-cut Christmas trees. Pick out a Christmas tree that fits your house. After you’ve gotten your tree situated, wrap it in lights and begin hanging the ornaments. Don’t forget to water it occasionally and safeguard it from pets!

    You can decorate your tree with family heirloom ornaments or try something new by decorating a tree with Star Trek or superhero themed ornaments, or with little trains, or with Disney characters for example. It’s really up to you–be as creative or traditional as you like.

    5. Join up with friends and family. For many people, Christmas is about gathering with friends and family to enjoy each others company and celebrate the holiday. The day is a national holiday and most folks get a day off work. Take advantage of this time to reconnect with friends and family. Create your own traditions or celebrate with the traditions that have been passed down in your family.

    6. Invite your friends or family over for Christmas dinner. Make it a potluck if you want to keep expenses (and the workload) manageable. The important thing is just to get together with people you love and make the winter a little warmer by sharing the warmth of caring with them. Consider making a traditional Christmas dinner complete with roast turkey, or create your own traditions by branching out and making whatever you want!

  • Poor hygienity: A Primary cause to divorce and separation of couples

    Poor hygienity: A Primary cause to divorce and separation of couples

    {Some of the married families around the world declare poor hygiene, as one of the primary causes of devotion and separation of couples.}

    It’s said that most people concentrate on cleaning there outer part of the body while the inner part remain stagnated by poor hygienity.

    Most people tend to judge hygienity, based on their own outer observations.
    There are some of the people who complete and fulfill all the qualities of good hygiene, starting from their bodies, kitchens and bedrooms where they live.

    However, some of these private parts and areas remain a secret as they can’t be observed and judged by everyone.

    This has caused a very big negative impact to the families and couples especially the married ones, which may end up divorcing.

    {{How Poor hygiene may cause separation of lovely couples}}
    {{(IGIHE interviews}})

    According to the 34 year old Joseph, poor hygiene may cause stigmatization between couples and friends.

    ‘I can’t hesitate to separate with my wife if I find out she has that problem of poor hygiene in the bedrooms where we sleep and at home in general” Said Joseph.

    According to the 27year old Joy, she can’t also hesitate to live with a man of poor hygiene.

    “It hurts me to see a person dressed in an underwear for a whole week, while outside the body dressed in cool ironed dresses. “A person is supposed to wash his or her body once or twice a day”. Says Joy

    46 year old Rugendo says, “If you want to understand more about your wife’s hygienity, you will understand it from the bedroom. This is because a clean woman is not told to change bed sheets or Mopping the room”. Am always in quarrels with my wife about hygienity” He added

    Nirere a 30 year old female says good hygienity should not always be tested from ladies alone every time.

    “If we talk about hygienity most people immediately think about women and girls but I think that’s not the issue men should also be concerned.

    Do you know a man who can’t wash his beards and body before the wife reminds him, and how he smells when he comes near you, it hurts a lot. Says Nirere.

    Hygienity should be considered one of the best solutions to permanent marriage and friendship.

  • Nigerians Outraged by Aviation Minister’s $1.4 million Cars

    Nigerians Outraged by Aviation Minister’s $1.4 million Cars

    A government minister has angered Nigerians by buying two bullet-proof limousines for $1.4 million, in a country where 60 percent of people live on less than $1 a day.

    The Nigeria Civil Aviation Authority (NCAA) said it ordered the BMW 760 Li vehicles for 225 million Nigerian naira two months ago at the request of Aviation Minister Stella Oduah, saying they were necessary for security.

    “It is internationally customary to convey our minister and … foreign dignitaries in a security vehicle whenever they are in Nigeria,” NCAA Director General Fola Akinkuotu told journalists over the weekend.

    News of the car purchase was revealed in a document leaked by a whistle-blower to U.S.-based Nigerian diaspora website Sahara Reporters last week. Oduah’s supporters say the story is an attempt by her enemies to smear her reputation.

    But Nigerians, fed up with what they see as politicians’ squandering of public money on flash cars and houses while education and health budgets are squeezed, expressed outrage.

    “When poverty is eroding the lives of the citizenry, it is outrageous for such an amount of money to be used to purchase armed vehicles for the minister,” an activist group called the Africa Network for Environment and Economic Justice said, calling on called on Oduah to resign.

    Oduah’s spokesman Joe Obi was not immediately available for comment, but he was quoted in The Punch newspaper on Monday as saying the vehicles were needed because of “clear and imminent threats to her personal security.”

    Around 70 percent of the budget of Africa’s top oil producer is spent on running the government, leaving the remaining 30 percent for investment in badly needed infrastructure.

    Almost 100 million Nigerians live on less than $1 a day.

    “In another land, this act of recklessly spending public funds … would be a political suicide,” blogger Tolu Ogunlesi wrote in The Punch. “But this is Nigeria, where such irresponsible acts are welcome.”

    Adding to the controversy is that fact that the cars retail in the West at a third of the price, around $250,000. Akinkuotu attributed the price difference to a monopoly position enjoyed by the importer.

    Oduah, a close ally of President Goodluck Jonathan, upset relatives of plane crash victims this month by calling such incidents inevitable acts of God. There have been two deadly plane crashes in the past 15 months, including one that killed 163 people last year.

    {reuters}

  • Australian Capital Territory Legalises Same-sex Marriage

    Australian Capital Territory Legalises Same-sex Marriage

    The Australian Capital Territory has become the first part of Australia to legalise same-sex marriage.

    The ACT parliament passed a bill that will allow gay couples to marry, after a short debate on Tuesday.

    Celebrants will now be allowed to marry same-sex couples inside the ACT, regardless of which state they live in.

    Federal law, however, specified in 2004 that marriage was between a man and a woman, and the federal government is expected to challenge the move.

    The move was passed in the 17-member ACT Legislative Assembly, backed by Labor and the Greens, with the Liberals voting against.

    “There is no longer any excuse, if there ever was, to discriminate against same-sex couples in our community,” ACT Chief Minister Katy Gallagher told the parliament.

    “They are our children, our parents, our brothers, our sisters, our leaders, our business people, our mentors and our colleagues.”

    “More than anything, they are our equals. The Marriage Equality Act puts this fundamental principle and human right into law,” the Australian Broadcasting Corporation quoted her as saying.

    Ms Gallagher said that the first weddings could take place by the end of the year.

    wirestory

  • Gaddafi’s Compound to Serve as Public Park

    Gaddafi’s Compound to Serve as Public Park

    Muammar Gaddafi’s former military barracks and compound in Tripoli will be converted into a public park, the Libyan government has announced.

    Ikram Bash Imam, the country’s tourism minister, said on Saturday that the government has embarked on “preliminary works” in the development of the park in the infamous complex of Bab al-Azizya, or Spledid Gate, in the southern suburbs of the capital.

    “[Before Gaddafi’s rule] most of the area was already a park and it had been divided and a lot of trees had been removed as well,” Imam said.

    “We are now trying to return this area to what it was before, especially because it’s in the middle of Tripoli city, so it will be a green area to be enjoyed by the people of Tripoli and guests,” she said.

    The 6-square-kilometre base was originally built by King Idris, Libya’s ruler before Gaddafi, and boasted trappings of wealth well beyond the means of ordinary Libyans.

    In the 1980s, Gaddafi reinforced and expanded the compound with the help of foreign contractors by installing an extensive network of underground tunnels that stretched into several districts of Tripoli.

    The sprawling complex, which was a defining symbol of Gaddafi’s 40-year rule, was heavily damaged by NATO air strikes, and destroyed buildings and other debris from the fighting now occupy large areas of it.

    Agencies

  • President Mugabe’s Daughter to Wed Soon

    President Mugabe’s Daughter to Wed Soon

    {{Zimbabwe President Robert Mugabe Thursday said his daughter Bona, whose sweetheart Simba Chikore paid lobola recently, is expected to wed next March.}}

    He said the wedding would follow Bona’s graduation in Singapore next month.

    The President told the gathering that Bona, who holds a first degree in Accounting, would be graduating with a Masters on November 16 at a university in Singapore.

  • Morocco teens held for kissing photo on Facebook

    Morocco teens held for kissing photo on Facebook

    {{A Moroccan teenage boy and girl have been arrested for posting an online photograph of themselves kissing.}}

    The couple – aged 14 and 15 – had their picture taken by a friend outside their school in the north-eastern town of Nador and posted it on Facebook.

    They were held for violating public decency after a local newspaper printed the photo. The couple are due appear before a juvenile court next week.

    A campaign to post a million copycat photos was later launched in protest.

  • Report: Tanzania Most Unfavourable to be Senior Citizen

    Report: Tanzania Most Unfavourable to be Senior Citizen

    {{Mauritius is Africa’s best country to grow old in, a new survey shows.}}

    The UN-backed Global AgeWatch Index 2013, released Tuesday, also ranked Tanzania as the most unfavourable country on the continent to be a senior citizen in.

    The survey is the first of its kind to collate global data on the wellbeing of the elderly–defined as those above the age of 60.

    However the index ranked only eight of Africa’s 54 countries, due to what it said was a lack of comparable data.

    “Given that by 2050 there will be 215 million older people –representing 10 per cent of the global population – the lack of data [on Africa] is a key concern,” the researchers said.

    The 91 countries surveyed, however, constituted 89 per cent of the world’s older population, the report noted.

    The index also shows that the world is rapidly ageing, with a fifth of the population– some two billion senior citizens–expected to be made up of the elderly by 2050.

    This would outnumber those under the age of 15, and is attributed to better diets and sanitation, advances in medicine, greater prosperity and falling birth rates.

    Currently, those aged 60 and above number 809 million; 11 per cent of the world’s population, the index, compiled by the HelpAge International advocacy group and the UN Population Fund, said.

    The survey used four key indicators in the rankings; income security, education and employment, health status and an enabling environment. This new data would help bring in normally ‘invisible’ older people into public policy making, the researchers noted.

    “[This report] broadens the way we understand the needs and opportunities of older people, going far beyond the adequacy of pensions and other income support which, though critical, often narrows policy thinking and debate about the needs of this age group,” Prof Sir Richard Jolly of the Institute of Development Studies at the University of Sussex, said.

    The researchers also said that following the rankings of the BRICS countries—which account for 25 per cent of world GDP—it was apparent that there was no correlation between a country’s economic growth and older people’s wellbeing.

    A new landmark survey this week said that many Africans felt they were not benefiting from the rapid growth on the continent that has given rise to the ‘Africa Rising’ narrative.

    Mauritius’ top ranking is attributed to a long-standing commitment to social protection for its citizens, as well as older people’s positive perceptions on the quality of their life. The island nation was also recently ranked as Africa’s happiest country in another UN-sponsored report.

    Tanzania in contrast was said to be experiencing generalised insecurity, widespread poverty, and rapid social and economic change, with older people working well into old age.

    “Indeed, 73 per cent of older people remain economically active, with most engaged in small-scale agriculture,” the researchers noted, but added that the country was looking to provide universal pension as a first step.

    The survey notes that South Africa has since the end of apartheid had to reprioritise healthcare to benefit as many people as possible, leading to scenario where there now are only eight geriatric doctors for the country’s older population of four million.

    In Nigeria, the survey notes that the provision of basic healthcare and pension is sorely missing, despite its considerable oil wealth, while Ghana conversely has strong health services such as the National Health Insurance Scheme introduced in 2000.

    Sweden, Norway, Germany, Netherlands and Canada topped the overall rankings.

    Africa Rankings (/100)
    1-Mauritius 58.0, 2-South Africa 41.0, 3-Ghana 39.2, 4-Morocco 26.6, 5-Nigeria 24.0, 6-Malawi 17.8, 7-Rwanda 16.6, 8-Tanzania 4.6

    NMG

  • Miss Philippines Crowned Miss World 2013

    Miss Philippines Crowned Miss World 2013

    {{US-born Ms Young, 23, beat 126 other contestants and pledged to be “the best Miss World ever”.}}

    The competition was moved to Bali from the capital, Jakarta, because of protests from hardline Muslim groups.

    Security for Saturday’s event was high in Bali, a resort island with a majority Hindu population, but no further demonstrations were reported.

    Miss France, Marine Lorphelin, came second in the contest and Miss Ghana, Carranzar Naa Okailey Shooter, took third place.

    Wearing a glittering gown, Ms Young, who moved to the Philippines at the age of 10, wept as the Miss World sash was put over her shoulder by 2012 winner Miss China.

    She told the cheering crowd in Nusa Dua in southern Bali she would “be myself in everything I do, to share what I know and to educate people”.

    Our own Stella Nantumbwe did not make it to the top twenty.

    Here is a list of Special and sponsored award winners;

    {{Best in Talent}}: Samantha Mae Bernardo

    {{Best in Fashion Runway}}: Megan Young

    {{Miss Friendship}}: Zahra Saldua

    {{Miss Sports by FILA}}: Megan Young

    {{Miss Novu Hair}}: Patricia Ejercitado

    {{Miss Reducin}}: Megan Young

    {{Miss Redux Fat}}: Bianca Paz

    {{Miss Pantene}}: Zahra Saldua

    {{Miss Olay:}} Megan Young

    {{Best in Swimwear}}: Janicel Lubina

    {{Miss Laguna}}: Megan Young

    {{Miss Bold and Glamorous by Revlon}}: Megan Young

    {{Miss Figlia}}: Megan Young

    {{Miss Photogenic}}: Janicel Lubina

    {{Miss Bench Body}}: Megan Young

    {{Best in Gown}}: Bianca Paz

    {Megan Young}